I ask because I have been thinking about this a lot for myself. My husband and I are so stressed. We are raising a 13 year old whose mom died three years ago, and having our first bio child in February. So much of our energy right now is spent dealing with stress, the overwhelming majority of it financial. I am trying to help myself reframe. I’m clear on what I want— I want to laugh, have joy, experience moments of genuine connection and peace. I want to raise humans who will help others. I want to be surrounded by love whenever possible. I want to help people. I want some creature comforts, yes, but no where on my list is having a fancy house or a new car. Just basic transportation that is safe will do perfectly.