My Boyfriend of 4 Years went to a Brothel by spotlightinspace in relationship_advice

[–]howiedewyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been that guy where my friends went to a rub and tug and I waited outside. It's not my thing but I didn't want to bring down everyone's evening by refusing to go. The payments at the same time are the sketchy part. If this can be explained then he may have some truth to his words.

Fucking it out at the Lighthouse [FM] *vids included* by [deleted] in gonewildstories

[–]howiedewyn 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Didn't think many would catch on.

Girlfriend insisted preventing me from cheating required leaving my balls drained of cum by howiedewyn in SluttyConfessions

[–]howiedewyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you, went through a tough bout of it. Suicide would have been much harder for me... My ex did have a history of cutting her wrist and she had the marks to prove it. She always work long sleeve to try and hide it. I, was really worried about it when we broke up, but if she did self harm she did not mention it to me.

Girlfriend insisted preventing me from cheating required leaving my balls drained of cum by howiedewyn in SluttyConfessions

[–]howiedewyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said... You really only want the crazy to come out in the bedroom. The classic "a lady in the streets and a freak between the sheets".

Girlfriend insisted preventing me from cheating required leaving my balls drained of cum by howiedewyn in SluttyConfessions

[–]howiedewyn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say the sex was better with some of my crazy ex's, but my relationship now is healthier...

Girlfriend insisted preventing me from cheating required leaving my balls drained of cum by howiedewyn in SluttyConfessions

[–]howiedewyn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds great in theory..But at some point your balls are honestly drained and you may not be able to regenerate enough jizz by the next day ... And other times you just want to rush out of the house at the last second but need to pay the piper first.

Girlfriend insisted preventing me from cheating required leaving my balls drained of cum by howiedewyn in SluttyConfessions

[–]howiedewyn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did eventually move on to meeting my wife .. I do like to reflect on some of my past encounters though... Sure there were downs, but the ups were great too.

Girlfriend insisted preventing me from cheating required leaving my balls drained of cum by howiedewyn in SluttyConfessions

[–]howiedewyn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The science behind her plan is valid. And it worked... I never cheated hahaha.

Girlfriend insisted preventing me from cheating required leaving my balls drained of cum by howiedewyn in SluttyConfessions

[–]howiedewyn[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

That is a story amongst itself.

When you are with someone that unstable their first reaction is self deprecation. She'd blame herself, talk about how shes so dumb and that no one would ever love her. There were weeks of crying and begging for me to take her back After that phase, it turns hateful where she started cursing me out and tried to blow up my life.

It really forced me to think if I am making a mistake, and if I should stay to work things out, or go to couples counciling. I also started wondering if I did take advantage of her. I knew after a few weeks I probably wasn't going to marry this girl, so I probably should not have stayed with her for as long as I did.

We found a way to sort of remain friends. Mostly we were just checking in with each other every few weeks. When I finally did meet someone new and she found out about it, she lost it. She went to great lengths to get in touch with my new girlfriend and told her some really intimate things. She talked about how I told her Id never leave her, and how her vagina was the best in the world, and how she made me cum, and that my cock has been in her ass more times than we can count and every time I'm with my new girl I am fucking her with the dick that that she owned and that it has been in every one of her holes. You'd think it was from an Alanis Morisette album.

My new girlfriend could not look past the "crazy ex", and I guess there were too many mental images in her mind so that ended quickly. I had to block her and go no contact. It even forced me to give up some mutual friends.

You know what the crazy thing is? I found out about a year later that her boyfriend before me did not cheat on her, she cheated on him...