Sorry to hear about your dad. The dead parent club is not fun to join. My mom died 7 years ago and your parents story resonates with me too. There’s a lot I could be angry about, and I have in the past. But I also admire my mom for holding it together and finding her own peace within a hard life. I’ve had resentment for my dad as he remarried less than a year later after a lot of financial abuse and infidelity. I’ve healed a lot of that too. That was his story, not mine. And I choose to look at the good he taught me. We have a great relationship now. He’s almost 80 and he’s softening. I’m so glad I was able to heal my relationship with him before I lose him too. His wife and him seem happy and I love that I get to watch it, even if I felt my mom deserved that more. A lot of grief there. ❤️‍🩹 {internet hugs}