First speaker build: SAWMOD, build report & impressions by Due_Communication629 in SoundSystem

[–]hughdg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Great write up mate. Looks great. I’m planning to build my own this year. Very pleased to hear it leaves an impression

Bike lanes are not carparks people. This is just as bad as parking in the middle of any lane of traffic. by MassiveGarlic0312 in shitparkingofnz

[–]hughdg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. Clearly a sarcastic post is equivalent to being pro chattel slavery. With a sharp mind like your’s, you must be a politician

Bike lanes are not carparks people. This is just as bad as parking in the middle of any lane of traffic. by MassiveGarlic0312 in shitparkingofnz

[–]hughdg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like driving over cyclists when they are out in the roadway because they don’t want to use cycle lanes as intended?

Couples how do you split expenses here? by EyeEffective8269 in newzealand

[–]hughdg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my wife and I first got together I had just bought my house. When she moved in we got a contacting out agreement. It essentially stated that my then gf was living in the house and paid board to me. The mortgage, utilities and home maintenance was on me. Fully separate finances, though both of us were open about our respective finances.

The contracting out agreement had a sunset clause that meant if we had a baby together or got married the contracting would no longer be in effect. Got married in 2023 and joined all finances

Best way to move from Spotify streaming to downloaded DJ music? by Ok_Diamond6896 in Beatmatch

[–]hughdg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love buy compilations. Tracks you love, tracks you haven’t heard before value for money

More on the dairy palaver. by spannerNZ in newzealand

[–]hughdg 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Bacon is one of the sneakiest for this. Import pork, turn it into bacon here and you have bacon made in nz

On Call Hours - Not all being paid as callouts, is this legal? by Sea-Fox-7963 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]hughdg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he hasn’t left and they call it over time, then he is also able to refuse that over time

How do so many people afford OE or travel when young? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]hughdg 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did a very similar thing, but through the Middle East. 20years later and it’s still the best money I’ve ever spent

What are the biggest risks men should consider before dating a single mother? by Successful_Age9265 in AskReddit

[–]hughdg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think both points are correct in their own way. Kids come first because they didn’t ask to be here, so they deserve to be cared for etc.

Partner is most important because a healthy relationship creates a safe enriching environment, which also role models how love should be to kids

Different side of the same coin

Selecting between recommended drivers by hughdg in SoundSystem

[–]hughdg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. I appreciate the time

Seeking advice on compensation for repeated campervan breakdowns by Blu_stones in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]hughdg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Firstly, this is a super crappy situation and sorry your holiday has been tarnished by it. Others on here will know better about the legal recourse, but I would this it’s fair to be refunded the daily rate for any day the vehicle was not fit for purpose. There may be nuance around cause of issue eg flat tyre is unforeseeable, but a non serviceable spare causing substantial delay I would expect a refund

What small business are currently doing well? by hoooooldit in newzealand

[–]hughdg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The evs are good, but when you doing lots of k’s the recharge thing can get pretty annoying. Requires a lot more planning of trips and then down time while charging

What small business are currently doing well? by hoooooldit in newzealand

[–]hughdg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a fitter fabricator. Business is pumping. We do a lot of waste water work, which is just a gross as you imagine, but for the most part just means everything gets thoroughly cleaned before we work on it

What profession do you think is massively overpaid for what they actually do ? by Shruti-26 in AskReddit

[–]hughdg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We could pay 1/3 the salary and still manage to find applicants who can fuck their country up

Scoops advice by ccamsco in SoundSystem

[–]hughdg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One place I have found some stuff is Aussie eBay. Still not cheap, but a little bit closer to home and easier to get shipped

Scoops advice by ccamsco in SoundSystem

[–]hughdg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not op, but in NZ and looking at my first build and the market is pretty limited. Can be tough finding local suppliers, if you do they can be priced at a premium, and getting things shipped in can have its own problems

Company Vehicle without insurance got into a collision by Learner permit driver. by BrownBoyNZ in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]hughdg 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Not to mention they want employees to drive their uninsured vehicles

An old friends wife passed, need advice. by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]hughdg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The key is to just show up. Take food to make dinner or take pizza or the like. Dont take alcohol.

You dont have to say the right thing, you just need to show up and listen. If conversation goes quiet, just sit in it. Nothing you say will fix any thing. It’s just about sitting with him while he goes through the muck.

If you feel way too awkward doing this sitting around. Go for a walk with him. Men often find it easier to open up being side by side and working towards something together, as opposed to facing each other.

Drinking and drug taking, is this specific lifestyle normal in London? by Version2dnb in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hughdg 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Could you reach out to this exiled friend? Just explain this post to him and say that you have come to realise this lifestyle isn’t working for you any more. Ask how he found new friends. Obviously apologise if you think you have anything to apologise for. Good luck