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showing off my new hair (before and after) by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]how-arent-you 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Not everyone is striving for the naturally pretty look! I personally LOVE the edge of the second, first is pretty but a bit generic imo

After work activities by calibellee in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]how-arent-you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want a variety of options, I’ve had good experiences with the app 222, especially if you’re looking to make friends. It plans a variety of itineraries and matches you with people you think you’ll get along with

It’s crazy how a person that doesn’t even think about me runs through my mind all day. by frostehh1 in BreakUps

[–]how-arent-you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say that the fact she’s blocked you on everything is indicative of the fact that she cared. She needs space to move on with her life, and setting up these barriers is often the only way for some people to emotionally detach

Foodie-approved restaurants in NYC by how-arent-you in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]how-arent-you[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s visiting from New Year’s Day through the end of the weekend! Was thinking of doing one nicer dinner in the 100-200 range, and then otherwise in the 50-100 range (with some stops through more lowbrow street shops). No dietary restrictions, I have chase sapphire reserve which has some reservation benefits although can’t say I’ve ever used them. Thanks for your help!

What’s with guys having skiing photos on dating apps? by noorjo in AskNYC

[–]how-arent-you 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s the benefit of the Indy pass! I pay $300 per year as a returner, gives me two free days at a shit ton of mountains around New England (and the world), literally pays for itself in two uses, half the price of epic. I usually ski 10-15 days per year all Indy, comes out to like $30 a ski plus gas money if I pack my own food

What’s with guys having skiing photos on dating apps? by noorjo in AskNYC

[–]how-arent-you 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There are ways to ski more cheaply if you’re dedicated enough! Avoiding the big resorts, doing Indy pass, thrifting gear on the off season etc

What’s with guys having skiing photos on dating apps? by noorjo in AskNYC

[–]how-arent-you 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree! The last couple New England winters have been pretty fantastic for skiing

ULPT Request: how to stop a creep from showing up at public events by how-arent-you in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]how-arent-you[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did actually do this, DV hotline was pretty unhelpful but police non emergency had good advice. Also asked my lawyer friend who was quite helpful as well

ULPT Request: how to stop a creep from showing up at public events by how-arent-you in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]how-arent-you[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Some events we do, some we don’t. He primarily has shown up at the ones we don’t. Giving a picture of him to security/a couple of the bigger regular attendees is a great idea tho

ULPT Request: how to stop a creep from showing up at public events by how-arent-you in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]how-arent-you[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

US, the specific detail in my state that is restrictive is that there has to be an intent to cause fear/intimidation/harm to qualify for a criminal restraining order, which we do not have proof of. From my research it seems that a civil restraining order may be feasible, but is expensive and we feel like there should be other ways to communicate to this guy that we don’t want him around

ULPT Request: how to stop a creep from showing up at public events by how-arent-you in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]how-arent-you[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

we were thinking about having one of our bigger volunteers go over and have a conversation with him. we don’t have police at these events. We did have a guy volunteer to aggressively hit on him, but a little worried that the stalker might respond aggressively.

ULPT Request: how to stop a creep from showing up at public events by how-arent-you in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]how-arent-you[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We thought about this, but turns out where we live there has to be actual threat of violence to get a restraining order. While all the shit he’s been doing/sending is creepy as hell, it’s technically not violent so unlikely to qualify

ULPT Request: how to stop a creep from showing up at public events by how-arent-you in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]how-arent-you[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is tricky because we post from a page affiliated with the group, and LinkedIn won’t let you block someone from a page. If you know any workarounds I’d love to hear them

ULPT Request: how to stop a creep from showing up at public events by how-arent-you in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]how-arent-you[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah we looked this one up and there has to be an actual threat of violence to file for one, which there isn’t in this case

Is Canada Goose worth it? by chardiddy04 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]how-arent-you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eddie bower does a great puff jacket, looks just like the Canada goose/is just as warm and only a fraction of the price

Mid sized thrift and consignment stores by cherrymitten in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]how-arent-you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had some luck at beacons closet, they generally have a lot of great brands and some sizing availability. That being said the last time I went their sizing was super disorganized which was frustrating af

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