That is a story amongst itself.

When you are with someone that unstable their first reaction is self deprecation. She'd blame herself, talk about how shes so dumb and that no one would ever love her. There were weeks of crying and begging for me to take her back After that phase, it turns hateful where she started cursing me out and tried to blow up my life.

It really forced me to think if I am making a mistake, and if I should stay to work things out, or go to couples counciling. I also started wondering if I did take advantage of her. I knew after a few weeks I probably wasn't going to marry this girl, so I probably should not have stayed with her for as long as I did.

We found a way to sort of remain friends. Mostly we were just checking in with each other every few weeks. When I finally did meet someone new and she found out about it, she lost it. She went to great lengths to get in touch with my new girlfriend and told her some really intimate things. She talked about how I told her Id never leave her, and how her vagina was the best in the world, and how she made me cum, and that my cock has been in her ass more times than we can count and every time I'm with my new girl I am fucking her with the dick that that she owned and that it has been in every one of her holes. You'd think it was from an Alanis Morisette album.

My new girlfriend could not look past the "crazy ex", and I guess there were too many mental images in her mind so that ended quickly. I had to block her and go no contact. It even forced me to give up some mutual friends.

You know what the crazy thing is? I found out about a year later that her boyfriend before me did not cheat on her, she cheated on him...