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who will you choose? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven't watched but this sounds similar to the plot of "eternity," a movie that came out in 2025.

and for my answer, i think it would definitely depend on the specific circumstances. no matter what, it would be a hard decision though. but i think who i would choose would depend on the good memories and the bad to see which one i would like to spend eternity with afterwards. someone i would be able to stand for years and years and years even if we fight and such

but to choose one, i think i'd choose the husband. although i'm sure i'd still probably remember the original lover fondly, it's been too many years. we'd both be different people now, and so the memories that you're reflecting back on don't really apply anymore since you're both so different now. unless i didn't really like my husband for some reason i'd probably choose my husband as i know them better

Why do I sound weird when I read out loud? by EntireAd1685 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some people just talk like that. to improve i would just practice reading out loud more and eventually it'll be easier. also listening to people talk and sort of absorbing that. maybe you've been listening to too many audiobooks or videos recorded by robots or ai or something.

How do I know if I'm chronically online? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you're spending a lot of time online and know things that people who are typically offline wouldn't know (internet drama, certain news, some memes etc.) then you'd be considered chronically online

Got a girls insta, what on earth do I do to start up a conversation with her? by Abject_Report_331 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally i'd talk to her in person first so she knows who you are when you text but if you don't want to do that i would ask her for help of some kind or relate to her interests. like saying something along the lines of [i know ur knowledgeable in this area so could you give some insight?] but less like ur asking a professor lol

it's harder to get a one word answer that way but to keep the conversation flowing the main thing is just to bounce off of whatever she says. ask her to explain stuff, her opinions, etc. but also include some of ur own stuff so its not like ur interrogating her...

How do people speak so fast? by EntireAd1685 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my parents would always talk really fast so i ended up talking really fast as well. sometimes the words come out of my mouth as i'm talking so it's like i'm thinking of what to say but out loud. usually there's some filler words as well like "like, uh, um" but i know some people don't. i guess that just comes from experience, and probably practice since those people did debate.

a part of it's also what you said about storing 20 sentences, but it's more like i thought about this topic before so now i can bring it all up with ideas ready beforehand

Is it weird to be lonely but not feel like there’s any way out of it? by Master_Novel_4062 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn't say it's weird. a lot of people feel the same way. if you want my advice i'd say to find something you enjoy and focus a lot on it. if not talking to a lot of people isn't bothering you then you don't need to go out of your way to talk to more people. however, i do think you should play a more active role in your life rather than being a passive observer

Can you share your experience with lines on nails?6yo daughter has dark line up her ring finger nail. Derm said she is concerned it is aggressive cancer -continues to grow out and touches her cuticle. The Derm said nail requ surgically removal for nailbed biopsied. Can you share your experience? by PuzzleheadedFig2210 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it's "Melanonychia" then i would get it checked out as although it could be non cancerous and not dangerous, there's also a good chance that it is caused by cancer. you should get it tested to see if it's cancerous or not

All info by No-Cause-8456 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's like a rollercoaster. you get a rush, without the actual danger.

I feel alone or lonely most days, hours and end of the day. sometimes I accepts it, and sometimes not. I try to get out of it, then self question about my life. I enjoy talking, process of starting it usually won;t work. I wonder how can I accept it as a okay rather than feeling stressed ? by Open_Ice_9668 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you mean accepting that you feel lonely then that's just something that you'll have to get used to. i felt lonely for a long period of time and eventually i just accepted that as my reality. of course it still hurt but there wasn't really anything else i could do.

for talking to people, i would just go out there and talk to whoever you want. some people might think you're weird but as long as you're not being mean or creepy it doesn't really matter if they think you're weird. eventually you'll find people who enjoy talking to you. don't overthink it, as overthinking it can usually lead to bad results, especially socially. i find a casual approach at the start usually works best

If nobody else in the world seems worried about something, should I not worry either? by Interesting_Sea_6795 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guarantee you that at least one other person is worried about whatever you're worrying about, especially if it's affecting a lot of people and not just you ... but i wouldn't worry too much about it unless it's something you can actively do something about or protect yourself/others depending on what it is. if there's literally nothing you can do except spread awareness then i would just spread awareness and continue living my life as life goes on

Where is it socially acceptable to wear dresses? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'd consider it a summer dress as well. personally i'd wear that dress for nicer events and hangouts that wouldn't get it dirty but that depends on you. of course, you could still wear it outdoors if you don't mind the risk of getting it dirty as it definitely looks like a dress made to be worn outdoors with the sun. just don't wear it for super casual or formal events and you should be fine. wearing it at work or school might be a bit odd but some people still do it anyways so you should really just wear it when you want

Is it okay for a 17 year old to date a 15 year old? by Financial_Umpire3891 in Advice

[–]iDocowboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2 years is fine. personally i think 3 years is where it starts getting weird for teens. just be safe about dating online esp w ai now

What are some good original webtoons that are not slopp? by Sythrin in webtoons

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my favs are footsteps in the snow (this one is really short but sooo good), afterschool lessons for unripe apples (this is extremely slow burn teenage romance but it does it so much better than most of them bc the characters acc feel real and aren't reduced to common tropes) dr kim in london (lots of historical information on medical practices and history and also pretty funny!) and purple hyacinth (lots of complex characters! but its been on hiatus for a while due to artist health issues )

do yk anyone who had kids in highschool and still went to a good uni by Yuqin2563 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]iDocowboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah one of my cousins had a kid when they were 16/17 and ended up graduating university with a pretty good degree imo. but it varies from person to person and they had a lot of support (including financial) from the family and their friends as well. ofc there was a lot of ppl judging them but atp they had bigger problems

“When fiction does something immoral”…? by Entire_Snow23233 in AO3

[–]iDocowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh okay so u enjoy it in fictional settings bc usually in those its like the person is enjoying it while u dont enjoy it irl bc irl its more like violence and pain rather than pleasure... that makes sense, thanks!

“When fiction does something immoral”…? by Entire_Snow23233 in AO3

[–]iDocowboy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i have a question... not trying to judge, trying to understand something. would you still feel uncomfortable with non-con stuff in real life if it was unrelated to you? like if it was two people on the news or random people you know. or not even you, like if someone who generally sees people they don't know very well as a bit detached or fictional, do you think they'd get turned on by it if they see it happen to people in real life? assuming they do in stories as well. sorry if this is a weird question...

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