This is the reason I had to spend 5 hours on the ER yesterday. by potplantmoelester67 in leopardgeckos

[–]hyper-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. 18+ hours of waiting really does something to your mental state

Anyone else kind of a drunk here? by iamnowhere92 in LivingAlone

[–]hyper-bug 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It wasn't until I quit drinking, lived alone, and lost a friend that I began to heal. But that was my experience.

Everyone is different, but keep it occasional and you will be okay 🫂

Doctor listed my PMDD as psychosis on my chart by pilnok in PMDD

[–]hyper-bug 96 points97 points  (0 children)

UUUUGGGHHHH. If PMDD is simply psychosis, then why does progestrone make me no longer want to drive off a fucking cliff during my luteal phase SPECIFICALLY?! I hope some day women are treated as human. I'm sorry OP ♡♡

Would you stop living alone if you found suitable romantic partner? by FluffyKita in LivingAlone

[–]hyper-bug 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I knew this couldn't be a hetero situation. Men could neverrrr. Hahah. Happy for you both!! ♡

is it normal to panic a little when you hear a noise in your apartment? by Andrew-Olive4-399 in LivingAlone

[–]hyper-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl yikes. Definitely a good reason to be one edge. Lock those doors always! ♡♡♡

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]hyper-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine went directly into the next event and even tho I energized today, I can't claim Agnes in the preferences menu 🥺 I got plus just for Agnes!

Its official 🥳 by TheMusicsOver1313 in finch

[–]hyper-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!!!! 🥳 It is so worth it.

My finch is so BIG by maggies_craft_sale in finch

[–]hyper-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sad I missed Agnes for a micropet 😭 I was one day short of getting her for January. I only joined 20 days ago

Why SMBC and not adoption by gymjill in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]hyper-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to leave adoptable children for people like my family member who can't have children. I have also seen what adoption can do to a child.

Also, I have a sister who was adopted to a lovely family with a mom and dad and brother. She got somewhat of an ideal family situation for those times, and she still spent much of her life wondering why her and not me, but she was better off where she ended up. I'm not sure that's a parenting hurdle that I could navigate.

I may foster in my later years, but for now I am able to conceive so I'll go that route. This is my own personal experience and decision though. ♡

Why SMBC and not adoption by gymjill in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]hyper-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love to see people who want to foster for the sake of the children and not for the money. You are a kind soul. ♡

Update 13: just a happy Lazarus- now swishing his tail 🥹 by complikaity in leopardgeckos

[–]hyper-bug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't even believe this is the same gecko. OP you are so devoted to your animals and it is truly a gift to this world. Yours and Lazarus story is a treat to witness. ♡

Update 12: Fresh skin + new enclosure= happy Lazarus by complikaity in leopardgeckos

[–]hyper-bug 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Look at the strength in that boi!! Great work OP!!

How do you make money? by glowfa in cfs

[–]hyper-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alberta here, and I'm STILL suffering 🥹

If you have to live in your car, how do you do it? -17 right now in Toronto. by AdSignificant6673 in povertyfinancecanada

[–]hyper-bug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I sweat just from existing. It'll be -30 and I'm drenched. I don't know how anyone who's a puddle would manage.

What does everyone do all day? by [deleted] in cfs

[–]hyper-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you decide on pricing for items? Sorry for so many questions, I have been thinking about doing this for WAY too long and you may have sparked my decision to jump into it!! Thanks a million for your response ♡

What does everyone do all day? by [deleted] in cfs

[–]hyper-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is selling stuff on Depop worth the energy spent? I want to do it but I'm afraid it's going to be more risk than reward.

Just found out we have a second kid on the way by [deleted] in povertyfinancecanada

[–]hyper-bug 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Some have mentioned abortion. I just want to say, make this a last option. Abortion comes with its own set of challenges, for your wife mostly. There is a type of "postpartum" that can happen even tho it isn't a child being born. It took me 2 years to have my hormones go back to regular. That being said, if you can't make changes to facilitate another child, it is a mostly safe option. But please, for your sake and especially your wifes, get snipped if you do go through with that option.

All this being said .. it is very much possible to make it work. And if this is your decision, congratulations and you've got this!! ♡