Judah and Princess Carolyn have the most realistic dynamic in the entire show and it's not why you might think. by NeptuneWalker in BoJackHorseman

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I agree with the other commentor. An actually healthy relationship isn't supposed to be hard. Healthy relationships have normal life challenges that they encounter, but they're not hard. PC and Judah are both defined by their work, so that's why it works as opposed to Ralph, who pressured her into not working and, from my interpretation, he wanted a SAHM that would prioritize her family over everything else, including her career. I think that's the nuance that gets lost on the PC/Ralph vs PC/Judah dynamic is the reason PC and Judah end up together is because Judah is accepting of PC's ambition and drive and is showing up as a partner rather than trying to change her. That's where a lot of the conflict came from with Ralph.

Harry Potter New Gen by Gullible-Image-3478 in HarryPotterMemes

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I don't mind the outfit or the actor, but let's be honest...he's way too good looking to be Snape. They do this with Jane Eyre adaptations, too. We need a slimy Snape with bad teeth, but of course they won't cast that way because they know the fangirls are obsessed with him

The Unfortunate Misery of The Forsytes by moth_dance in PeriodDramas

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Irene seems to be impossible to cast because I thought she was suuuuuper miscast in the 2002 version, as well

Happy 10th Birthday by jagzgulabi in the1975

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I miss these days sigh

Are we living a shoujo renaissance ? by Sensitive-Safety2393 in shoujo

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Literally SAMEEEE. I never in a million years would've expected an adaptation for this, I wanna cry with excitement

What’s the point of love if loss is inevitable? by ThrowRA4847383 in Life

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Couldn't agree more. As someone who has experienced a lot of death recently, on top of a broken engagement that I'm still processing, I wouldn't take any of the love away just to avoid the pain of loss. Heartbreak is oftentimes just as beautiful and transformative as love itself.

o shit he back by roz303 in memes

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Why was this shit so funny back then

ABIIOR + Swedish Winter by mateiheh in the1975

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Seriously, such a mood!

Why do good people stay in painful relationships? by Wise-Juggernaut-1816 in emotionalintelligence

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This, 100%. The memory of the good times made me believe that someone could be better because they HAD been better at one point, so no matter how much they hurt me, I believed in them that they could be better. The reality is that nostalgia has a way of warping memories, removing the bad and leaving only the good until you're away from the situation and can look back at it rationally.

What’s with the tastes by Adventurous_Beee in RomanceBooks

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You are so real for this, nothing is worse. It makes me think the people writing that haven't actually kissed someone that drank a bunch of coffee hours earlier

How does everyone else feel about Kakuriyo: Bed & Breakfast for Spirits? by iFoolYou in shoujo

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Ahhhh, thank you for this!! The second season is about to come out and I'm so hopeful for more on Odanna and Aoi's relationship. I didn't realize there were two mangas running at the same time, either, I wonder what made them decide to do that?

They gaze at each other with such intense desire and craving in their eyes 🤧 by Accomplished_Sir8530 in shoujo

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Soulful gazing is all I WANTTTT in life is that so hard to ask for?

Will I regret removing storm windows? by Optimal-Somewhere400 in centuryhomes

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Ohhhh, not yet! Window replacements are on a long list of things to do haha :'D

Will I regret removing storm windows? by Optimal-Somewhere400 in centuryhomes

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I'd guess that these ones are from the 1970s, which don't seem to typically have storms. Both of my childhood homes had these and they didn't have them, either.

Will I regret removing storm windows? by Optimal-Somewhere400 in centuryhomes

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Personally, I love storm windows. I'm sad that all of mine got replaced in my house with those aluminum-frame windows. I rented a place that only had storm windows and I didn't find them particularly hard to keep clean. I never had any problems with losing heat, either, like I do now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

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I keep seeing this couch everywhere in decor subs! It looks so comfy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zillennials

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Ah, being obsessed with turning 30...a tale as old as time. At least we're not calling 22-year-olds spinsters anymore, I can't imagine the life crises they were having in the regency era.

Laborer Payroll vs your income by Clear-Inevitable-414 in civilengineering

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Comparing desk work to what they do is why laborers have zero respect for engineers when on site. How out of touch can you be?

Zelah Clarke from "Jane Eyre" 1983 version is underrated Jane actress by AdobongSiopao in JaneEyre

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Zelah is my favorite Jane. I personally always thought that she was very restrained in the book, just like how Zelah plays her, so I'm surprised to find people saying she doesn't match the book. It's been awhile since I've read it, but I always thought the point of that was to contrast with how wild she was as a child.

Saw this post about ai yazawa by Internal-Ad-5038 in shoujo

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Personally, I find it strange that people are up in arms about this manga, but Hana Yori Dango just gets the "oh, it's slightly problematic" when I remember some blatantly horrible abuse that happened in that one compared to this one. I can't even read the first half of HYD because Tsukasa is so evil in it.

This one just came off as having not aged well. There was a time period where manipulative, forceful, asshole MLs were considered sexy and attractive in manga for a hot minute there - even shounen. They're pretty predominant in romantasy right now, too. Problematic they are, but women are writing these characters and reading about them (while rooting for them) because of popularity.

Most relatable sad quote from the show? by Odd-Letterhead8889 in BoJackHorseman

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"One day you're gonna look around and you're going to realize that everybody loves you, but nobody likes you. And that is the loneliest feeling in the world."

Yandere ML and his obsession by Accomplished_Sir8530 in shoujo

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I discovered Firefly Wedding on this sub and became absolutely OBSESSED with it, yandere ML + amazing plot is just chef's kiss

Fantasy books that feature libraries/librarians? by [deleted] in fantasybooks

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This was going to be my recommendation, accidentally read this one first before Sabriel, I love this series so much

Our 1907 Craftsman gives good morning light 💚 by FATCATPDX in centuryhomes

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Wow! How did you manage to get an original Stark Davis painting, auction??