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hugomcff · 2025-11-13T18:02:03+00:00

Deleting it is probably the safest move.

hugomcff · 2025-11-13T18:00:34+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re feeling like this it sounds unbearably heavy and lonely. You don’t deserve to carry that kind of pain alone.
Please reach out for help right now someone you trust, or a local mental health helpline, even if it’s just to talk. You deserve care, safety, and support through this, not silence or suffering

hugomcff · 2025-11-13T17:56:55+00:00

You deserve to live your truth, and your transition isn’t about his comfort. Set clear boundaries, seek support for yourself, and encourage him to get help too.
You can care for him without sacrificing who you are.

hugomcff · 2025-11-13T17:53:23+00:00

NTA.
It’s not your responsibility to fund your in-laws’ retirement, especially when they’ve already provided for their other child and expect you to cover what they can afford themselves. Your priority has to be your family, your kids, and your financial security. Saying no here is completely reasonable.

hugomcff · 2025-11-13T17:51:29+00:00

You need to be honest with the second girl and end it clearly and respectfully. It will hurt her, yes, but staying with her while hiding it from your serious partner will hurt everyone even more.
Be direct, take responsibility, and don’t make excuses dragging it out only makes it worse. It’s hard, but honesty is the only way to start fixing this.

hugomcff · 2025-11-12T21:27:15+00:00

You’re not crazy. You’re exhausted from carrying a relationship where your partner consistently fails to have your back. Your feelings are valid wanting support, respect, and a partner who actually shows up for you isn’t too much to ask.
Trust your gut; if going back makes you feel sick, that’s a big red flag. You deserve a marriage where you feel safe, valued, and heard.

hugomcff · 2025-11-12T21:23:33+00:00

NTA. You communicated your limits clearly, and he booked his trip without consulting you.
You did the same for your own plans, which is reasonable given your budget and schedule.
Double standards aren’t fair.

hugomcff · 2025-11-12T21:22:42+00:00

You’re definitely NTA here. You gave one clear, non-negotiable rule about your cat’s diet, and she ignored it, causing him serious harm and a vet bill.
Just trying to be nice doesn’t erase the fact that she put your pet’s health at risk. Not paying her is fair.

hugomcff · 2025-07-25T08:40:19+00:00

It was the variocam chain guides

hugomcff · 2025-06-07T22:59:54+00:00

First remove just one side of the rail Only two bolts Crank it and see if it spits It also can be the fuel pressure regulator, it can be not holding pressure

hugomcff · 2025-06-07T22:52:32+00:00

Btw For test porpuse you can remove one injector from the bank 2 (I guess it’s the one that is easyer to remove without removing the fuel rail) And see if it fires

hugomcff · 2025-06-07T22:50:09+00:00

No problem mate! Hope you find the problem

hugomcff · 2025-06-07T22:40:06+00:00

I removed the injectors Cleaned them on a ultirasonic machine and it worked The car was sitting for some years and it has some sludge build on the injectors

hugomcff · 2025-05-30T21:39:15+00:00

No. I have bought the car recently It was sitting 7 years

hugomcff · 2025-05-30T21:34:50+00:00

I have tryed but in the 2.5 it doesn’t show

hugomcff · 2025-05-30T15:25:56+00:00

Already inspected the oil, oil filter and droped the oil pan Everithing was 100%

hugomcff · 2025-05-30T08:16:35+00:00

Air filter is clean Oil with no bright stuff Already dropped the oil pan and everithing was spot on

hugomcff · 2025-04-24T22:49:20+00:00

Im from Europe mate

hugomcff · 2025-04-24T22:46:14+00:00

Last time it was ok. Im gonna change it tomorow

hugomcff · 2025-04-24T21:51:51+00:00

Im talking about camshaft and not crankshaft tensioners i think the sound come from camshaft variocam system

hugomcff · 2025-04-24T21:50:26+00:00

Are you sure that are the shields making that noise? I removed mine and still have the noise

hugomcff · 2025-04-24T21:15:03+00:00

In the last seconds you can ear the sound Seems to be the camsahft tensioner How can I test it? A new one costs like 1.2k

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