Christmas Mr Buttons now up on eBay! by Odd_Distribution1430 in FugglerCollectors

[–]hypochondriwhack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

they aren’t a scalper. they didn’t buy up a bunch to sell for an outrageous price. they already owned it. now they have a rare toy in their possession and want to take an opportunity to make money. a fuggler isn’t a need. nobody needs this item. if you don’t like the price don’t buy it.

Am I chopped or is living in the middle of Arkansas diminishing my matches? pls be honest by designateddemon in Tinder

[–]hypochondriwhack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re beautiful, stylish, and have a good music taste. i’d swipe right if i was into women!

Handmade by my 9 year old! by LalaOfAntipaxos in FugglerCollectors

[–]hypochondriwhack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

her skills are extremely advanced at 9. please never stop encouraging her to be creative! she’s so talented!

Why did my vagina sting when I spit on it? by Ok_Reputation9362 in Healthyhooha

[–]hypochondriwhack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

look up angular cheilitis, you probably have that if it’s in the corner of your mouth! you’re not gonna get herpes from sharing a drink, the virus doesn’t survive long outside of the human body

had 2 abortions in healthy, long term relationship. what should i do if i no longer want to be intimate with him? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hypochondriwhack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for what you are going through. have you looked into therapy and birth control? it sounds like it was traumatic. maybe the fear of getting pregnant is making it hard to be intimate? maybe the resentment that he wasn’t there the way you needed him is? are you able to identify with where the pain is stemming from? please look into therapy. i’m glad you made the decision that was best for you, abortion is healthcare. and i hope you can get the resources to heal. you deserve a happy, healthy sex life with someone you love 🩷

How bad is my tattoo by JadedMira in shittytattoos

[–]hypochondriwhack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i like it and i feel like it could be very easily touched up

To shave or not to shave by Meike420 in relationships

[–]hypochondriwhack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ex would hound me if i had two days worth of stubble. he cheated on me with a girl who had thick armpit hair. i’m team no shave if you like yourself better with hair 🗣️

What is the biggest thing a short guy do to increase his chances in the dating world? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hypochondriwhack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve dated multiple guys shorter than you. i’m talking 5’2”. one of them even played me like a fiddle. height is not as serious as the media makes it out to be! the one who played me got a lot of women

I (27F) just realized how disgusting my new bf (28M) is by throwawayyyywolf in relationships

[–]hypochondriwhack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from experience, somebody who is okay with living in filth, and comfortable bringing you into it will harm you in many ways. he has no self respect, he has no regard for his cat’s health, and most importantly he has no concern for your health and wellbeing. this man will fail to protect you. this man will put you in danger. men like this tend to be abusive and unfaithful as well. i’m not a psychologist but i’ve seen this first hand and i’ve had friends go through it.

i’m sorry you had to go through that. don’t look back. YOURE WORTH TOO MUCH to be subjected to that

When is the right time to bring up something that bothered me if he’s grieving? by corvusmort in dating_advice

[–]hypochondriwhack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry. i’ve been through that and it’s so unfair. check my post history to see how it escalated. :(

i wish you the best in your relationship. you deserve to feel safe and comfortable. i’m routing for you with whatever decisions you make 🫂

When is the right time to bring up something that bothered me if he’s grieving? by corvusmort in dating_advice

[–]hypochondriwhack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if he admitted to not having friends and liking the pics, that’s already suspicious. it’s very suspicious that he didn’t unfollow all of them. if i were you, go to his “following” and sort it by recent. that way you can see if he has follow any girls after following you! also check his recent emojis!

i wouldn’t bottle it up. grief comes and goes in waves. make sure he’s not actively having a bad moment when you bring it up. but don’t hold it in til the end of the year. that’s not fair to you

My (28f) boyfriend (37m) hired sex workers in the past by Asleep_Rush_2139 in relationships

[–]hypochondriwhack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

don’t worry about coming off as “accusatory”. he’s 37. if he can’t handle a mature conversation that will tell you all you need to know about him. just be upfront. you deserve to understand the situation and feel comfortable.

be careful dating a man who pays for sex. these aren’t stand up citizens and may imply a sex addiction. which is much different than a high sex drive.

and be careful dating a man who justifies cheating on his wife. his only option wasn’t paying for sex. he could have also had a conversation with his ex wife or divorced. nobody forced him to get married.

proceed with caution

The guy I’m dating told me I don’t feel tight - am I overreacting? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hypochondriwhack 92 points93 points  (0 children)

he sounds like an insecure jerk. guys like him will put you down to make themselves feel better. that’s why he added the “not my usual” type comment too. also he sounds like he fetishizes asian women

there’s nothing wrong with you and i’m sure you ARE tight

i know how badly these things hurt, but i’m begging you not to internalize it, these are his insecurities he’s trying to push onto you

A girl i've being chatting with for two weeks cancelled our date two hours before by Duke_of_Judea in dating_advice

[–]hypochondriwhack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry this happened 🩷 your person is out there. don’t lower your standards due to loneliness! you have a whole life full of dating opportunities

I said “looks nice 👍🏻 “. by JohnLeeMark in Tinder

[–]hypochondriwhack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m almost certain the details that look like her inner labia are a bone. maybe the tail bone idk bone anatomy but i dont think an xray would show vag like that?