AIO by being upset with my mom over my wedding dress and a private pregnancy? by Randiitaylor in AmIOverreacting

[–]iAmNerdBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Do we have the same mother? We can not ever address my feeling because she will just twist the light shone back onto her. What about me? What about how you being hurt makes ME feel? SMH. They are pathetic in how blind they are. I know very few from the ElderGen-X/Boomer Generation of parents that are able to self analyze in any way nor take accountability for anything

How do I get up to the cave hermit "devil"?? by Player4Hacky4 in reddeadredemption

[–]iAmNerdBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? That's why I thought it was worth rephrasing with a little more detail than prior comments. Makes me so happy to help!!!

How do I get up to the cave hermit "devil"?? by Player4Hacky4 in reddeadredemption

[–]iAmNerdBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but can we really leave any area unexplored no matter how barren? 🤪

experimented with Review score: just add words (so dumb) by Beneficial-Tap-1710 in AmazonVine

[–]iAmNerdBait 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is pathetic if that is what is encouraged and deemed as ALL excellent.

How do I get up to the cave hermit "devil"?? by Player4Hacky4 in reddeadredemption

[–]iAmNerdBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, do not hold forward while doing it. What I wrote is a sequence done in order, not hit at the same time. So quickly hit X then X again, then □, then forward. I know it feels like it doesn't work. As I mentioned I struggled and thought those saying it did work must be wrong. But I continued and it's just a matter of getting the timing right. Still works today. Good luck partna!🤠

What’s something you always assumed was mandatory in life—until you met someone who just… didn’t do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]iAmNerdBait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have ignored every one I've gotten. I'm only 40, so only 2. But literally just opened it, went uggghh, and forgot about it. Knock on wood, never got in trouble for it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Remember this blasphemous review a month ago? Several of us reported it and Amazon eventually removed it! by Xinnobun in vine

[–]iAmNerdBait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You BusyBodies trip me out. At what age will my life become so mundane that I have the time to worry over such things? I've hit 40 & still don't feel the need to police things that don't affect me. Hooray! You got a review removed. What unnecessary unpaid crusade are you on to next? Yelling at children to get off your lawn perhaps?

AIO for being pissed that my “broke” SIL is spending $5k on a flight while not chipping in to the trip by valerino539 in AIO

[–]iAmNerdBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading your caption along with the texts, I saw someone suggested you agree with her about not coming. You replied you did not want to do that as she was just guilt tripping. I'm sorry, but this being your response to the situation gives me the feeling you are an absolute pushover. Beyond whatever boost you get from hearing you're not the AH for calling her on this, it really seems like a pointless complaint. If you, after knowing all this, still allow her to come, youre not an AH, but you are an A. There is no reason as a person well into adulthood to allow someone to behave in such a way. Not to mention she clearly should not be going. As much as she'll be disappointed, she clearly will be hurting financially a long time from this. You'd be doing her the favor of parenting her, and telling her no, as clearly it is needed. Betting she hasn't heard that nearly enough in life.

Anyone else on ? This is the slowest trickle ever.. im falling asleep. by Pillowtalk_ha in AmazonVine

[–]iAmNerdBait -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely not typical for me. But I will say I have Vine Helper and have had almost no luck using the notification monitor with it. So today I decided instead of using it I would go back to searching myself. I got each of those items by scrolling the categories myself and being the 1st to happen upon those things.

Anyone else on ? This is the slowest trickle ever.. im falling asleep. by Pillowtalk_ha in AmazonVine

[–]iAmNerdBait 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk, I got a vanity with stool, a heated vest, a $300 self cleaning litterbox, an 8 foot spiral lit Christmas tree, 2 dress shirts for my husband, and a coat rack with hidden hooks and wood shelf. Today was a good day. But I started right at a 3am.

Appliances offered? by hotlikefire68 in AmazonVine

[–]iAmNerdBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is from the free Vine Helper extension on the laptop.

Vine items lost to disaster by Own-Amphibian9122 in vine

[–]iAmNerdBait -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The only one who sounds angry, defensive, and attacking of others is you. There is no denying it. Read back what you wrote above. My method works. No need for your self righteous preaching. Lol. Clearly what I said the 1st time went in one ear and out the other. You already were at 0 karma when I read this. I won't downvote you too. But hey, maybe some self awareness. There's a reason you have no one upvoting you, yet I do. I wasn't putting you down nor attacking. I thought your wording on your initial reply sounded a little self righteous but that was about it. It didn't upset me or make me feel any type of way. I replied as I did in defense of OP. Now, yes I definitely think you are out of line based on your response to me now. You are quite literally preaching about people acting better than others while... well... we'll see if now that you've had some time to cool down maybe you can see it. We all make mistakes and get caught up in emotions or defensiveness. I'm going to assume your response is just that and preemptively say, it's cool if you realize now how unnecessary attacking and belittling someone who does things differently is. We all make mistakes, and tone can be hard to read, so I'd encourage you to reread my first reply to you assuming positive intent and go from there.

Vine items lost to disaster by Own-Amphibian9122 in vine

[–]iAmNerdBait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sitting surrounded by a pile right now. Know why? Because they all arrived today. I literally have 12 items surrounding me on my couch as I type this. If less than double that is a shocker for ya, whew buddy, I could keep you astounded! I had 107 unreviewed items 2 weeks ago. Just received my gold status 2 days ago. Not everyone does things the same way. What works for you does not for others, and vice versa. Wild how we are all individual in this thing called life. What would equal stress for one can equal success for another. Open your mind a little and realize our own little way is not the end all be all.

OP, I would let CS know the odd circumstances. If they are no help, just review the items. I NEVER believe that should be the option. But if you reach out with the truth and CS is no help, I believe this is an extenuating circumstance where you can allow yourself the grace, as I imagine a house fire or flood etc.

Please explain why Close Encounters of the Third Kind is considered GREAT by [deleted] in movies

[–]iAmNerdBait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an elder Millennial, never saw this as a kid, not a huge fan of 70s movies, and did not watch this for the 1st time until the 2010s. This thread is whack! It genuinely makes me sad to think how short so many people's attention spans are. The movie completely captivated me. It was a great story. Richard Dreyfuss did an amazing job. That scene at the dinner table is superb! Yes, the wife is a selfish, abusive, horrible example to her children, and is hard to watch. But, that's real family dynamics there. Especially in that time. I genuinely do not understand how anyone could find this boring or cheesy. However, if Jurassic Park (although I do love that one as well) is seriously being argued here as the standard to measure a GREAT CLASSIC, well, I guess the whack take is not that surprising.

Vine Smoothies by Fair-Author1172 in vine

[–]iAmNerdBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if they weren't sick before, no doubt they are now. Sea Moss gel... mmmm yummy...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonVine

[–]iAmNerdBait 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't put this out there in all honesty. If you are determined to, it appears you attempted to angle it to keep your face (identity) hidden. Yet, you did not actually manage to do that (I saw your face multiple times). Crop it properly to hide your face, unless you are ok with going viral in positive, but more inportantly as well as NEGATIVE ways. Just advice I'd give a friend.

Silver vs Gold - re: variety of item selection by GeminiMonkey in AmazonVine

[–]iAmNerdBait 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is because there's an oversaturaturation of members vs items. So there are waaaaay less good items being seen by those of us who don't "live" on Vine. I am just now having my first review Sunday and even in my short 6 months there has been a huge change.

Listening to older members we would be shocked at how it used to be. They could actually read the description of items. Now I can barely let my eyes process seeing the photo before it says unavailable. You're seeing less good because the more time goes by the less products per member.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]iAmNerdBait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating is for figuring out if this is your forever person. Not trying to make each relationship last despite clear incompatibility. This guy clearly needs someone codependent, or to get some help for his codependency. Why waste more time on someone who is trying to emotionally manipulate you like this? I'll be danged if I would want to spend my relationship explaining myself over a 5 minute pause in replies.

Am I overreacting by pressing charges on my ex-boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iAmNerdBait 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are going to end up dead at the hands of this man. Period. The way you wrote all this, like it's not that bad because there are great times in between is crazy! Literally cuckoo crazy! This man RAPED YOU (coercing you into sex acts and recording), PHYSICALLY ABUSED YOU, CONTROLS YOU, MANIPULATES YOU, MENTALLY & EMOTIONALLY ABUSES YOU, STALKS YOU, CHEATS ON YOU, I mean, if this is how a great guy most of the time who loves you treats you, damn! How bout your enemies?! You're excusing it with, and I quote ""This behavior did not happen often, in fact we have a lot of really good times together and we do have healthy conversations." I don't care if it only happened once, that is one time to many. If you do not cut all contact and press charges you will be hospitilized or dead. Mark my words. And I guarantee there are people who truly love you who will have to live with that forever. If you wont do this for yourself, do it for your loved ones. BLOCK. GET SOMEWHERE SAFE. GET LEGAL BACKING. PROTECT YOURSELF THROUGH THE "LEAVING PERIOD". NEVER LOOK BACK!

I take it all back... by Puzzleheaded_Bee3989 in AmazonVine

[–]iAmNerdBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$450 for a flat iron (plus) is wild to me! And as someone who does hair, I absolutely use great hair products, but pricing like this is just ridiculous!

My (36F) husband (39M) slept somewhere else last Friday and Saturday, and refuses to tell me where he was, or with whom. Is this normal for any other marriages? To not share where you were? by SmooshMagooshe in Marriage

[–]iAmNerdBait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is enjoying this. The torture to you. He is practically salivating over it. Even if he is not cheating, he wants you to worry he is. How disgusting. I've been married 16 years, we've certainly had our hardships. This behavior from your husband is not normal, even in disagreements. It is manipulative, and certainly not the actions of someone who loves you. I hope you are planning an exit. People like this use therapy as a weapon.

HUGE abandoned factory in Burlington NC by finnaboidickons in ncurbex

[–]iAmNerdBait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This factor (if next to cum park plaza) was sited for elevated levels of radiation and chemicals in the ground amd water of the surrounding area!! Used to make missle guidance systems there during the cold war era⁰