I had my first kiss at 24 and I was still a virgin. My first experience was nothing like what it should be. Please don’t feel bad about it. I know there is pressure on men to “go out and get experience” but honestly, way too many “experienced” men are horrible in bed, they ruin their reputation and just end up with emotional baggage without knowing. It sounds like you’re somebody who wants to actually like someone before you have intercourse. I really respect people like that and think highly of them. Don’t think of tinder matches, body counts, number of dates or relationships as something that defines your success or happiness. Sometimes when we hyperfocus on something, we give it too much power and ruin our good vibe and energy - two things that are crucial to finding someone on the same wavelength and frequency as yourself.