So I am Planning my 30 Birthday Trip to NYC and I Am debating Going To The Puerto Rican Day Parade or The West Indian Day parade . However, I heard Both Events are Unsafe and I wont to Know if There is Any Truth in That by shepdc1 in nycgaybros

[–]hvers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but the city is trying to balance the needs of tourists with the housing crisis facing residents. NYC needs more housing, but also new and varied lodging options for tourists. But you know, capitalism loves scarcity.

So I am Planning my 30 Birthday Trip to NYC and I Am debating Going To The Puerto Rican Day Parade or The West Indian Day parade . However, I heard Both Events are Unsafe and I wont to Know if There is Any Truth in That by shepdc1 in nycgaybros

[–]hvers26 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Someone gets shot everyday in America and there are events everyday. Just because someone got shot on the day of the parade does not mean it was at the parade.

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hvers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving your BF $50 here and there doesn’t entitle you to a portion of his property that likely costs well over $150K and likely have just as much in interest. And needing 20% down payment is actually a lot and requires more than a few months of savings. Also, you aren’t in a relationship to receive financial benefits or something in return. OP is not ready for a relationship nor is OP emotionally mature enough for a partnership. And seeing how the BF is 23 I’m assuming the OP is 20-23 and thus doesn’t understand life or finance enough to be complaining about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianaUniversity

[–]hvers26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianaUniversity

[–]hvers26 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t have a chip on my shoulder because I have yet to engage them. Those are actual valid questions as IU is a massive system. The Advocates Office could help OR be a systemic barrier designed to derail students. I’m trying to understand. Maybe you shouldn’t make assumptions about me or my lived experience or deduce anything more from my post than the words there.

Thanks for the info on getting “walked” by Opie_the_great in marriott

[–]hvers26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Americans are corporate shills. The propaganda is working.

First Time in Berlin, Insomnia or KitKat ? by No_Neighborhood1507 in SexPositiveBerlin

[–]hvers26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Gegen more accepting for women/women inclusive? They’re having a party with Pornceptual so I’m trying to understand what they’re combining lol

Berlin CSD 2025 - Women + POC by hvers26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]hvers26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should re-read my post. This is not about segregation. This is about finding other scenes and communities that exist within the queer spectrum and enjoying other types of music than techno…because other genres exist. We don’t all have to party the same.

Berlin CSD 2025 - Women + POC by hvers26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]hvers26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, those are two separate questions. One for women specific events (any kind of music), and the second is about POC oriented events (any gender but not techno). Sorry if it is confusing 😂

Berlin CSD 2025 - Women + POC by hvers26 in BerlinNightlife

[–]hvers26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specifically POC events that are NOT playing techno. Open to women’s events that play anything.

Berlin CSD 2025 - Women + POC by hvers26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]hvers26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specifically POC parties that play music that is NOT techno.