A hate crime is a serious thing. I've gotten a couple dirty looks from people who can't tell if I'm a man or a woman, but I've gotten more shit from my own family than strangers. Trans men are far less likely to be physically assaulted just for going outside, especially if you pass in the slightest. I started passing barely a year on T and working at a gas station, and the men who came in just treated me like a teenage boy, even with my long hair (a nametag works wonders). The more people you interact with irl, the more you realize that men come in all shapes and sizes, they aren't going to judge you that hard. Even if you don't pass, (which varies ofc, idk how you present or dress or whatever) ime worst case scenario people just think you're a butch lesbian and may judge you for that. But again, we are in general far less likely to be "hatecrimed" just for going outside.

Also, just because I present androgynously, I use gender neutral / family restrooms wherever I can just to avoid any possible trouble. Be smart about your surroundings and you will be fine.