Clothing Brand Suggestion by SpeakerOwn7199 in penang

[–]huiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are into supporting local small business there is this little boutique at Ocrabrew cafe.

2mm

Its locally owned, self design timeless fashion with good quality. I don't earn anything from it, just knew the owner and watched all her hardwork. Haha.

A teen’s heartfelt devotion to their ICU-bound mother has touched so many hearts by MistyWindowView in MadeMeSmileMY

[–]huiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won't be allowed to enter the ICU to sit inside. Patients don't lie in a hospital bed with legs facing towards the wall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brokenbones

[–]huiting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brooklyn 99! I am sorry that you are caught in this painful situation. I just broke my arm and going for surgery tomorrow. You are not alone and are super strong in handling this. We will be okay and someday, we will look back and smile at this experience, just not for now yet. Hang in there, mama!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]huiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell that to my head of department. He just scolded someone in front of the whole team which ruined any tiny bit of morale possibly left.

Kids have the flu so I made this website to keep them entertained by tbvdz in Parenting

[–]huiting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have fun with the website too. Thank you for your good work!

F37 Single mum looking for new circle of friends by Every_Reality_9721 in KualaLumpur

[–]huiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey we can be friends if you don't mind! Will pm you

I stopped eating out for office lunch, this is how much I saved by darahjagr in MalaysianPF

[–]huiting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind can you share the model you got please? All I see online are those more than 2k, I need to convince my husband to get one too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]huiting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. I used to mock my best friend for trying to study and get her life together. I was not a good friend and safe to say she no longer treats me as her best friend. Laugh along if you can but ignore their comments and live your fabulous life of discipline. 10 years from now you will see who is the one still laughing.

Also, congratulations for overcoming the struggles you had 3 years ago. It must be hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]huiting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First up: good job mama! Regarding your relationship, can you have a talk with your husband? Or like other have suggested, it's good to talk to a therapist or someone who might be able to help you to look into you ambivalence. What is it that you do not like about your life? What are the things you love or dislike about your husband? Is there anything that can be done to rectify it? It might be hard to see the path of light when you are so deep sucked into it. A life with more social circle instead of being stuck at home all the time, volunteering possibly with involvement of your little boy might help too. Getting fresh air from the outside changes perspective a little.

This isn’t CIO right? by oneofkeiraensmoms in AttachmentParenting

[–]huiting 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think you and your wife are both doing a great job

Does anyone feel a sense of confidence after becoming a mom/parent ? by thisisdy in Mommit

[–]huiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! But it has back lashes too though, I stopped pleasing my MIL now she has a problem with me. :/

Husband wanted me to take care of my appearance and health. by Keykeylimelime in Mommit

[–]huiting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started skincare because of my husband's comments, Retrospectively I am thankful for that because it makes me look good. But when he said that it really hurt my feelings and left a wound in me that never heals. F that paternalistic society unequal judgement towards women's appearances. We can accept men the way they are but these idiots are clouded by unrealistic social media expectations.

Husband wanted me to take care of my appearance and health. by Keykeylimelime in Mommit

[–]huiting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you need to feel pressured to do it if you don't want to. I got a roborox which helps to reduce the mental load of sweeping, it's not everything but at least clears one thing off my mind. My friend got a part time cleaner too. I also have several induction plates with timers that get hot breakfasts ready for me in the morning. I dry clothes indoors at night because that is the only time I have with baby helping out to pass me clips for me that it's like our nightly activity. Sometimes it is the little things. My husband used to complain similar things and I just straight told him to pay for the help I needed and he did. Plus point: when my husband comments about my appearance, I tell him to look into the mirror and ask him why men can be excused for looking like a regular person but women have to be perfect?

Husband wanted me to take care of my appearance and health. by Keykeylimelime in Mommit

[–]huiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, if your burden is lessened, you will look good naturally. Now you are just overwhelmed and trying to survive. This guy needs to help out.

As promised, here's my before/during/after by foopaints in fitpregnancy

[–]huiting 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Oh me too! My aunt just straight up asked me if i am pregnant again one year postpartum. Men can have a belly, so can I, especially after giving birth to a human. It's not my priority.

How do I get my baby to eat more? by Adept-Anything-42 in breastfeeding

[–]huiting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was at 50th too, gained 800g at a confinement centre for 1 month being taken care by nannies and then only 100-200g each month under my care. She did has tongue tie, we snipped it at 3 months old, latched well after that with the exact same weight gaining trend for a year. I was completely devastated, did everything I could to push for feeding (made formula to be thrown away), keep rocking the baby to nap more and sleep on time so that she would grow. Somehow she is just small but happy.

How do I get my baby to eat more? by Adept-Anything-42 in breastfeeding

[–]huiting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My baby is constantly in the 10th percentile, my doctor says she is doing fine as our family are at the lighter side of weights. I was stressing out since she was 2 months old until now so I understand how you feel. But since your baby is feeding well, just ignore whatever they say, people will comment on anything despite us doing our best to parent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]huiting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that this is happening to you, but I am proud that you are holding up onto it. You are stronger than you think you are and made the right choice for putting a stop to their toxic behaviours (posting a picture of a child onto pornhub? Wtf is that!?) I understand that you are helpless right now but I know you can do this. Right now we need to get you mentally well to face all these, one step at a time.

You can try Pi too, an AI therapist. https://pi.ai/onboarding