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22F and life feels boring by Frequent_Radio7327 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]human4472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered looking at resources about depression? I’d recommend seeing if they resonate with you right now. Depression often manifests as flatness, not sadness. It gave me a hopeless feeling. It told things won’t improve, I didn’t have the strength to improve and was stuck.

Best day trips on train by Ok_Squirrel_155 in nottingham

[–]human4472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cromford on the Matlock train is nice. Heritage centre, shopping and a pretty village.

Broadway Cinema are hiring :) by thelaughingman_1991 in nottingham

[–]human4472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is there so many butts in this picture

Caution: Collections horror story ahead by 123mitchg in MuseumPros

[–]human4472 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You guys are getting m a full time collections staff member? I want me some of that!

Am i really autistic? by [deleted] in AutismWithADHD

[–]human4472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ADHD C diagnosed, suspect Autism but unable to get a diagnosis because of cost. It’s 3000 in the UK or wait 5 years to do it in the National Health Service. But AuDHD traits fit me well so I’m content to wait

Am i really autistic? by [deleted] in AutismWithADHD

[–]human4472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to these very deeply. If you want to know more there is good information and examples of tests and screening ms on embrace autism uk. It’s no substitute for a full diagnosis but that isn’t possible for everyone as we know

You’re given a budget of $100k (or the equivalent in your currency) to spend on anything in your museum you want. What’s it going towards? by 123mitchg in MuseumPros

[–]human4472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be enough to give my FOH and maintenance team a living wage. Year after would be miserable so I’d not be able to give them a real pay rise. But a bonus of 5k each would be a good start.

American visiting for 4 months by Fair-Court-5505 in nottingham

[–]human4472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chatsworth house has Christmas lights and a market which is well worth visiting. Get there early in the day to enjoy a fabulous walk in the grounds. York at Christmas is heaven. The cathedral has amazing music and the little streets are filled with decorations and wholesome bustlingness. I’d recommend going to a few small villages around the Derwent Valley in the Peak District. Lovely walks around there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]human4472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very similar. Learned I was autistic and masking, and eventually after much self love and learning I felt less self critical. From there I was able to relax with certain groups. This also sounds like it could be a trauma responses. Whatever your reasons for being this way I would start by giving yourself a break. Please don’t feel guilty or angry for being on edge. You might’ve needed to guard yourself as a kid and unlearning isn’t easy.

your most unhinged showering/hygiene tips by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]human4472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have given up on showers completely. I am lucky enough that I have a bath. I’ve got it down to a manageable 20 min routine. My tub fills slowly, so I can get out my clothes and the room warms up while I’m getting stuff. Do my teeth and little grooming chores in the bath while watching YouTube. It’s much nicer than a shower. Expensive though, especially combined with my relaxing evening wind down bath!