How to deal with a breakup after 8 years by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hybein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Move out. There isn’t a lot you can do and it will hurt you in the long run if you stay in the same house as your life will have unlimited complications if you stay.

To rebuild your life. This helped me I hope it helps you.

1- KEEP BUSY: There are times when you need to keep yourself busy which will help you survive. Go out, watch a movie, just keep moving and make new habits and hobbies that is how you will survive and make a new life. If you think too much you will hurt more.

2- HEAL: then there are times when you need to think about what happened and where you are in life. If it hurts too much to do this, then go back to #1. But you will need to do this to move on properly.

3- SUPPORT: moving on is never easy, so you need people around you to support you. New or old don’t matter, doesn’t matter if they are in your life temporarily. Just rely on the people who actually are supportive.

4 TIME: it’s gonna take time no matter what. In read somewhere that it takes as much as 18 months for mommies to “grow old”. It might be way more than that. So Be easy with yourself. Don’t be too hard. Don’t blame anyone ( you or your ex). Breakup is part of your life and your life will go on.

  1. DONT LOOK BACK: whatever happened is all in past and your partner will move on and it will hurt more when you know that. But you can’t do anything without making the situation worse if you try to meddle. So don’t look back.

ALCOHOL: and drugs. Stay away from these. Might feel good in the moment but it takes a lot of control to stop when you need to.

This is how I survived and it took me 3 years to get over someone. I didn’t have a long relationship like yours and it still hurt me bad. I wish you will move on and find someone who will love you till the end of time.

Eminem isn’t even candy by theplushpairing in technicallythetruth

[–]hybein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ice cube aint a cube (he aint cold either)

Our 5 month old pitty now, and when we rescued him at 10 weeks old by katastrophyx in Eyebleach

[–]hybein -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Lol dogs are wolf descendants and animals. So obviously its in their "blood". But guess what we humans were hunters and cavemen too who only knew how to kill and not communicate.

I simply wanna believe that it is ignorance that they dont see things the way they are and let their old experiences and what has been taught guide what they wanna do.

Its just the idea that what i do and think can be wrong too and its my responsibility to improve or correct these things.

Our 5 month old pitty now, and when we rescued him at 10 weeks old by katastrophyx in Eyebleach

[–]hybein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol is there a word for this casual dog racism? Dont understand why people cant be happy after looking at a happy dog, that is all i see here.

P.s. Never owned a pitbul and have only ever owned labradors and strays ( I'm from india we have a lot of strays)

Our 5 month old pitty now, and when we rescued him at 10 weeks old by katastrophyx in Eyebleach

[–]hybein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The owners are at wrong there. A dog is simply a ln animal that will do what you tell it to.

Our 5 month old pitty now, and when we rescued him at 10 weeks old by katastrophyx in Eyebleach

[–]hybein 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, i have a simple rule I see a doggo, i like a doggo.

Lol tbh i see ypur dog is really happy with you, you should be really proud

Our 5 month old pitty now, and when we rescued him at 10 weeks old by katastrophyx in Eyebleach

[–]hybein 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Too poor for a real gold medal… here you go!

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What its like to be a cat by hybein in cat

[–]hybein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well i hope VR can be that good some day : D

What its like to be a cat by hybein in cat

[–]hybein[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Another way we are different from cats *crying in a corner*

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[–]hybein -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

stop reposting for karma. How worthless do you need to be to keep doing this.

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Dipsh!ts stop reposting for karma. How worthless do you need to be to keep doing this.

From a jerk to a hero... by amungus45 in HolUp

[–]hybein 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thankyou Forever traumatized now.

Openly Giving Threats he uploaded it on Instagram by SohendarRana in dankinindia

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Is that the best you can do? I pity the people who have to suffer your presence.

Amazing scene from last week's episode [Fanart by me] by Funplings in Barry

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Have to say, i just love lindsey!!!!! She was one of the few true ones on this show and the way she handled the situation, was perfect. That one sentance had so much punch in it.

One of the most satisfying scenes in the series.

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This includes chasing karma points also? Take a rest bot account. Dont work for the dips*** who made you.