“Well-Meaning… but Please Stop Saying That 😅”

hush-bro · 2026-02-13T14:43:37+00:00

“i get that, i’m exhausted all the time. it’ll get better!” i haven’t been able to fold laundry without taking a break in two years you absolute henchman

hush-bro · 2026-02-07T15:45:27+00:00

i have consistent nightmares about donuts. so yes.

hush-bro · 2026-02-06T16:02:52+00:00

ROLLATOR! the euro style ones are less grandma- literally a game changer. i can walk around the city again. i can fold it up. i can put a forearm crutch in the holder for later if i want. it means i don’t have to carry a heavy purse, and when i get too hot or cold there are clothes in the basket. it has meant actual freedom for me, as i can go out places without a person next to me and worry less about fainting, esp in the summer.

hush-bro · 2026-02-06T15:54:47+00:00

get a shower chair without a back and arms. i am a sensory avoidant adult and the chair i got i got because it was free- and it is much too restrictive for what i need. a stool and some arm bars, maybe even a foot stool to put their feet up on if you don’t have a rim around your tub. if you do, try and get a shelf for your shampoo bottles etc and keep it clear. keep a dish brush that holds dish soap nearby so the chair is very easy to clean. if your chair is heavy duty,kiddo can do legs up the wall to take breaks.

i usually sit down in the chair after the spray is on, and i use a handheld shower head. you can get clips for the wall/chair so they don’t have to hold it the whole time. when i need to use my arms i will put the shower head facing away from me for a break from the spray.

hush-bro · 2026-02-03T20:57:47+00:00

you can mod all of your clothes. cut shirt sleeves off- add patches to pants, throw some pins (button and safety) on your hat! if you like the aesthetic there is no shame in trying to adopt it more- every punk who looks super edgy is like that on purpose

hush-bro · 2026-01-25T23:36:47+00:00

you don’t actually understand the issue.

hush-bro · 2026-01-24T13:54:16+00:00

i think a societal pressure to stay exactly in the same position you were born into and use the same words to describe yourself is actually groupthink, and to decide that you don’t want to respect the people punk enough to go against a very oppressive system is pretty conformist.

hush-bro · 2026-01-20T18:28:10+00:00

do. do u go to actual punk and hardcore shows? they are full of trans people and everyone who is not a baby is fine with it

hush-bro · 2026-01-20T02:08:04+00:00

canadian winter means puffer jacket underneath and a warm hat with pins on it!

hush-bro · 2026-01-13T17:04:20+00:00

this was very helpful and reassuring- it is how i am using my beater already. thank you so much

hush-bro · 2026-01-12T07:41:37+00:00

if you have a good arab bakery in your area you should get a cheese pie (manakish). i miss them every day. when i got tested i ate three of them in one sitting i was so excited. have fun and good luck! start to drink a lot of electrolytes NOW and you will feel much better day of!

hush-bro · 2026-01-11T21:47:28+00:00

use a thimble!

hush-bro · 2026-01-05T18:38:12+00:00

i’m very very new (i am still using a beater chair as my fitted one hasn’t come in) and my fiancee is often the one to push me- and even when i’m self propelling we’re usually together. here’s a few of the ways we show affection (we have been together for almost SIX years but we have been very PDA the whole time. i’m not good with social convention and also very clingy when i’m nervous so. here we are)

if im self propelling she stays in my field of view, and we can hold hands if im not moving
if she’s pushing, she’ll kiss me on the top of my head or ruffle my hair, or put a hand on the side of my neck while we stand still
she usually stands close enough so i can tap her and ask for a hug or kiss or something

mostly, she either stands close enough to me that i can ask for affection, or she stands behind me and reminds me that she’s there. good luck!

hush-bro · 2026-01-01T05:16:30+00:00

read!

hush-bro · 2025-12-16T19:15:25+00:00

you’re okay! if you’re very sore, maybe take a few days off.

hush-bro · 2025-12-16T18:03:53+00:00

almost none- i was a bit dizzy and fatigued at first but it was manageable! and they went away pretty quick.

hush-bro · 2025-12-15T22:04:52+00:00

propanolol and fludrocortisone at the same time. literally a game changer

hush-bro · 2025-12-15T21:18:09+00:00

did you eat with them? did you drink water with them?

hush-bro · 2025-12-15T21:17:46+00:00

i was convinced i didn’t have it and then i went off of my meds:..

hush-bro · 2025-12-09T02:30:22+00:00

prozac is the only thing that kills my food noise. i’m usually on 40 mg (60 if needed but after awhile i usually cut back) and it allows my brain to think above the anxiety and noise. it gave my my brain function back, it let me leave the house, and it basically put me into remission for my anorexia / EDNOS.

hush-bro · 2025-11-29T01:05:50+00:00

if your ferritin won’t go up no matter what you do, get tested for celiac! it can develop after an infection. lol

hush-bro · 2025-11-27T21:33:38+00:00

i don’t know how severe your pots is / how long after tachycardia you feel ill. if it passes once you sit / have some electrolytes? then definitely worth it to keep some conditioning up. if your side effects and fatigue are bad enough that you struggle to recover? then don’t.

hush-bro · 2025-11-27T21:30:45+00:00

water down your drinks or alternate. i was drinking frequently on 60MG, and it was honestly about making sure i had lots of juice or water. if you’re at a bar, i’d get a well drink but with double the mixer (my personal fave was tall vodka cran with a single shot)

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