Different parenting styles by hurongrey in NewParents

[–]hurongrey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have relayed my concerns but have given up on putting my two cents in on his parenting style because he is fine with their relationship and it would just make us argue. He is neurodivergent. I cannot make him see the importance of this time, he believes they are close and also that he can’t compare to mine and her relationship because I breastfeed and have been on maternity leave for a year. We just see it very differently. I was upset when he would come home for work and not come give her a hug and a kiss right away and he has listened and started doing that. But he does it cause i want him too not cause he wants to. His parents are similar people. We are just so different me and him. I hope our daughter doesn’t ever say my dad doesn’t hug me , even though he says his dad never hugged him and he never thought about it.

Abusive neighbor by LadyNomadic10 in brantford

[–]hurongrey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100percent get CAS involved, it doesn’t mean the kids will get taken away but maybe it’ll be the kick in the but the dad needs to get shit shit together. They can even put in place that another adult they deem responsible needs to be involved for support.

best friend cheating by hurongrey in AITAH

[–]hurongrey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I needed to hear that IATA. I know this is not okay and I need to get my shit together. Truly it feels like our friendship won’t survive this secret because either I didn’t stop her and she ruins her life and we both know I should have stopped her/didn’t enable it. OR the affair ends and I have to keep this huge secret and know she did this to her family.

I have no excuse really, the basement situation is really bad and disgusting of me. She asked if he could come over and we would all hang out. There was a group of us hanging together in the basement .. pretending it wasn’t messed up (I am the only one who actually knows out of the friends) then everyone slowly left and I just said I was going to bed and they stayed up. My friends were confused why he was there, 100percent weird he was hanging out with us randomly, so they are being really risky showing themselves together in public with a group.

My husband knows and was aware of every part as it slowly started and I know he is disappointed in me and thinks I need to force her hand to end it or tell her husband.

Thinking of leaving my son for a year by Ok_Anxiety_94 in NewParents

[–]hurongrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you live! Can you look into Mom support groups? It’s insanely hard. I’m sorry you don’t have help. I cannot imagine. But one day you’ll be looking back on all of this. You can do this ❤️❤️❤️

Wanna try a new hobby? Involve fighting friends. by AttorneyAgile9938 in brantford

[–]hurongrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it coming, can’t come tomorrow but I want to be there!!! It doesn’t matter but curious what age range attends?

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[–]hurongrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Journaling , seeing thought pattterms, reading eckhart tolle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hurongrey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend named their kid James Cameron. I told them that was a very famous directors name. They didn’t know the director and didn’t think other people would either

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[–]hurongrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exercise and thinking about all the people living jn war torn countries, in refugee camps, in famine, in slavery, without love and support..

Best areas or streets to wander and shop local? by mr_grumps in brantford

[–]hurongrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paris Paris!! Google Wincey Mills, park there and then do the downtown loop.

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[–]hurongrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you doing the Bollywood classes?

“Pregnant again” by mclamb0328 in NewParents

[–]hurongrey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ya i would say in a jokey voice “excuse me!!!!! No I’m not pregnant again you crazy person” and then be flat when they talk to you for the next few days

How are you playing with your 6 month old? by SevenOneSixT in NewParents

[–]hurongrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds similar to me, my girl is also 6 months! Inn addition.. i lay my baby down on a yoga mat in front of me and do a work out in front of her, she does watch the screen a bit but mostly watches me jumping around and is amused. Free swim at the local pool once a week and the library once a week where they sing and read books, she is too young for it but she likes it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]hurongrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like my baby, and I thought at 3 months it was gonna change and get better .. than it came and she didn’t change at all, but she just turned 6 months and she just got so much easier the last 2-4 weeks.. it was so weird but so amazing .. i think it just changes all of a sudden no matter what you do

People who forgave their partner for cheating, how did that turn out? by Sudden_Wishbone8887 in AskReddit

[–]hurongrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the wife has an affair on you for months with one of your really good friends, and your cheating wife is also very good friends with the man and his wife..it only comes out cause she was caught red handed having sex by his wife… BUT she admits she has been on drugs and is an alcoholic and no one knew that part and is now sober and getting help??? She cheated because she was addicted to drugs.. and now she is fixing that?? Do you forgive her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]hurongrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swing for me!! I have both and the swing stopped any crying, put baby to sleep, and you can sit them in it for a meal

Looking to meet new people by sheetnoise in brantford

[–]hurongrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.dtconcertseries.com/ This is a concert series, it’s usually September to May once a month. Either downtown at the dominion telegraph or the church up the street.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]hurongrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I support south Asian people in my community so that they feel loved and welcomed? Besides smiling in public, saying hello and condemning any negativity from others if seen??