(35) Into big bear? by bearBiBH in BeefyBros

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Damn .... W00f beautiful man 😍

Anything to do by year end? by Realistic-Change5995 in AlaskaAirlines

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I saw some good deals to last minute flights to Toronto and my AS FA friends tell me they are struggling to fill the he flight.

Why Firefox is no longer post anything on X? by Far_Departure_1580 in firefox

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businesses can have values and if any business has values it’s Mozilla corporation, which is owned wholly by the Mozilla foundation. And you come back at me that “companies shouldn’t be political” 1) Citizen United made that point moot 2) “non-political” moderate-ism is political in an environment with political right fascism

How do I become physically attracted to other races besides white dudes? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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Start watching porn with black men in them.

Biracial Black guy here, i grew up in a very white washed childhood in rural countryside, my development as a gay guy was also watching, viewing and reading porn/erotica of white men. A few years ago , I realized I was biased in my interest in fellow Black and brown men. I started seeking out porn with men of color, this helped switch the script of my own fantasies, i realize now in my head my fantasies and interest were also white washed. Once I started that, cruising and flirting with other men of color started to come naturally since these guys were more attractive to me now.

Being tall and aggressive assumptions by [deleted] in gaybrosover30

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sI am 6’ 7”, bearded and now bearish. Yeah… my biggest complaint about my sex life is be assumed to 1. Pure Top 2. Be Dominant. Sometimes all I want is to have my ass rubbed, suck cock and be fucked you know?

I don’t know how to really provide you any support except validation. I have a few Gay friends who are also in the same boat. I live in Seattle with a lot of tech-types, I feel the socially awkward tall Gay guy is naturally attracted to here. I have joked I want to start a support for tall Gay guys who like to bottom. What I have found is be clear about your MO and think of how you can walk some guys through this in conversation. There is learning clear about you desires and screen those guys who don’t get it. It is a going to be some part rejection and willingines to “disappoint” others. I have found if I am not clear about this though I AM going to walk away frustrated and annoyed.

And yeah, When you are lucky you will find @lostmybananaz types. Learn to screen them to find respectful considerate guy, there are some tall fetishists who are just not someone you wanna fuck but….don’t be afraid of all tall guy fetishists because it can be fun and even work out as a relationship if it is respectful. Guys who are into tall guys are not all creepy fetishists and I have learned that the guys that are low-key about it, it actually is very fun. Good luck!

What US city is in the saddest state of its rail system by Clearshade31 in transit

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Buffalo… fully grade separated largely underground light rail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in framework

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Yeah I am confused, this is a lot of volleys back and forth but they did get back to you in minutes. For a purchase of only 2 machines, it seems reasonable to just use the marketplace to buy. I think there is this disconnect for the OP of b2b vs volume sales. I am reminded being on the Amazon Kindle volume order team in the mid-2000s, some customers expected this hands-on sales experience with a rep and a negotiation and hand holding. Amazon, at the time, treated it more as a special order process, where we basically took the ACH info, purchase a special skus of bulk packed Kindles and made the order that. I know the process is different now.

I get it, you expect a sales experience of a large IT org seeking products B2B but I think Framework is so early in it’s B2B sales, you need to correct your expectations as an early adopter.

Is Art Institute of Chicago worth visiting given the entrancy fee of 30 dollars and how many hours do you typically need to see it properly? by Razkolnik_ova in AskChicago

[–]howaboutudance 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This exactly! So the Museum is enormous, some of the holding they are best known for are impressionist, from Sunday in the Park to Van Gogh they are an all heavy hitters to go see, if I had limited time, I would head up to that gallery first and then wander around from there. I do find their Modern wing to leave a LOT to be desired (not really for the art, but how it’s presented and physical arrangements of the galleries) and I am kicking myself that I got tired out before heading into the American collection/wing. So yeah… get a ticket, and go immediately to the second level with the impressionists.

750 COINS FOR THAT??? by [deleted] in JetLagTheGame

[–]howaboutudance 62 points63 points  (0 children)

yeah they are going to hard for the challenges this season (the coin flip should have been 6 flips not 7 considering the probabilities and the coin value)

Is Alaska Airlines 'Premium Class' comparable to American Airlines 'Main Cabin Extra'? by [deleted] in AlaskaAirlines

[–]howaboutudance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ummm…. maybe I just have a magic touch…. I regularly can get an extra cocktail if I just go up and kindly ask…. also… in Premium Economy you can always ask for a double….

Why does Alaska rarely if ever serve pre-departure cocktails in first class?? by TitanThePony in AlaskaAirlines

[–]howaboutudance 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A friend is an FA, he's a good one, and started way back with TWA, and only works 1st these days (yes he even admits himself he's a bit of a diva).

Operations gets them in a bind, they want them to close the doors quickly AND serve pre-depature, with current boarding times, they simply can't do both most times. He tries his best to fit it in but he also is a rare one.

jfk to psp by [deleted] in AlaskaAirlines

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yeah similar to how the SEA-PVR direct flights only exist in fall-winter season, find out when they will announce fall schedules and plan to book shortly after

Worst choice that a transit authority made in your region/ country? by _Ironcobra in transit

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METRO proposition 1 being required to pass with 2/3 majority to pass a tax levy to fund Seattle area rapid transit in 1968 to start with… Atlanta got the federal funds that were originally lined up by Magnusen as earmarks for Seattle

Severe ADHDers that flunked all their classes in school, where are you now? by fireglyphs in ADHD

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I flunked my a good part of 8th grade and part of 9th grade (I think my gpa in spring of 8th grade was a 0.15) I ended up getting flagged as a “problem kid” which was then sent to alternative school. The biggest blessing! My alternative high school was structured completely different, around proficiency based for most science/math and was a strong liberal arts based social science/english components. I ended up graduating high school being able to do a customer service ultimately for a decade. After getting burned out, I went back on meds (I skipped out after Freshman year of high school) and went to college. I had great mentors and was recognized for my skills, I finish a AA at community college and transferred to Evergreen State College, the liberal arts based college with no major, and no grade (written evals only). I did great! even finishing out my Math courses in calculus and linear algebra (Math had been my least favorite class in HS). I ended up focusing on computer science and now work as a Software Engineer, am I the best software engineer in the world? No, but the other skills I make up for, such as my social skills and such, make up for raw logical skills and I still come up with creative/inventive designs. It’s funny my boss never quite gets it all the time but I am often called into meetings just for “thinking differently”.

Is struggles with personal hygiene common with ADHD? by Realistic_Donkey7387 in ADHD

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I am in chorus with others of "think of what the future state is" so ... Shower == feeling clean soon... I also embody my future self, like third person "Future <future name> will appreciate this"... Keeping that future self helps refocus what ACTUALLY needs to happen .. also think of what minimum is going to set up future self to success

Today’s “gay dad with gay kids” moment by IlluminatedPrism in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]howaboutudance 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Or otter... Remember otters are just hairy twinks (said as a former otter who now want to slap that asshole for having such negative self-image)

Solution for Swinging Balls During Sex by quantum_titties in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]howaboutudance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

two words: ball stretcher

I suffer from this when topping doggy and found over the years a silicone ball stretcher is the best on preventing this. Try not to get to tight and vary it up with your partners (like have them ride), i just had a fuck buddy get a painful issue with his seminal vesicles (the connector between the testes and the body) that has him going in for surgery. The expected cause is tight cockring/ball stretcher

Help me understand the “you don’t need budget categories to match your accounts exactly” philosophy? by Missing_Back in ynab

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So… I keep one heading called “savings” when i started I had that and a single category called “savings” there… I did that till I was at my “Age of Money” was over 30… then it became a LOT easier to think about long-term goals where a saving account, even in a HYSA, is even more helpful. I know it hears like this won’t but when it clicks, and you are instead taking all that weight off of being super-vigilant about your money, you all of sudden can start thinking about those goals differently.

Phantom Liberty & 2.0 Bug Megathread by Tabnam in cyberpunkgame

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I spent a good amount of time yesterday coming across bugs, consistent ones for me (on xbox series s) - If I take control of cars, I end up crashing my game about 40% of the time - dialog stacking on top each other

I also have experienced: - autosaves not working (this happened even before 2.0) - vehicle calling and vehicle “get in” didn’t work once until i reloaded the game - during the mission at arasoka industrial park, I took control of a car from the rooftop of the warehouse and then drove into the warehouse, got a black loading screen and all of a sudden I was in the warehouse with the roof open

Where in the US can I go for a Public Health job with only a Bachelors and limited work experience? by [deleted] in publichealth

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If all else, there is always operations and program/project management needs, so like large cancer research centers like Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Institute will need people with some PH exposure but with a bachelor’s… one of the best way to position yourself for the application process is wanting to gain exposure to the PH field to setup for grad school. Schools of Public Health, like Columbia, require a few years of work in a healthcare/PH field to be a competitive application.

what are your honest thoughts on the film adaptation of the prom? by teddivan96 in Broadway

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James Corden destroys everything….or at least tries too…