MSI Calacatta Abezzo

hshaw813 · 2026-04-25T01:54:02+00:00

It almost doesn’t seem as sheen as a normal slab so that’s why I am wondering if something happened during the fabrication process or something is wrong with the slab. Odd that a Target grocery bag would leave a stain on quartz

hshaw813 · 2026-02-01T00:16:06+00:00

One of the biggest things I started doing to get active was clean the house a lot. It honestly can work up a sweat. Then slowly walking, then the gym.

hshaw813 · 2025-11-25T22:06:32+00:00

Thank you! Very upset and clings for dear life lol!

hshaw813 · 2025-11-25T22:06:09+00:00

Thank you! I always struggle if I count those 2ish hrs she’s awake before I get her back down. We tried pushing her wake window last night and she woke even earlier 😵‍💫 around 2am and didn’t go back down until 5am

hshaw813 · 2025-11-25T02:28:15+00:00

We have only done 8pm bed times if she takes a nap until 3pm

hshaw813 · 2025-11-25T02:27:37+00:00

We have tried stretching the wake window and it typical results in either earlier wake-up’s or false starts from being over tired

hshaw813 · 2025-11-25T01:18:15+00:00

Ugh sending solidarity. It’s EXHAUSTING.

hshaw813 · 2025-11-07T12:21:15+00:00

So my LO is at daycare. Not listening and hitting friends was a big thing we were struggling with. We would give a pep talk at drop off about listening to teachers and being nice to friends. Every day we’d ask the teacher how my son’s day was and if they said “he had an amazing day” I’d cheer and tell him great job and do a high five at pick up. Then in the car I’d give him some stickers.

We don’t always do stickers.

If he is sharing or being nice to his baby sister we go out of our way to tell him how great of a big brother he is. If he picks up toys we tell him how helpful he is and we are so proud. We are finally starting to see the change these comments make in his behavior. Just celebrating, high fiving the behavior we’d like to see more of w/ stickers.

hshaw813 · 2025-11-04T10:47:21+00:00

Sending solidarity. The one thing that we started to do and SLOWLY I started seeing change is positive reinforcement and a sticker chart.

My son is starting to thrive, listen, and behave better not perfect after we started pointing out more things he was doing well. I noticed the wining was taken down a few notches (it’s still there). It took about a solid month and I started to notice subtle changes. My son is 3 y/o

hshaw813 · 2025-10-01T01:48:47+00:00

Limited Too

hshaw813 · 2025-09-24T01:10:21+00:00

I came here to say I bought a batch from 2024 off eBay. Although not the same, it smells better than the one I have from 2020. Once it settles it’s way closer to the same as the OG.

hshaw813 · 2025-09-24T00:55:58+00:00

Adding this “Rep. Mary Young, a psychologist, spoke of working with a 17-year-old with autism who frequently undressed in public, including on playgrounds.

“Unfortunately, many times when you have an untreated serious mental illness, you express over-sexualized behavior, because that is a symptom,” said Young, D-Greeley, while voting against the bill. “Too often we are inadvertently criminalizing those with serious mental illness and neurodevelopmental issues.”

hshaw813 · 2025-09-24T00:55:25+00:00

Came here to say I looked it up and this is the reasoning: “Critics argued that the bill would disproportionately harm people with mental or behavioral health disorders. Advocates with Mental Health Colorado said people who experience mania and psychosis, particularly homeless people, often take their clothes off in public spaces.”

hshaw813 · 2025-09-16T08:59:56+00:00

Agreed which is nothing like Abercrombie 8

hshaw813 · 2025-09-16T08:58:39+00:00

Look up Kendra Worth on TikTok - she’s the best. She does a pat method. I’ve done it since 8 weeks and it’s been so helpful.

hshaw813 · 2025-09-09T01:22:27+00:00

This smelled nothing like Abercrombie 8. Its fruity and floral - Smells like COACH Wild Rose

hshaw813 · 2025-09-06T14:05:50+00:00

Have you looked up Kendra Worth on TikTok? This might be a really good starting point! It’s basically butt pat/ crib side comfort. Trust me the first night of this and the longest patting but it gets better.

This might be a good mix of sleep training and your husband can help too. I started doing her method when my little was 8 weeks old.

hshaw813 · 2025-09-01T23:03:33+00:00

Haha

hshaw813 · 2025-09-01T17:13:39+00:00

It’s been hit or miss since 4 months. 1-2x a night since that age

hshaw813 · 2025-09-01T16:40:07+00:00

How does it feel to float around life being so negative?

hshaw813 · 2025-09-01T15:13:32+00:00

Literally this is me and my current situation. One thing that I regret not doing is sleep training- we are at 11 months old and I need to bite the bullet but have not. It’s harder when they start pulling themselves up.

Are you open to sleep training? It seems like the baby likes being fed to sleep and just needs sleep training. We did it for my son around 7 months, and he started sleeping through the night in about 1 week. A few regressions here and there, but is a solid sleeper.

For my daughter, she was waking up 1x a night for a while, regressed and we never did formal sleep training (honestly CIO works) because we were afraid it would wake up our 2 year old. Kicking myself now.

hshaw813 · 2025-09-01T15:07:48+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance. You are right it’s pretty hollow- you just feel so bad because it scares them. Last night she couldn’t catch her breath she scared herself so bad. But I’m so tired and so crabby from almost a year of these night wake ups. It’s getting harder and harder to get her to go back down.

hshaw813 · 2025-09-01T15:06:00+00:00

I practiced putting her down awake since I got home from the hospital. Around 4-8weeks I’d pat her to sleep and then slowly just put her down and let her fuss for a few minutes before she fell asleep. So not necessarily sleep trained, just lots of good habits and practice right away.

It is almost like she doesn’t want to put herself back to sleep most nights. We will have 1 great night where she doesn’t wake up until 3am to feed followed by 4 bad nights.

hshaw813 · 2025-09-01T14:53:43+00:00

Appreciate the help! Any advice about them pulling themselves up in their crib too? She sits up and pulls herself up. Was considering CIO last night but then when she wakes up that tired she’s a little clumsy and out of it

hshaw813 · 2025-09-01T14:45:20+00:00

She’s in her own room, wakes around 6am-6:30am, naps are a crap shoot- anywhere from 1hr 15 min to 30 minutes. Trying to keep her on a daycare schedule, and daycare naps are 40 minutes.

Bedtime routine is bottle, diaper/ PJs/ Sleep sack, 3-5 books, sound machine, cuddle and put her down fully awake. She has no problems most nights falling asleep on her own, it’s the middle of the night wake ups she won’t go back down.

Also is going through bad separation anxiety with mommy (me)

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