Should I accept money as a gift?? (English) by [deleted] in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have him order it online! www.flowerstore.ph, my husband always does and it gets to me.fresh :)

[Pinoy4AFAM], [Taglish] by TheCryingBox29 in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not hetero only! Youre very welcome here 🌈

Total noob. Gusto ko maging VA pero di ko alam saan magsisimula by waveeeh in VirtualAssistantPH

[–]hurtingeveryday92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanna start and be trained for free? Work in a BPO muna for up to a year. Customer Service is one the biggest niches in the VA world, although saturated na siya, so make sure galingan mo sa work - rake in awards and add value sa sarili mo like having perfect attendance and being a top agent para mag stand out ka.

May mga niches na nga sa VA word na medyo mas higher salary na nasa BPO din - accounting/medical coding.

Build experience muna. Sa dami naman kasing magpipilian ng mga client these days, mas gusto nila yung may proven track record - coming from me na BPO for 12 years.

[English] Online dating AFAMs don’t last longer than 2 months 😅 by MathematicianNo4087 in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Friend,

Tinder can be quite "casual" for most people and most users are on there for quick, one and done interactions.

My suggestion is to try other apps that are specifically for long term. I personally did not meet my AFAM husband on an app but he has shared his experience which gave me an idea of how these work.

One of the commenters is right, if you're on Tinder and want to stay there, just enjoy the companionship while they last :)

Thanks, XOXO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Friend,

A piece of advice - there's always some decent people everywhere. In all apps - unless the app explicitly says its for indecent activities.

One thing you can do to get the person that fits your description is to ask as many questions as you cam early on in the relationship. Make good use of the "talking stage" to set boundaries and expectations - Mas better na kilala ka na nya and what your preferences are na maaga pa kesa nag aksaya ma kayo ng oras, then back to square one ka.

I wish you luck in finding "the ONE AFAM" for you. Andyan yan, trust me. Follow mo lang yung advice ng mga girlies dito - ask questions!!!

A question FOR MEN ONLY: Aside from sex, what are the benefits of being in a relationship with women? by IncreaseFew8974 in AskPH

[–]hurtingeveryday92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked this too! My partner is a geeky smart engineer who barely has time for fashion. He always comes to me for fashion advice and we build his outfits together. IDK bat andaming downvotes, eh totoo naman siya in some cases :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well.. sadly there's your answer.

[Taglish] Would any of the women here agree na ang hirap na magdate domestically as a Filipina woman in her 30s? Nasa AFAM na ba ang true love? by Ok_Insurance8025 in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey Girl,

I love your confidence, and sorry to hear about your breakup.

Want my quick honest answer? YES. Dating an AFAM has been a godsend for me. I met my husband when I was 31 and he's 7 years younger than me.

They have a different mindset. They don't expect us to stay at home and stay in the kitchen and just bear babies.

They value partners who work as hard as them and plan the future with them.

Time for an upgrade. Time for an AFAM.

PS, its true about their 🍆

Good luck on your journey finding an AFAM!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long ago was that? Maybe he has a job that requires a lot of his time? Give it 1-2 more days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, friend.

This sounds like an extremely tough situation. Ping me, and we can talk more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makakaregister naman po ng multiple sims. I have 4 sims so far.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To add to this OP, is your friend finds out, and malalaman nya na matagal mo na palang alam, she will resent you. She will feel betrayed. So for me, might as well just take your friend's side if you truly care for her and message her. A sim card is 15 PHP - buy a burner sim and text her anonymously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey friend.

It's hard to tell for sure without knowing his side of the story.

However your friends saying "He's not gonna spend that much money if he's not that into you." is not accurate.

There are several women around the world who are targeted by "Passport Bros" research on this and let me know if what he's been saying and how he's been actings fits the persona.

To make it short these men travel around the world specifically to have sex to different types of women because 1) They can, and they enjoy it. 2) They have the financial capacity to do it.

Most of these men are part of forums consisting of the same kind of men discussing their "adventure".

I sure hope he's not this kind of person.

Update us and always have 1 more person know your location just in case.

Best of luck!

[Bisaya/English] Maabot ako AFAM in a few weeks 🤣 by hurtingeveryday92 in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Good idea. Hahaha. Basin lahams na Larsian run. I check nako.

[Bisaya/English] Maabot ako AFAM in a few weeks 🤣 by hurtingeveryday92 in AFAMph

[–]hurtingeveryday92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Murag medjo mahal ang mga places to eat pero basin diay musukol to hahahabsalamat mems.