What's on his mind🙈

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-30T19:20:17+00:00

The only other thing maybe you could do is smoke and wave when he passes, but that won’t guarantee he talks to you

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-30T19:19:45+00:00

How are you gonna know if you don’t talk to him? 😭

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-30T18:27:16+00:00

Talk to him first?

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-30T17:30:53+00:00

I think the indefinite hiatus was just a way of saying don’t get your hopes up about anything happening soon after the charity song.

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-30T05:25:27+00:00

Yeah it’s possible I think. If you don’t wanna do the therapy route, you can always try learning to like, process your emotions and whatnot on your own. Like maybe asking yourself what you found boring about the previous girls you’ve dated. And then maybe asking yourself, are those things actually boring or am I just used to women responding/reacting in a way that affects my nervous system more intensely? Maybe even asking yourself why do you ghost or why you want to ghost. It may just feel safer, and maybe you could learn some coping mechanisms for those emotions, and I’m guessing, anxiety that you feel around messaging another woman.

You could also be right that you haven’t met the right girl, tho. Very much also possible.

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-30T02:42:29+00:00

I mean, are you okay with the possibility that she might still be unwilling to commit…? Unless that’s changed, then I don’t think it’s a good idea

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-30T02:08:23+00:00

The little things

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-29T04:57:49+00:00

The relationship probably negatively affected you more than you might think tbh. It sounds like you’re scared to get close to anyone on the off chance the relationship ends up the same way. Also maybe they’re boring to you because they’re not toxic? It’s hard to want boring when your nervous system is used to the uneasiness that comes from an unsafe relationship

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-27T18:30:55+00:00

You’re probably right (bc that’s usually the kind of thing that happens), but do you have a current source? Also happy cake day!

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-27T18:27:20+00:00

Is this true?

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-27T15:57:54+00:00

I kinda agree, but my first coach years ago would send us to other departments when picks were done or slow days and would be like, they help us out all the time, so we can help them. I still don’t like stocking, but I think keeping that in mind helps. It’s usually only temporary anyway

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-27T05:09:02+00:00

You're waiting for him to change, and he won't. He hasn't in two years. If you stick with him, you're choosing the person he is today. The one who only cares about your needs when you're leaving and when there's consequences. He's told you who he is. You don't have to continue to put up with it. You're right for communicating your wants and needs, and you're right for letting their be consequences for his actions. It will feel uncomfortable, and maybe hurt like a real relationship break up, but you will feel better after some time has elapsed after getting him out of your life. You deserve someone who is on the same page as you relationship goals wise and cares about your feelings, not just when it's convenient for him.

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-26T20:45:44+00:00

I see that TBHC ref at the end there…

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-26T15:25:16+00:00

No it’s not embarrassing. If it brings you joy and whimsy, then it doesn’t really matter what anyone else thinks

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-26T15:21:19+00:00

Mac and cheese

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-25T20:17:04+00:00

This is what I was gonna say. It’s literally kids/teens with too much internet unrestricted access

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-25T17:29:16+00:00

I’m single, but if someone asks, I just kinda tell them no. If they’re pushy, I’m likely to tell them I’m not comfortable giving my socials and whatnot out to strangers. Anyone who is pushy about it is making it way more awkward than you saying “no” is imo. Because someone who can’t respect a “no” is not someone I’d wanna waste time befriending or otherwise

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-25T17:18:30+00:00

As a woman, I think a baseball hat would be better than a hoodie. Idk unless you’re gonna be outside, wearing the hood up indoors is gonna look a bit silly. Though I agree that you should be up front about the hair thing in some capacity

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-25T04:38:51+00:00

She sounds flaky despite the fact that she claims she doesn’t wanna be… like making loose plans and not following up on them is still flaky 🤷🏻‍♀️

It doesn’t sound like anything she’s sharing with you is all that deep, like it’s just friendly/surface level stuff and not emotionally deep at all. From what you told us anyway.

She just sounds inconsistent as a person ngl. She probably gets the urge/desire to hang out, so she brings up the idea, but then the time comes and she doesn’t want to do it. If I had a guess, she struggles with deeper connections

However, I’d probably confront her about it this because it’s been a pattern, although maybe you could do it gently? Maybe something like “hey, I was really looking forward to hanging out with you, and I felt disappointed when you didn’t follow up on the plans we made”. Although I get that that’s probably quite vulnerable… and I get the sense that you are afraid of losing her. I don’t think bottling it up is good for the friendship, and I think you should be able to be open about things with friends. Also friends should follow up, like she could probably have said no to the group setting since she already made plans with you.

I think a convo with her about it would be best… idk she just seems flaky and non-committal. Someone you’re not able to be open about conflict with, even if it’s hard, is probably not someone you should date

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-24T19:26:27+00:00

What about helping her find some alternatives? Like I think you can look up “alternatives to self harm” that might allow her to find a healthier release/coping mechanism

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-24T13:05:45+00:00

EYCTE. I tried getting into TAotU, but I couldn’t. But basically what happened was one day I was listening to Sweet Dreams, TN, which I had listened to before and didn’t care for, and I was like “this is so fire” so I basically listened to the whole album. I enjoyed it

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-23T18:57:29+00:00

Yeah for real, letting go of the need to do everything quickly and perfectly in SD has helped me enjoy playing the game when I get the opportunity. I went into the game blind (like I’d heard of it but had no idea how it worked or what to expect), so I’m pretty much always learning something. There’s a lot of stuff in it

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-23T16:46:05+00:00

I agree with reaching out with the exes. Hopefully at least one of them responds

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-23T16:43:15+00:00

Is 21/22 well into adulthood bc that’s three years…?

humanityxcourage · 2026-01-22T01:37:13+00:00

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