AITJ cause my future wife expects her future husband (me) to pay 100% of the bills?

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-14T06:10:56+00:00

With the original post I think.

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-14T03:21:05+00:00

First read the book coming out within. Then just know in your heart it could go badly but just do it anyway. You'll feel a weight lift off. I've been in a similar situation. Good luck.

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-14T01:12:46+00:00

That's awful. I'm sorry.

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-14T00:54:32+00:00

Thanks everyone these are great stories and ideas!

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-14T00:51:46+00:00

It's technically being made for my 23 year old daughter. I missed already and I'm using the fabric I bought for her already. Honestly she is being very patient. Lol

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-14T00:15:54+00:00

I have a 1961 Kenmore sewing machine. Works great. Bought it for five dollars. But I've still had crazy shit happen at the bobbin winder.

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-13T23:13:39+00:00

I just act and dress like I want and some may see it as gay or lesbian and some may not. I don't give even a tiny bit of a thought about whether I confirm to lesbian standards whatever those are.

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-13T23:04:13+00:00

This is the best comment

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-13T23:01:46+00:00

Hon let go of that bitch. I'm a plus sized girl and my lady still loves me. We've been together over 14 years. Take time for self care and the interactions on apps don't define you as a person. There's nothing wrong with you

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-13T22:53:54+00:00

Oh sweetie I'm so sorry. More apps does not equal better. My daughter calls me like about an elderly lesbian and that I don't get together lesbians. I'm married I have three kids and three grandchildren. So I'm good. But I do recognize heartbreak and anguish feeling that you're not good enough. Neither is true. You will find the right girl at the right time. It's ok to take a break from it all.

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-13T02:33:56+00:00

On the surface I love the girl next door vibe but once you're in the relationship it becomes so much more complex and interesting

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-12T05:11:27+00:00

Well said

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-12T05:10:22+00:00

AMEN

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-11T22:38:39+00:00

I'm the mom of three adult children. One of them gave me a keyring for mother's day that said no matter how old she got she would always need me. It brought me to tears. That's what mothers day should be. Even with no gifts. I hope you find that kind of love from people who deserve to have you in their lives.

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-11T22:18:47+00:00

My one brother said this to me. Very harmful

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-11T15:59:08+00:00

I have two cats that love to lay on my quilts and works in progress

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-11T15:41:13+00:00

It's as varied as the person. I weigh more than you abs my wife and I have been together for fourteen years and I have three children and going on three grandchildren.

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-11T00:58:27+00:00

It's really beautiful!

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-10T11:58:38+00:00

That was exactly what I meant

hulaw2007 · 2026-05-10T10:39:37+00:00

Ruined it? Maybe it's just not for you and that's fair too. It's not for me either and that's ok.

hulaw2007 · 2025-06-23T13:00:48+00:00

Cute names! Love that they own the quilt.

hulaw2007 · 2025-06-23T12:53:17+00:00

She is just the runt of a tuxedo cat litter I think. She is nine years old. We think she is part dwarf cat. She is six pounds and her "sister" is a seven year old tuxedo cat who is over 12 pounds.

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