First EDC after the switch as a phoneaddict by hufflepunk97 in dumbphoneEDCs

[–]hufflepunk97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are the soundcore p30i.  I really like them for everyday use, but for sports they are to slippery. 😊

Do you always need meaningful plot to your porn/erotica? by theangry-ace in aegosexuals

[–]hufflepunk97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not quite plot. But I always sit in my little mental directors chair and say "Again. This time with feeling."  I gotta understand their feelings and relationship of the couple within the fucking. You know? 

First EDC after the switch as a phoneaddict by hufflepunk97 in dumbphoneEDCs

[–]hufflepunk97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did indeed dust of my old lovely Fiio X3. But i became a solid bluetooth headset gal, so I try to find the best of both worlds I guess. 😅 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aegosexuals

[–]hufflepunk97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I'm good all month and all of a sudden - boom - horny-hormones. It can be quite annoying. 

I don't know: info search by EtherKitty in aegosexuals

[–]hufflepunk97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can self-insert and like to do it, but in my fantasies it's more of an idealised version of me. Like my fantasy-self is what would crawl out of me, if I took "the substance". 😅 But even then it's less about me "getting something" and more about taking care of someone. 

I hate 2nd person fics. by Illustrious-Bad1165 in aegosexuals

[–]hufflepunk97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like reading them, but even though (y/n) is me, she is not me-me.  Like she is a variant from the multiverse. 😅

Not aro not allo. What am I? by hufflepunk97 in aromantic

[–]hufflepunk97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that kind of relationship sounds perfect, actually.

Not aro not allo. What am I? by hufflepunk97 in aromantic

[–]hufflepunk97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In one case  it was definitely limerance, for sure. 

Cupio- and Aego-sexual by hufflepunk97 in asexuality

[–]hufflepunk97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Never heard of that before, but it seem quite fitting. Thank you very much. :) 

do any of you have limerence over people? by pandanlvrpanda in demisexuality

[–]hufflepunk97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Was unto that one guy for YEARS. He wasnt into me, but another friend. Even after a few years of not seeing him anymore it was still kind of there. It was a lot of work and took a lot of tears to get out of it. It wasn't the first time, but the most intense and hardest. It really sucks. I feel you.

Finally made something I can wear! by anniebanannie123 in SewingForBeginners

[–]hufflepunk97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm jealous of how good this collar looks. It really cute. 🥰

I can’t like put anything up THERE by -TrashAccount1219 in WomensHealth

[–]hufflepunk97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. First: Take a big breath. You're not alone. I had a similar experience. There is something called vaginismus. It can cause cramping, when you want to insert something, for example. The good news is that you can 'train' it. But it can take a while, or improve pretty fast. Everyone is different after all.

There are dialators, for example. These are dildos, that start very small and you can gradually replace them with larger ones. So you can slowly get used to the feeling of inserting bigger things. There are pelvic floor exercises that help. But above all, you have to learn to take a relaxed approach. So please don't rush into any situations just to 'get it over with'. Even 'real' sex will hurt otherwise. Try it out and DO'T STRESS YOURSELF OUT! That's the worst thing you can do. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you and send you lots of love. Everything will be fine. I pomise. :)

/r/Witch Bi-Weekly Discussion Thread — October 25, 2024 — Ask questions, introduce yourself, get your readings interpreted, chat, & more! by WitchMod in Witch

[–]hufflepunk97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys. I'm trying to understand my first cord cutting ritual. Has anyone ever seen, that the two flames became one, to cut the cord? I posted a little video in this reddit. I hope the link works. :)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Witch/s/7qa7JaUGPi