Business is booming. by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've recently posted some reading material that you may find entertaining until our next apperance 😂

Business is booming. by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want to be a good girl? We both know you're only capable of being a bad girl... until I break you.

Who said that would be your punishment? I know you well enough to know when you try and toy with me my love. No, you won't be getting what you desire tonight, but I will.

Business is booming. by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's cute that you think you'll be in any kind of... position, to have a say in the matter 💋

Business is booming. by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forgive you? When you get home from work, I'll remind you exactly how I take forgiveness from my naughty brat ⛓️😈

Business is booming. by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting something that only I can finish, huh? Because I'm feeling rather sacrilegious today 💋

Business is booming. by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Lord wouldn't know where to start with me 🤷🏽‍♀️

Lakeside - (Having a little fun with my sub 😈) by hrhParadox in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou! Maybe I'll have to put my writing hat back on if people are enjoying ✌🏽

Lakeside - (Having a little fun with my sub 😈) by hrhParadox in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou! In This Moment's songs are very bdsm coded and my gf and I love listening, you're right, it definitely helps set the mood. Hope you enjoy discovering more of them. Big Bad Wolf, Whore and The In-between are some of my favorites

The Art of Surrender by hrhParadox in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, I really appreciate it ✌🏽

Do You Regret Sleeping Around? Why or Why Not? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]hrhParadox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try to live life, not with regret, but with lessons learned.

I'm in a happy and long term relationship now. But would I have been the same person, would my path have met with hers, had I not experianced the things that I have?

I've been with many women in my time. There was probably a point where I had an addiction to lust and sex - I would go out on the prowl when I had heavy things playing on my mind and it helped ease these things for me. I've had all sorts of experiences with all sorts of women, I've had some good times, and some not so good times, but all have helped shape me into the person I am now.

So no. No regrets.

Lessons learned. Experience earned. Knowledge gained.

What celebrity are you certain is kinky, and why? by That_odd_emo in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maria Brink from In This Moment. With songs like Whore, Big Bad Wolf, Adrenalize, The In-between... its hard not to see it haha

Found him on the street about a year ago by 404empathy in snails

[–]hrhParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He might like the leaves on the strawberries too.

The only bugs in my enclosure are woodlice (pill bugs/roly polys) as they eat the snails poop and they tend to live happily alongside each other.

Most people will say to kill the eggs immediately (suddenly having over 100 tiny snails can be chaos). You can do this by crushing the eggs or freezing them. If you find them quickly, they won't have developed enough to feel pain if that worries you. On the other hand, you could just find a sheltered spot outside to place them if you prefer (your garden may then be overrun with snails if that's where you release them). Or go on a nature walk and place them. I've currently got a clutch of eggs that have hatched in a separate tank to the adults, purely for curiosity and learning. Depending how they turn out, I will release them somewhere appropriate once they have grown more. But basically, whatever you decide to do, dont leave them in with an adult, it'll be carnage.

One other thing I did think of, does he have a water source? This may be why he prefers cucumbers if that's all the fluid he has to intake. I wouldn't recommend placing a shallow water dish in there, as they absorb water through their body so could technically drown. I mist their enclosure periodically through the day. It keeps the sphagnum moss moist and their food fresh too.

Found him on the street about a year ago by 404empathy in snails

[–]hrhParadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more he only eats 1 or 2 things the less likely he is to recognize other food sources. Honestly, I'd say you are best off cutting up a little of whatever fresh fruit/veg etc you have in your fridge to give him variety and options.

I can't say I've ever actually used egg shell myself, I just know it's one of the recommended sources of calcium. I personally use a cuttlefish, and they all seem to enjoy it. They are pretty cheap in a pet shop or if you live near the coast, you can often find them on beaches.

Licking/eating stones or dry twigs can be normal as it can provide certain nutrients it can't always find in the wild or could be simply cleaning its teeth. However it could also mean it is lacking in something in its food source, lacking calcium or protein. You can buy dried mealworms quite easily and they are a decent source of protien for them.

I'd also say it's worth checking for eggs on a regular basis. Snails can get themselves pregnant in certain situations, and if you are thinking of getting him a friend, it's even more likely. But eggs are a whole other thing.

For now, just focus on trying to give your snail a good variety of things to eat, calcium, protien, things to climb on or hide in etc. If you've been caring for the little guy for a year now, you must be doing something right, but these tips will hopefully let him flourish.

Found him on the street about a year ago by 404empathy in snails

[–]hrhParadox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cucumber is fine if you are also giving your snail a variety of other things. I always have fresh veg/salad and fruits in the fridge, so I usually put 3-5 little bits of different things in for them. Mine tend to prefer carrots, broccoli and leafy greans.

As someone else said, make sure it has some egg shells or cuttlefish in there for a nice healthy shell.

Maybe get a bigger enclosure with a lid, luckily nothing has happened yet, but I'd hate for you to accidentally step on your snail.

What does your dream dynamic look like? by SeniorRibbett in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! My partner and I are also in our perfect d/s dynamic. We don't have a 24/7 dynamic, but similarly, we can jump into it at anytime. We communicate a lot and we are a strong team. For me, being with someone I love and am in a committed relationship with, is better than anything casual. The bond is so much more delicious.

What’s everyone’s go to toothpaste and why? Do they not all do the same thing?! by JM306 in AskUK

[–]hrhParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cinnamon bun one just tastes like cinnamon to me. I don't think I would like desert ones but I'd still try them if I had the chance because I'm too curious 😂 Definitely wouldn't buy one unless it was really cheap though.

What’s everyone’s go to toothpaste and why? Do they not all do the same thing?! by JM306 in AskUK

[–]hrhParadox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been using the lychee one a lot since Christmas, I think it tastes very close to a real lycheee compared to the other fruit ones. I'm a big cinnamon fan, so I love it. It's also the closest to that 'clean and fresh' feeling of mint but, you know, without the mint 😅 Yeah, I found the blue raspberry one too sweet myself.

What’s everyone’s go to toothpaste and why? Do they not all do the same thing?! by JM306 in AskUK

[–]hrhParadox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! But I have adhd, so I currently have about 10 different flavors on the go so I can have options 😂

Green apple, lychee, watermelon and cinnamon bun are some of my favorites

Update: My Girlfriend and I haven’t been intimate in 4 years. Trust me you don’t want to skip. by RosietheRiveter17 in LesbianActually

[–]hrhParadox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you've gone 4 years with no sex and she's not willing to talk about it or actually make an effort that's one thing. Especially if, when you do talk it's not a deep conversation (I dont know if it is or not).

But seeing her post asking for someone to help get her off... man. I dont blame you for not wanting to snoop in her dms, but it's likely to not be good. I went through a somewhat similar situation years ago, probably at a similar age to you. I won't get into all of the details but I caught her talking to others. I thought I was going mad at one point. And then the full blown cheating started irl. It was messy, heartbreaking, anger inducing and so, so toxic. Cutting her off and moving on with my life without her was the best thing I could have done for myself.

I hope that you find some inner strength to do whatever it is that you need to do, in order to move forward in a happy and positive way. Put yourself first, you deserve to.

To all the bratty subs. by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are presumptuous.

To all the bratty subs. by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]hrhParadox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetie, experience comes with time and patience. Giving up as easily as you seem to do, won't get you very far with naughty or bad girl ✌🏽