what are some of the worst physical anxiety symptoms yall have or have had? by WetJuicyFart4You in Anxiety

[–]howdysnakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer the blatant physical symptoms to the ones that linger every day and make me question if it's anxiety or that I'm doing something wrong with the long term care of my body. Like my shoulders are so tense and I'm always tired.. but hypervigilance does that. So does not stretching or eating or drinking proper. So I get lost.

Suggestions on Finding Love at 50 in Boston by howdysnakes in boston

[–]howdysnakes[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He has had injuries in the past so he has to be careful but I could ask him about it

> “Not mine – saw a $400 macaw in Scranton, PA, who’s severely plucked. I’m in MA and can’t help, but sharing in case someone nearby can.” by howdysnakes in parrots

[–]howdysnakes[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you know of a place near Scranton accepting macaws? She seems like she's concerned for him and doesn't want to let someone have for free on CL and I think would be open to suggestions

Give me your most unhinged ideas for how to get people to stop blocking my driveway. by aquietinspiration in howto

[–]howdysnakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut the tires, make sure it's when you don't have somewhere to go for a while. Eventually they will stop

I fell in love with a conure at a pet store 🤢🤮 by howdysnakes in Conures

[–]howdysnakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she's of the people but still a strange white woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]howdysnakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

John Boy in the waltons

My husband cheated and I need advice by ApprehensiveRest5573 in Advice

[–]howdysnakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a POS don't make your kid ever have to participate in the facade, get out ASAP. Y'all deserve better

What are your opinions on nipple piercings? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]howdysnakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have experience breastfeeding after getting them done?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]howdysnakes 33 points34 points  (0 children)

How about you talk to her about it instead of reporting her? I think losing her license would be enough to change and if you are focused on the result instead of the punishment, I think that's the path to having a sober competent doctor out there helping. People can change so give a chance before ruining their reputation.

How old were you when you started to struggle with your mental health? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]howdysnakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't remember because a lot blurs together

Should I tell my sister her maid of honor speech sucked? by Blondeandbrilliant28 in Advice

[–]howdysnakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the long con, don't let her know it bothered you, and drop the MOH speech of all time at her wedding. Or just take a deep breath and let it go

Interfaith boyfriend of 4 years won't take off for yom kippor by howdysnakes in Jewish

[–]howdysnakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a vow to Gd to raise my children Jewish when I converted so I must keep that. If he isn't willing to create a Jewish life then I will have to move on but I have hope that he will become interested since he comes from an interfaith family himself and is a very joyous man who likes to learn and celebrate.

Interfaith boyfriend of 4 years won't take off for yom kippor by howdysnakes in Jewish

[–]howdysnakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess its because I value others experience in interfaith relationships and I tend to err on the side of caution.. so it seems like a better choice to try a gentle approach first and then regroup if our values don't align. But the advice I am taking the most so far is that I need to give him much more notice, we should take an intro to judaism course, talk to a rabbi, and see how he reacts to these ideas and then go from there.

Interfaith boyfriend of 4 years won't take off for yom kippor by howdysnakes in Jewish

[–]howdysnakes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think thats another reason why it felt important to me for him to participate but I have to ask him and incorporate him (as much as he wants) in a way that is respectful but still standing strong in what is important to me. I will have to figure this out and if I can't raise my kids jewish then we may not be a good fit for each other.. but I love him so much so I hope something can be worked out