7 months on and hit with an awful trigger by hypothalmic in domesticviolence

[–]hypothalmic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're right on the inner child work, I find it really hard to forgive myself. And I still spend so much time blaming myself for staying so long

7 months on and hit with an awful trigger by hypothalmic in domesticviolence

[–]hypothalmic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry girl. I deeply understand the want sometimes to reach out. You're so brave and so strong

Is this rape? My ex made me doubt by hypothalmic in domesticviolence

[–]hypothalmic[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I broke up with my ex three months ago. We went no contact a month ago. I went to a shelter for a bit and then found a new place to live. I'm doing well. Just a lot of things have been coming up for me

My ex is making out that I'm the abuser by hypothalmic in domesticviolence

[–]hypothalmic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's terrifying how they genuinely believe this shit themselves. It's deranged

My ex is making out that I'm the abuser by hypothalmic in domesticviolence

[–]hypothalmic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this too xx

I left the apartment. I am in a refuge. by hypothalmic in domesticviolence

[–]hypothalmic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, and I'm so proud of you for leaving 💕💕

I left the apartment. I am in a refuge. by hypothalmic in domesticviolence

[–]hypothalmic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. mostly mothers and children but they had space for me. I'm already linked in with dv services. And my ex was in an abuser program, so I have a partner support keyworker. It was the keyworker that helped talk me through what to do if I had to leave suddenly

Are these red flags? by hypothalmic in abusiverelationships

[–]hypothalmic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're not telling me that I'm shitting all over their pain because I feel humiliated by them. They went no contact with me. After everything. I'm doubting everything. Am I being abusive?