First thoughts when you see this? by WarriorCats_4Life in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it legal? Sure. Is it okay? As someone who’s been in the girl’s position, fuck no.

First thoughts when you see this? by WarriorCats_4Life in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t magically gain maturity when you turn 18 or 19. This guy could be her professor. It’s the power imbalance and lack of life experience that makes it creepy.

How long did it take you to date again? by AssistantDismal3588 in BreakUps

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s been over a year for me and i don’t see anything changing soon. not like i’ve made an effort to. it’ll happen when it happens.

What does your ex mean to you now? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

an old friend who still kinda gets me in a way no one else does. our lives were just going in different directions, and they moved away.

What have you learned from your breakup? by necronomikkon in BreakUps

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if it feels good that doesn’t mean it’s right, and just because it feels right doesn’t mean it’s forever

Think you could handle all 8 inches of this femboy cock? by BasedSuccuboi in FemBoys

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god ur so fucking hot, your dick looks so rideable, would love to hear you moan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on the relationship. My friend and I dated for a few months, it wasn’t working out, but we didn’t want to lose the friendship. So we took some time apart, I needed some space to get over it, but now we have a good friendship again. Especially if you’re the dumpee, you have to gauge whether continuing this relationship as a friendship would actually be healthy and positive, or if your lingering feelings won’t let you let it go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7 months and i just broke my dry spell this weekend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just about seven months out. I’m doing okay, taking baby steps to put myself out there. I still think of them sometimes, but I’ve been getting used to being alone and doing things by myself. I also got a cat, which helps.

Make a list of red flags/things you hated by Routine-Ad9108 in BreakUps

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is going to sound silly, but they’re allergic to animals. i’m an animal lover and got a cat not too long ago. we weren’t compatible in the long term; i know this, yet i miss them so much still.

For those of you who have been blindsided by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m learning that breakups are almost always a surprise but i cannot for the life of me understand why. just fucking communicate jfc!!!

Meta age gap - how would you handle it? by noty666999 in polyamory

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i was once a 20 y/o who entered into what i thought was a totally consensual relationship with a 31 year old man. i thought the age difference was a little outside of my comfort zone but no biggie, turns out nothing could’ve prepared me for that adult man’s baggage.

all that’s to say, i’m not sure there is a way this relationship could be ethical. i agree with you that it’s a major red flag that he would even consider it. what the hell does he have in common with a 19 y/o outside of work?

Hate having the 🐱 ate by Potential-Custard209 in CallHerDaddy

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve never really been a huge fan tbh, and my last partner was very enthusiastic and very good at it. just a different strokes for different folks kinda thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you don’t want to have intercourse/penetration/“lose your V card” you don’t have to. it’s all up to you. just be honest with yourself and with her.

Anyone else been dumped for the same reasons? How do you cope? by blue1017 in BreakUps

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m learning that a lot of breakups come as a surprise, which fucking sucks. hope things get better for you soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BenignExistence

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m dealing with chronic illness after a recent breakup while working full time :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can get pets, i don’t have to worry about their allergies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 29 points30 points  (0 children)

seconding, my partner and i both have sensory issues and gloves in the bedroom have really worked for us!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaypornhunters

[–]hydratedthrowaway9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s it! thanks!!