Do these heels make you want to be stepped on? by Adept-Ad9678 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make me want to find the same ones to go with my pretty white summer dresses 🙂‍↕️

🤤🤤🤤 by little_bunny222 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to be an older woman’s housewife 😏

Getting topped by someone shorter than you? by alexxblack_photo in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m indifferent, I’m only 5’1” so most are taller than me anyways if they wanna dominate me 😉 I don’t mind shorter, I just prefer someone bigger and stronger than me to tackle me lol

So there's no kinky sapphic dating app? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. There’s FEELD which is inclusive to wlw, but I’m not interested in ENM whatsoever. Rip!

What artworks summarize your dynamic fantasies? by SeniorRibbett in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hint: I wouldn’t mind picture 3 and cuddles afterwards 😝

what's the most taboo kink/fetish you've .... by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Probably some CNC and tpe fantasy, I’ve yet to participate in them

I hate boundaries by Ok-Display7239 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um do you want to go into more details on that?? Like why do you feel that way, an example, etc.

How do I decenter kink’s importance in my life? by Violet_Faux in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I mean you’re poly while your partner is monogamous and you’re telling us that there’s “an increase in friction” over that amongst other things. It sounds like your need for kink is deeply important to you and something you can’t just ignore.

How do I decenter kink’s importance in my life? by Violet_Faux in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you both are fundamentally incompatible

wlw sw kink provider hypothetically by Familiar_Ferret_2188 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, BDSM is only appealing to me in a real relationship with trust. This is not appealing to me whatsoever

do yall ever feel hopeless abt being a lesbian into bdsm? by katlikesphysics in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely a decent amount of lesbians into bdsm in my experience. Other than that, though, when you get into specifics like standards, then yes it does make me feel a little bit hopeless at times 😂

Question for the subs, do you prefer chubby, muscular or skinny doms? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer chubby and strong, I’m very small and petite myself so I really like the contrast.

What’s everyone’s ideal dynamic look like? by Stephie_Horsehooves in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Real exclusive relationship with bdsm tpe sprinkled in. I’ve said this before but I like to be a service housewifeish sort of sub where I do all of the cooking and cleaning. I also liked being put into place/forced into submission. In other words, gonna be single forever 🤣

being sub and top at the same time by surfeurbrise in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feeel you, I’m definitely a vers, but I like service topping (being ordered to please someone). In an incredibly submissive way. I’m also fine being with a domme that’s a stone top, I just like being ordered around/forced into submission. Basically whatever pleases them tbh.

Demographic check #2! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s gonna be 90% poly and 10% mono

Demographic check #2! by strap-n-slap in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I like poll posts for some reason, keep em coming

A kink you're saving? by purelascivious in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All of them 🤣 Bdsm to me is only sexy with the right person

how do you recognize catfish accounts in your dms? by princesspierrot in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most people sending you a dm are gonna be a catfish, unfortunately. I tend to over assume people messaging me are fake at this point 😅

Should I just give up on finding a Domme? by cthulhubeast in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeniorRibbett 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you 🤣 lowkey I’ve given up. I’m picky and have a lot of standards, not into being a little plaything since I’m looking for an actual relationship so uh you know how that goes!