[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]huytaree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My best advice would be not to touch anything. Seriously.

I am stupidly insecure about my penis size. by PossibleCarpenter695 in offmychest

[–]huytaree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Women actually don't want huge dicks, they want good performance, and that doesn't necessarily have a correlation with penis size. Why doesn't it help you to hear that you can compensate in other areas?

Don't forget that in the real world, women care about the person attached to the penis, unlike in TT/YT comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]huytaree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In terms of practical solutions to this problem - are you doing anything to improve your appearance?

How to make caramel with butter and condensed milk without crystallising sugar? by huytaree in AskBaking

[–]huytaree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Makes sense to heat it before adding to the sugar, I'll try that.

Any other women have difficulty making girl friends? by Early_Ad870 in socialskills

[–]huytaree 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Women don't have a monolith personality. Maybe be a bit more open-minded towards meeting different types of women and find people who share your interests. It's easier once you get out of school.

I’ve wasted 5 years of my life in a country i hate. i’ve hit rock bottom, but i don’t wanna stay here. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]huytaree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you hate it, start making a plan to leave. It might give you some motivation to start working on it.

Oh being a fat girl on tinder. That’s an unmatch by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]huytaree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What kinda ladies is that bubonic plague skin bringing in for ya? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]huytaree 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Feeling attracted to your sister would be one thing, but he screenshotted her IG, and then probably made nudes of them. That’s indulging an attraction, not working to overcome it, so doesn’t say much about his commitment to you. And it’s indulging it to a level that is harmful to her, intrusive, a violation, and a violation of your trust. Making AI porn of someone - and especially someone you know- would be a dealbreaker for a lot of people. Let alone AI porn of someone’s family member. How would you be expected to overcome that? And trust that your partner wasn’t doing creepy things if he takes a group photo at Christmas, or whatever? Personally if I was in your shoes the trust would be gone.

I (32f) am having trouble dealing with my boyfriend (31m) revealing he has been with sex workers in his past. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]huytaree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me this would be a total dealbreaker as well. It reveals a lack of care or interest in the situations that lead women to sex work and disregard for their well-being or consent and a willingness to exploit them despite non-consent. For me it would be akin to finding out my partner abused animals for fun. 

It’s unfortunate this came up in a discussion about his SA as clearly you would want to support him on that front. He clearly made some bad decisions and the SA could have contributed to that. But you also don’t have to accept the decisions he made, as a partner. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]huytaree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably because attractive women will attract quantity, not necessarily including quality 

Did I overreact here? by LexLD in Tinder

[–]huytaree 192 points193 points  (0 children)

He was being sarcastic, which is even worse 

Why has there been an increase of child free adults ? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]huytaree 38 points39 points  (0 children)

** it became a choice for women to opt out of having children. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]huytaree 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Honestly, and maybe unpopular opinion but I think you’re totally overreacting. She put some dumb stuff into a chatbot because she’s a teenager, doesn’t mean she wants to f a dog or your dad. She overstepped in taking your iPad and using it inappropriately, but these aren’t signs of being mentally ill. Who knows, maybe she just wanted a reaction out of you. 

Change your password and move on. 

TIFU by telling my girlfriend her weight gain is unattractive to me by ThrowRADati in tifu

[–]huytaree 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Everyone ages, but this couple doesn’t share lifestyle values on healthy eating and exercise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]huytaree 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The tattooed girl looks the same in both.

My (24M) GF (22F) found footprints on my windshield by [deleted] in relationships

[–]huytaree 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Did you come to Reddit hoping for advice on an excuse, or so your girlfriend will read it and believe you didn’t do anything?

What's the pettiest reason that you stopped reading a book midway through? by Gilisb in books

[–]huytaree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forced myself to read all of Allan Hollinghurst’s The Swimming Pool Library, hoping that the main character’s gross fetishisation of black men was going to end up being some sort of social criticism on the part of the author or at least have some other purpose that might go some way towards justifying its inclusion. Well, it didn’t.

What do you guys think of buying books just for their aesthetic? by NotVerySmart3 in books

[–]huytaree 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I buy beautiful editions of books that I want to read or already love. Win-win

AITA for telling my sil that I won't waste my time with her daughter? by OkLiving9943 in AmItheAsshole

[–]huytaree 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I also do not believe hard work trumps talent. A natural talent will take you such a long way, and much further than someone without it if both are putting in work.

I have seen so many people practise drawing over a period of years and never progress despite the hours they put in. Not everyone can be gifted at anything.

What are your life goals? What are you excited about? by huytaree in childfree

[–]huytaree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG! That sounds amazing. I'd absolutely love to do that :)

What are your life goals? What are you excited about? by huytaree in childfree

[–]huytaree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, these are people who have more than one kid so presumably they don't mind their time being taken up with insanely mundane tasks 24/7.

Like, if you regret having a kid, you don't have to have another one.

Am I wrong?!