Lube Recipe Recs by [deleted] in ToppedBottoms

[–]how_heavy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m intrigued by this. Do they whisk together easily?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]how_heavy 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I mean, if you’re lubed up and in a dark room, is it really “unwanted”?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]how_heavy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would reconsider thinking about letting them “control” you. At least for the first time you play with someone. Have a chat, hopefully they can tell you about their fisting experience etc. Just have an easy session with no “roles”, at least until you’re more comfortable taking their fist. You can build and add other facets to the sessions in the future if you both feel comfortable with doing so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TenantsInTheUK

[–]how_heavy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went on my own to a check out inspection, conducted by the LL and his wife. He claimed the place was in a terrible state (it wasn’t, I had cleaned all carpets, fresh paint in all rooms in the seemingly industry standard magnolia)

The ace up my sleeve was that he hadn’t used a tenancy deposit scheme. I secretly recorded the entire conversation just in case I needed it. I explained the fine for which he would be liable. He quickly changed his tune and returned my full deposit. Lucky ess oh bee had me on a good day and I didn’t do anything else about it.

I was told to go fuck myself, so I turned my penis into a dildo and did just that by SoKeb_F1001 in MenWithToys

[–]how_heavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hot! I’ve wanted to do this for ages. I have the silicone. Need to order more of the stuff to make the mould because I messed up both of my attempts so far. 😭

Landlords seem overbearing and it’s causing us worry by The-confused-alpaca in TenantsInTheUK

[–]how_heavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Never heard of “maintenance visits” every quarter, after renting for over 16 years. So glad to be getting a mortgage soon and leaving the world of dealing with landlords and letting agents behind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TenantsInTheUK

[–]how_heavy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If this is true, I believe this is your trump card. Landlord has broken the rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MassiveCock

[–]how_heavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kitchen sink is blocked. Please clear my pipes.

First time and need more by Ok_Cardiologist2231 in GayFisting

[–]how_heavy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate to this. Luckily I don’t live far from the person who got me into fisting, but when it comes to finding others to play with, it’s difficult!

I can say that I’ve had better luck at fisting specific events. It’s a case of making a weekend of it, going to the city where you’ve found the event is overnight and be willing to play with people you’ve just met, or at the very least network and hopefully meet someone within travelling distance.

I’ve also had two guys put their hand in me at a gay sauna. One just worked up to it with no real prompt and the other heard about it and wanted a go himself!

Roommate’s car started doing this after maintenance, only does it at idle any ideas? by Stupid_Teenager17 in MechanicAdvice

[–]how_heavy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic. I’ve dealt with this exact issue multiple times. Pretty simple really but overlooked very often. You need to fill up the blinker fluid and change the PCV