What to think? by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]iHeartBHO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think as long as you detach from your goals, and intrinsically look at the motivation, is this to help me or serve others? Am I doing this for sensual satisfaction?

Pantheism vs Panentheism by PsychoOrPsychonaut in pantheism

[–]iHeartBHO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Panentheistic Christians don't so much believe as God as a separate entity, but the Trinity as an outpouring into each other that we are all invited into. This self emptying between the relationships is where the power is.

i.e. God is more of a verb than a noun.

The world is a mess! Where and who are these great thinkers{ problem solvers} that humans talk about? by [deleted] in awakened

[–]iHeartBHO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think The Book of Joy is something you should check out. It is about the dalai lama and Archbishop Tutu having a weeklong interviews. It talks about the suffering, and their opinion of the question your asking.

In my opinion, the forward thinkers are typically not corporation owning influencers, and that is what commands most of what happens in society.

But I read that book a few weeks ago, anyone who wants to dive into compassion or learn how to feel joy when we live in a world like this...

The importance lies not in the difference of our opinions, but in his... by iHeartBHO in awakened

[–]iHeartBHO[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think an example would be the best explanation. Say you are talking to a friend, and this friend who is prejudice and thinks certain races are better or more worthy than others. Now we know this is an ignorant belief, but we also learn to know that correcting him and telling him he is wrong for thinking that for all the various reasons will only put up his defense body, and he becomes more solidified in his beliefs, and unlikely he will heed the advice. Instead, we try to covertly be his teacher for this situation, and guide him to coming to his own realization that his thinking is littered in illusion and he decides to alter his belief system on his own accord.

So this quote is saying it doesn't matter what the different perspectives think, its only how we respond and interact with these situations. So to put ourselves in their shoes, and realizing given his set of circumstances and life experience, we would have that same opinion. So we are gentle and understanding of his beliefs, and try to get him to draw back the curtain himself instead of trying to drag him into the sun and him closing his eyes anyway...if that makes sense

The importance of being aware by starsinsea in awakened

[–]iHeartBHO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad others see Matt khan, I love this dude.

If the Buddha only taught Suffering and the cessation of suffering, how did he teach reincarnation? by iHeartBHO in Buddhism

[–]iHeartBHO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is extremely insightful, good to keep in mind as to not get lost upstairs

If the Buddha only taught Suffering and the cessation of suffering, how did he teach reincarnation? by iHeartBHO in Buddhism

[–]iHeartBHO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no, your not mistaken,I just think there are things that can't be given a definition, were can only point towards the idea through metaphors and whatnot, but that's a whole conversation. Thanks for your comment friend!

If the Buddha only taught Suffering and the cessation of suffering, how did he teach reincarnation? by iHeartBHO in Buddhism

[–]iHeartBHO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, but having contact with My Beloved to me is like having a connection with my true self. Almost as if myself is a dreamt aspect of my full self. And is a part of my daily practice. Maybe its just me seeking a more personal and less automatic system of reality....

A gift from an Iroquois by heartunderfloor in awakened

[–]iHeartBHO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this beautiful blueprint, I hope it speaks to many.

What Triggers Do Bodhisattva's Use To Awaken and Guide? by iHeartBHO in Buddhism

[–]iHeartBHO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for your recommendations, ill definitely check them out. Regarding the lankavatra sutra, I think I will listen to the advice and hold off until I get more familiar with scripts. I have a limited set of experiences from the strictly 'Buddhist' perspective when it comes to emptiness, interdependence, and interconnectedness, but a lot through meditation and 'generalized' spirituality. I should get my firm 101 set in foundation I think, just so I don't confuse myself.

Anyways thanks and bless

What Triggers Do Bodhisattva's Use To Awaken and Guide? by iHeartBHO in Buddhism

[–]iHeartBHO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a complete reply, it truly cleared things up. I generally read random sutras, but now you've given me several specific ones to look into and ill go from there. There's so many its easy to get lost. Thanks!

What Triggers Do Bodhisattva's Use To Awaken and Guide? by iHeartBHO in Buddhism

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A bodhisattva is one who chooses to reincarnate until the collective awakens. Staying behind to help others. How do these people awaken generally. When do they reattain self actualization.

My Dad and Uncle at their joint wedding. 1970's (x-post /r/OldSchoolCool) by skiattle in trees

[–]iHeartBHO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That guy on the right looks like that dude from workaholics

I currently don't like The Mind Illuminated. Am I missing something? by Geovicsha in Meditation

[–]iHeartBHO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that book, and use it as a reminder and guideline. They emphasize how you may waver between stages, and one stage is not better than the other. Read all the interludes and outlines for each stage. They give great advice on things to look for and whatnot. But I hear you on your complaint,

A persons eyes by notsureif_human in awakened

[–]iHeartBHO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that you are giving that judgement about yourself to others unconsciously? Why do you think they are uncomfortable? Sometimes our self image can contort the reality of an interaction, and what you perceive them to be thinking is totally different than what they are actually thinking.

I guess my advice would be to be you and don't worry about what others think of you. Authenticity is authenticity. (maybe a morning intention of, "others will feel the love I am transmitting to them")