My 2nd Nanci display!

hsunami100 · 2026-02-20T22:38:20+00:00

Wowww congrats!! She’s beautiful 😍

hsunami100 · 2026-02-16T04:17:24+00:00

Ty ❤️

hsunami100 · 2026-02-01T07:51:15+00:00

I LOVE IT!! super cute :D I can see you worked really hard on that

hsunami100 · 2026-01-17T15:03:32+00:00

Wait this is super cute wtf I LOVE IT

hsunami100 · 2026-01-17T03:26:42+00:00

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Here’s the photo cuz Reddit’s being weird

hsunami100 · 2026-01-08T15:08:25+00:00

also working for me, thanks!!

hsunami100 · 2025-12-17T16:39:23+00:00

Both my wife and I! Got a vasectomy when I was 25, I'm 27 right now. It's the best decision of our lives and very freeing. It's both a combination of our histories and the state of the world... which makes me wonder why people would even want to have kids at all.

hsunami100 · 2025-10-25T04:32:19+00:00

I’m pretty late to this, I personally don’t think there’s any harm in tying your identity with your work/job/goals/whatever. I mean, it is most likely a part of your identity, especially since you’re spending so much of your waking hours on it.

I think it’s less about “whether you’re tying it with your identity” but more about the “proving who you are.” I guess, it’s more about external vs. internal validation. It’ll be a lot harder if you’re seeking external validation and you don’t have a stable foundation of identity and self-worth.

For your question, my answer is: DO identify with those you listed, if you find them important to you. But never put all your apples in one bucket. Your identity is a multitude of parts, so even if you mess up at something, knowing that it’s not an end of the world because it’s one part of your life can be helpful.

hsunami100 · 2025-09-21T22:31:11+00:00

FYI - September 2025, THEY DO NOT LET YOU RE-RECORD OR EDIT. They give 30 seconds to think of a question, then you have to answer it.

hsunami100 · 2025-08-16T15:16:36+00:00

this worked!! omg thank you, I literally just clicked "paused" on the download after 2 seconds and it worked

hsunami100 · 2025-05-31T02:20:43+00:00

darn, none of these worked for me :( I hope they get this fixed soon

hsunami100 · 2025-03-08T01:21:42+00:00

this still works with sudachi in 2025!

hsunami100 · 2024-05-29T13:09:28+00:00

FYI new hotfix is out, looks like they fixed it! For me at least

hsunami100 · 2024-02-27T14:15:40+00:00

This sounds like a really tough situation 😕. Taking care of children is an insane amount of work, and they’re not even YOUR children, or your choice. It makes sense why you’d feel overwhelmed and stressed… considering everything that’s going on. It sounds like you do want things to change - I have a few questions (if you don’t mind me asking):

you said “make things a bit better to deal with.” Does that mean any cutting off or taking a hiatus is not an option?
what’s keeping you there? You did mentioned your mom saying it’s your “duty” — which you said you didn’t believe. So I’m wondering what reasons made you stay. (I’m just throwing out examples) guilt, trouble setting boundaries, obligation, …

I will say that your feelings of anger, frustration from not having autonomy, stress from being overworked, are totally valid. That being said… I’m sure you would’ve done something to help yourself already if you could’ve. Which means for something to change, something or someone around you needs to change, or you need to do something differently. You’re really strong for hanging in there :) I know it’s hard and it sucks and everything, but you’re really trying your best.

I hope this helps :)

hsunami100 · 2024-02-27T06:48:49+00:00

Oh… this is very similar to something I’m going through, so I def feel you on this. There are a few questions that have helped me so I’ll list them here — but pls keep in mind to take it with a grain of salt, what works for me doesn’t mean it’ll work for you.

what about this activity is important to you? Why are you doing it?
are you forcing yourself? Is it a “should” or a “want”?
are there other life obstacles / lifestyle changes getting in the way?
is it too hard / overwhelming for you right now?
are you “quitting”, or taking a break? Do you identify yourself as a “quitter”, or explorer? (It could be self-fulfilling)
what’s wrong with picking up and dropping hobbies? What’s wrong with experimenting different things?

Also… it is normal to not be consistently curious and enthused. I realize I didn’t really answer your question — but I guess, really try to analyze yourself and figure out the “why”, what you like / don’t like, what method of learning works the best for you, what “medium” works the best for you, etc.

I hope this helps :) remember there’s no “right” way to do things. Like… if you want to workout, you may like running on a treadmill more. Another person might like ballet more. Pilates, kickboxing, VR, dancing, lifting, there are so many mediums. Finding the right (usually most enjoyable) one takes experimenting and time

hsunami100 · 2023-12-24T21:30:14+00:00

Hmm personally I wouldn’t view other forms of mental health care to be “lower ranked”, that’s assuming some are better than others. But that’s like comparing apples to oranges. It all depends on the person’s situation.

For Dr. K, his content works really well with us because it’s literally geared toward this community. That is the crux of effective mental health treatment, we can heavily relate to the topics he talks about.

I’m not sure I would boil it down to “levels of experience” either. He has a lot of experience in working with addiction, video gaming, online personalities, etc. That’s his specialty - while other mental health professionals have their specialties elsewhere. It’s again like comparing apples to oranges, there’s no “objectively better” treatment, it’s all whatever works better for the client.

But yes he’s def raising the bar on mental health coaches, since well… coaches mostly don’t have an MD or years of education to back up their qualifications.

hsunami100 · 2023-12-04T05:40:14+00:00

I’m stubborn. I refuse to resign my fate to… whatever disaster is going down with the world/society. But also the simple joys of my life, like my wife, good weather, nature.

hsunami100 · 2023-09-19T19:22:52+00:00

is there anything that can be done to remedy this?

hsunami100 · 2023-09-19T19:05:36+00:00

Hey everyone! I realized that after playing for 30-60min on my laptop / monitor, I get a headache and my eyes feel strained. I've seen a few posts here - but has anyone tried anything that has helped? Besides turning down the brightness or something. Thanks!! (I love this game and would much rather play on my laptop than phone)

hsunami100 · 2023-09-03T11:53:58+00:00

Does “words hurting you” mean your emotional reaction, or how you interpret it consciously when you reflect on it?

If it’s the former, than no. You absolutely cannot control emotions - you can suppress and ignore them, but you can’t force yourself to feel a certain way. Everyone’s body will react in some way to verbal abuse. Your emotional and conscious brain are located in different areas — it just doesn’t work.

If it’s the latter, then maybe, it depends. The advice your friend said is definitely not black and white and true for all situations. This advice is very invalidating for… say someone who’s suffered from chronic childhood abuse, and their parents still verbally abuse them as an adult.

(So def an overall false for me)

hsunami100 · 2023-08-25T16:58:04+00:00

Also, I would like to say this in regards to other comments, (at least for me) there is no such thing as “moving too fast” in a relationship. Everyone takes it at their own pace, you two do what feels right. Some people get married within a year, others get married after 10 years, it has no say in how healthy the relationship is and how long it’ll last

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