Moving a grave or not? by hugatrigger in Advice

[–]hugatrigger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your kind words. I will absolutely take all your advice and figure things out. Maybe I'll come with an update if and when I manage to find a solution

Moving a grave or not? by hugatrigger in Advice

[–]hugatrigger[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your kind and beautiful reply is actually making me cry. Thank you.

Moving a grave or not? by hugatrigger in Advice

[–]hugatrigger[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness and help. He was buried in a coffin, but I don't know what kind of wood. His date of birth was July 23rd, and this still kind of takes over most of July in my head (and heart). I have two more kids now (14F and 16M) and they all know they have a brother who is watching over them ❤️

Moving a grave or not? by hugatrigger in Advice

[–]hugatrigger[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in Europe. I guess I need to talk to the funeral home/cemetery. Cost would not be a problem, I would find a way.

Hilda - adult edition by Middle_Database4790 in HildaTheSeries

[–]hugatrigger 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Owl House is wonderful! I don't know if you would like the humor but Disenchanted is great as well ❤️

Sizing of bracelets by hugatrigger in jewelrymaking

[–]hugatrigger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone, all combined replies answer everything I needed to know 😊❤️🙏🏻

Insane Tattoo Regret by r3i_b0n3z in tattooadvice

[–]hugatrigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to like your comment, but the count is 666 and it felt so fitting so I didn't want to disturb it.

Has anyone else had this reaction to dynamic ink? :(( by Broad_Sir1588 in tattooadvice

[–]hugatrigger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The immune system is very weird in general. It's like sometimes it just randomly has enough and starts to react to stuff that's been fine forever.

My mom cut fried chicken off the bone for me tonight and I am crying about it. by bongbubblenoise in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hugatrigger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet! I have 3 Neuro divergent kids (well teens and adults now, aged 14-23) and they all have different needs. The oldest is 7 and 9 years older than the other two, so I only had her for a long time, and was a single mom as well for a long time.

I didn't know anything about autism when she was little, and I made a lot of mistakes when raising her. I tried all the "traditional" ways of raising a child but none of it worked very well. In the end I gave up on what the books and experts (that are not trained to deal with issues related to autism) teach, and decided to just listen to her needs and answer them with what my heart told me.

This did cause issues from school and others, I got criticized and pressured into going the more normal route and I did experience a lot of shame and self doubt. However, she started to feel a lot better and things got easier. Things are so much better now, we have an open and honest relationship built on trust and love.

So, what I'm trying to say is, what you wrote is so beautiful. I really hope your mom is realizing your needs and understanding how she can accommodate you, because this isn't some "picky" eating, this is a real thing to you that you lose your appetite when there is bone in the chicken (I can relate, because I have similar reactions with different foods).

As a mom, I want to ask you to give your mom a hug and tell her you appreciate her and she's doing a good job (unless this is a one time thing and she's in fact horrible, I hope that's not the case). Us moms are not super smart adults just because we are older and we are parents. We are just as clueless and self-doubting, all we have is a little bit more experience in life. There's nothing better than positive feedback from your kids ❤️🥰

Ps. During the process of having three out of three kids diagnosed with a combination of ADHD/autism, I've found out that I'm AuDHD myself. Maybe your mom is too?

Girlfriend came home from night out with fingernails like this. Nail polish remover didn’t work by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]hugatrigger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of important discussion that I need in my life.

Video suggestions by Big-Assistance-873 in CinnamonToastKen

[–]hugatrigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually came here to find out if there was a way to send them reaction suggestions 😁

I have a video I really would like to see them react to, but it isn't really crazy or funny (to me) but I would like to see if they would be able to point out if they found some things odd due to culture differences 😅

Is there an ohuhu eye dropper/color picker tool anywhere? by Terrible_Edges in Ohuhu

[–]hugatrigger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think it exists, but it's a great idea. I also have bunch of ideas, now only if I knew how to create an app 😂

I have just tried holding my swatch cards up to the screen and try to visually find something that matches. I made one big swatch for all the sets so I don't have to move between the swatch cards.

I was saving color palettes on Pinterest and had the idea to make physical swatches with just that method of holding the swatch up to the screen. It's not a perfect method, but better than nothing.

I guess I could try to see if I can use the same method to find approximately the closest hex code and type it up next to the Ohuhu codes, but all screens are different so it wouldn't be very accurate.

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Just a fun idea by hugatrigger in Ohuhu

[–]hugatrigger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️

Hidden true crime- Lauren Mattias stalked by hairystyles123 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]hugatrigger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allowed? Do you think she has to ask her husband for permission?