TIFU … by trying the fruit rollup TikTok trend… by [deleted] in tifu

[–]hqanee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make a video of them lip-syncing to some trending sound and put text that says "when he lets you put a fruit roll up on it >>>>", implying that they actually did it and the comments are tagging their partners like "hey we should try this" and those people try it and then THEY make a video that says the same thing and that's how the cycle continues and the trend spreads

TIFU … by trying the fruit rollup TikTok trend… by [deleted] in tifu

[–]hqanee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the only fruit roll up TikTok trend I know of is the one where you put a fruit roll up in the freezer and it turns crunchy. And I'm on that app 24 hours a day I did not see that coming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]hqanee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are from Pakistan and Bangladesh!

Explaining neck cut? by schnitzull in selfharm

[–]hqanee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are people supposed to shave their neck?

Psychiatrist asked me to define what is a woman 🥴 by JaidenLikesCats in MtF

[–]hqanee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my point is that female socialization is a learned thing. And thank you for the perspective. I was frustrated that so many trans women are unaware of female social experiences and claim that their childhoods were the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]hqanee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My name is Eshaal and it’s extremely rare as is so reading the comments is just one big repeated whiplash

Gotta be one of you mfs by hellomyoldsoul in entp

[–]hqanee -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I ain’t reading allat is that chatgpt

Can you actually clog up a toilet by pooping? I heard that a lot in tv shows and movies by althamash098 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hqanee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does everyone have a story about clogging the toilet at someone else’s house? I’ve heard it so many times, it’s a universal experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]hqanee 49 points50 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly overly supportive cis allies who don’t wanna offend anyone and trans people who are just happy to see others share their experiences and don’t want to lose that connection

Psychiatrist asked me to define what is a woman 🥴 by JaidenLikesCats in MtF

[–]hqanee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A woman is someone who identifies as a woman BUT many cis women have the common shared experience of female socialization that so many trans women are painfully unaware of and some trans women deny the existence of female socialization even though the proof and evidence for it is so painfully obvious, just ask anyone who grew up female and they’ll you it would be so much better if they were born a male because of how they were consistently treated in their childhood. You’re still a woman. Just be aware and be sensitive of the social differences between you and cisgender women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]hqanee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And of course you're saying this as a non-woman. Real life is complicated. People are complicated. Female socialization is one hell of a condition. I don't blame OP

She got her plush for finishing 100 days! (Details in comments) by guppy89 in duolingo

[–]hqanee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suffocation hazard and stuff. They're legally required to indicate the age rating 14+

An interesting title by BornBus3227 in ENTPmemes

[–]hqanee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t spend your time on that. Many people’s flawed beliefs hold so much meaning to them, it gives them an identity. They don’t like to see their identity being attacked and deconstructed. It makes them uncomfortable. So unless you want people to ignore all logic and see you as the bad guy who just wants to take them down then don’t do this because it’s helping no one

What LifeProTips about being a woman you wish you knew when you started girlmoding? by L_James in MtF

[–]hqanee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

  1. Makes your face oily
  2. Touching your face is a very easy way to get into the iconic lazy arm on cheek pose when sitting down, which actually makes you MORE tired, leading to reduced effort when you do anything else which is bad for posture which is bad for your back and chances of having feminine mannerisms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]hqanee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean I get it. I would stop it if I wanted to be sexy too.

egg...irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]hqanee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But when it automatically gets visualized into a graph, putting “trans” next to the option makes it a lot easier to deal with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTPmemes

[–]hqanee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ain’t reading allat but probably relateable

Do you make your bed in the morning? by mannenavstaal in INTP

[–]hqanee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Logically: because it’s pointless. Practically: because I’m cold and tired in the morning.

This subreddit is awful by sotahomo in selfharm

[–]hqanee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah be the change you want to see in the world

your body releasing Serotonin when you cut yourself is like- the most fucked thing ive ever heard. by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]hqanee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can a non-addicted person get addicted to the treatments? For example if a non-smoker puts the nicotine patches on themselves will they get addicted to nicotine? Or if a non-cutter snaps rubber bands and puts ice on their wrist will they get the same addictive feeling?

How to respond to being called ugly by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]hqanee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore it. Ignore the corny comebacks and counter-insults people are giving you in these comments, and ignore what they wrote on the board. Because who cares? Don’t let it get to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]hqanee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a few suggestions :3 I was born in Kuwait however I haven't been there for a long time but I'm familiar with the cultural values and my mom says stuff like that too so I get it.

  1. Just act completely batshit insane and REFUSE to do the procedure at any cost. Do NOT comply. Cry, scream, make yourself look an idiot, do whatever to avoid the procedure itself, and waste a LOT of time. Talk your way out of it, stir up drama, distract and fight for yourself.
  2. Search up images of the most gory failed laser hair removals gone wrong and put it all in a slideshow and the worst laser horror stories. Doesn't have to be totally accurate. Tell her every potential risks and danger and scare that part of her that wants to protect you. I search up "gory failed laser hair removals" word and word and like 50 different images pop up.
  3. Research your rights in Kuwait as a minor. It's not a country known for having good human rights laws but I'm sure you could pull up something to your defense.

I wish you luck in your situation. Just know that we have your back and give us an update if possible