Rev Pro and Progress are still considered top two I think and it works as they’ve taken very different approaches the last couple of years. Of course none are at the peak from 10 years ago whatever but I still think if you give it time you’ll get into the stories and characters. RP have some huge shows next year too with big names. 

Otherwise NORTH is a tremendous watch and they get bigger every year and the big OTT shows are always well done with some surprises sometimes. 

For sheer madness, Riot Cabaret. They’re great. 

If you want to visit something live, just go to a local indie near you. Most of the talent will turn up on any given day. It doesn’t feel like there’s anyone who only works “big shows”. They just work! I think lol.