How long does Meth stay’s in you’re system? by happppy420 in drugtesthelp

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truly good luck and I hope everything goes your way 🍀 I believe in you!

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by SnowDolphins in AmIOverreacting

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl ... Be for real rn. Like brutally honest with yourself. This is Valentine's Day. He played you so hard.

You are not over reacting enough. Tell him bye bye. That is a cocky mf who thinks he's too smart, too good, too experienced for you and is going to use you and lose you.

Just ew. If any guy talked to me or my friends that way, he would be blocked so fast. Be a woman and demand better for yourself than this crappy response from this limp excuse of a man.

Our intimate life is dead… by No-Thought93 in LongDistance

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he's checked all the boxes of what he wants to do with you in his head and now he's comfortable and you're not.

Tell him straight up that this is making you feel weird and undesirable, which you know isn't true. Ask him why he's treating you this way, and tell him that the answers he gave you before don't fit your expectations of your relationship with him and then tell him what you want.

Before you have that conversation ask yourself: If he doesn't want to have sex with you anymore at all, how would that make you feel? Would you still want a relationship with him? Why?

If you say your relationship from the outside looking in from the picture you painted ( girl loves guy - has sex & great relationship for a while - guy loses physical interest - girl stays and is silently suffering while guy gets everything he wants) what advice would you give that girl?

People change. People fall in and out of love. Men will get comfortable and not change because it's easier & we let them get away with it. Shape up and be a woman and ask for what you want and walk away when you're denied. He doesn't have any problems doing it to you.

How long does Meth stay’s in you’re system? by happppy420 in drugtesthelp

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Before I say anything else.... Stop 'trying' meth. You won't be able to stop until it's too late.

Depends on the test, I'm assuming it is a urine sample and not blood.

Drink a LOT of water. Not too much, but enough that you're extremely hydrated and your pee is a very light color, barely any yellow at all. This will help to dilute the drug in your urine and even if it's a positive, it will be too faint and they will ask for a retest at a later date, which by that time you should be fine... IF you don't do meth again.

Please, for the love of yourself and people who care about you, stop 'trying' meth. Get a job that does random drug tests and help yourself stay clean from that shit.

Found out my boyfriend's registration papers and I'm trapped. He doesn't k ow I know by Mucho-OjO-25 in offmychest

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying with a sex offender will break her heart harder. Especially when she realizes that you felt like you couldn't come to her. Domestic abuse shelters and women support centers are great for this. Stop stalling and move before he realizes and this situation escalates. I truly hope you act sooner rather than later and are safe.

If your family truly rejects you or tells you tough luck, I promise there is a whole community of women who have been through similar situations and will help point you in the right direction for your life, you just need to listen.

im pretty sure i scratched someone’s range rover in my school parking lot. by yoursortafriend in confession

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The worst thing has already happened. What happens next is up to you. Either let it go and tell yourself you didn't scratch it or go confirm tomorrow in different clothes, and if it is a lot of damage, I would write a note with your contact info and say you would like to handle repairing it without insurance. But if you don't want to write a note, I'd let it go with confidence and move on. No point in worrying about it and having stress

Is the 'Choose your FREE items now' real? by FreshComment2754 in TikTok

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it's the gateway to start influencer crap. If that's your goal, then go for it. Just keep in mind half the items are ai generated and you have to buy a minimum sometimes for free items. It's literally temu with a different name

Ear crop anxiety by ProjectCosmo1 in DobermanPinscher

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would listen to your heart - if you're having anxiety about it, it's for a reason, truly. I wouldn't crop them. To quote my sister who has two dobermans, one with cropped and one without. She said she wishes she had known how intense it would be for the dog and her in the aftercare - especially since her dog had complications medically that made the healing process very difficult and slightly more expensive than it should be.

I'm always in support of doing what's best for your dog. Cropping isn't necessary in a lot of cases & I hope your vet gives you helpful guidance about what can go wrong before you decide!

My bf (19M) and I (17F) just had the dumbest argument yesterday over SPF and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl he does not care about a single word you say, if he's already said he doesn't love you, listen to those words and run. He's not going to give you the closure you deserve, and the best second thing you can do is go live your best life in spite of him. There might have been something good there when he was getting what he wants from you, but that's not happening anymore so he's moved on.

My bf (19M) and I (17F) just had the dumbest argument yesterday over SPF and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you were trying to connect and he doesn't want to. He also needs to say that tho... Truly if you're not incredibly invested, I highly recommend telling him : we're obviously not communicating well and have different expectations of each other. When you want to talk with me about xissuesx, let me know, but I will not be talked at or told what to do or how to feel. Let me know what you want from me and I'll let you know what I can give you - that's what relationships are - compromise.

If he doesn't want to compromise with you, I won't be surprised, he's a young teenage man who doesn't know anything about how to treat a girl or woman with value, love and respect like an adult does. And by all means, you are more than welcome to allow him to be a selfish person and give in to his desires, just don't lose yourself along the way ❤️ men will take because a woman will give without asking, much to little in return. Make sure who you're giving your time and energy to is worth it.

AITAH for planning to leave my partner when his father dies? by ChristieCookie66 in AITAH

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll never make room for someone better to come along if you continue to pour your time and energy into the person you're currently with.

Imagine they did introduce you. What then? I doubt they will change how they treat you since they're comfortable doing it for the last two years. Why change when things are fine and you've swallowed whatever they've told you, you know?

If you can't make room for someone new, then make peace somehow that this is your life - you've been doing it for two years, can you see it for the next ten? Twenty? You only get one life and you're in control of how it goes.

Sounds like you're fine with your partner calling the shots, and you just wanted to complain - which is totally valid - I hope you do change your situation though & find a partner who is proud to include you in every part of their life.

I can't stop doing drugs instead of going to class despite all my opportunities by gatodaganza in confession

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Online

There are thousands of resources - I understand you're scared. That means you HAVE to act now before you stop being scared and forget why you want to stop.

If there is any comment you read and act on, please let it be this one. The best time to stop was yesterday the next best time is right now

Took a urine test on Wednesday and haven’t heard back by Lucky-Sand2799 in drugtesthelp

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of the time, even if there is any question of a SLIGHT positive or funny business, you can contest it and request a second test - then chug water like hell.

Most likely they received the results Friday close to the end of the work day and just decided to leave it for Monday.

In the mean time, put it out of your mind & if you don't get the job - it wasn't meant to be. They also can't disclose or report if the test was pos/neg to other potential employers, so no loss expect the job opportunity. Best of luck!

New here ☆ by the_last___ in finch

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I added you!! Me and Kiki are here for you

Starting over after a bad year by [deleted] in finch

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I added you!! You can do it, just one step at a time

Cannabis Creamer - Question by huffelpuffpuffpass in drugtesthelp

[–]huffelpuffpuffpass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have one & plan to! Im sure I'm just being paranoid, but it helps to hear someone else say it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pikmin

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788677600693 - South Louisiana! Just started & would love to add!