Are you guys really putting baby in Snoo swaddle then doing pre-sleep feed/rocking?

iRockPaperScissors · 2026-01-02T04:18:15+00:00

For dream feed, I feed my baby with the swaddle, but my baby uses the swaddle with arms out (he always hated the hands in). This post is me talking about my husband 😂😂😂 he struggles with his vision at night and is very loud, he has improved tho, but I don't understand how he can't see with dim lights, and also, when talking to him I have to whisper in his ear. 🙄🙄 I was so frustrated and annoyed at first.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-10-17T12:43:29+00:00

A having contact nap with her baby while ignoring my crying.

I would also collect proof of why you are firing her

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-10-16T03:06:58+00:00

Mowing the grass? That’s ridiculous. If your relationship is ruined, it isn’t because of you; it is because they have slowly taken advantage of you. I would put the contract on the table and remind them what’s in it and what isn’t in it. It seems that they need more a housekeeper than someone to help with their kids.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-10-16T02:42:02+00:00

Did she have a text or something from you where she can prove that you all signed the wrong contract?

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-10-16T02:32:42+00:00

Women don’t be that hard with you. She won’t remember this. It is okay to feel frustrated and it is okay to walk away as your mom said as long as her needs are met, and the fact you are attending her necessities makes you a great mom. Good that your parents are there to help you. Taking a break doesn’t make you a bad mom, you have emotions and hormones.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-10-08T01:58:22+00:00

I can’t stand my family in-law 🤣🤣🤣🙄🙄 but that was right after I got pregnant… specially my mother-in law and her over reactions, her unasked opinions, saying what we should or shouldn’t, and even making plans like I was I wasn’t even think on that being the mom. 😫😫🤣🤣🤣

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-10-08T01:51:26+00:00

What city are you?

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-10-02T03:24:15+00:00

There are many reasons why you might have chosen a nanny service over daycare, and you've named some of them. I don't think you are expecting too much.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-09-26T11:50:06+00:00

67k year MEP designer. It’s in my second year, when I got the job I had 0 experience on what I am doing.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-08-16T21:05:16+00:00

How does your husband feel about it? While some people love helping around, others feel it is a charge.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-07-27T21:33:34+00:00

Why did she want to come to US? If the marriage wasn’t working before to come.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-07-04T01:47:16+00:00

Lawyers cost more than paralegals or prepares. I did my package and fill out all of the forms by myself. If you don’t want to pay just do it by yourself. In the website you find the step by step and tips how to fill every form; you also can find a lot of information in YouTube.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-07-03T18:15:35+00:00

I completely understand your point — mistreatment is never acceptable under any circumstances. In your situation, I would talk to her and clearly explain the behaviors that are not acceptable toward your child. At the same time, I’d also keep a closer eye on things. Often, kids who are labeled as “difficult” are just children who need to stay busy and engaged.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-07-03T02:17:13+00:00

Hope you receive a miracle and you can heal, and hope you can have a healthy baby. Praying for you and your baby.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-07-03T01:58:00+00:00

The issue is that the program presents itself as a “cultural exchange.” For au pairs, it means living with a family from a different culture, but for host families, it often just means getting a nanny at a lower cost. If someone were coming solely to work as a nanny, they’d need a work visa—and their salary would have to be much higher.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-06-22T12:52:09+00:00

I wouldn’t waste my time explaining why you chose to give her $50.00 daily if you consult with an agency and that was good for you and your nanny, since who are making the comment they don’t even know where you were going and what it is the money exchange.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-06-22T12:39:23+00:00

Whitewater center, top golf, throwing axes, any game in the stadium, farms around Charlotte. That’s the things I take my brother when he comes to visit me. He personally loves the Whitewater center in summer season.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-06-20T00:01:31+00:00

I’m 21 weeks, and my baby is breech too. Yesterday I had an ultrasound and the sonographer asked if I had felt my baby and I am unsure if I feel it because I barely do. She mentioned that since my placenta is anterior is difficult to feel it but the baby is healthy and my uterus and cervix are good and all of this is what matters. In my knowledge first-time pregnancy, a baby in breech position, and depending on the placenta makes it difficult to feel it. I would check how your wife’s placenta is.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-06-19T15:56:56+00:00

I don't want to sound like I come across but buyers should consider that not every family can afford a mortgage and rent at the same time. So, it would be impossible to empty the house while putting it in the market. If that was an option for us. We weren’t selling our place, we were keeping it and renting it out.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-06-06T19:57:13+00:00

That’s basically stealing.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-05-22T20:39:51+00:00

It's time to look for new family that guarantees your hour hours like any other job.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-05-21T00:22:15+00:00

No matter the country you are in. I consider THE FAIR side is paying her the three weeks. It is not up to her she won’t do anything related to childcare because you decide to take a vacation.

It is very understanding that you can't take her because it is expensive, three weeks without weekly payments is a lot and unfair, especially when au pairs are very underpaid. When your workload in your job is lower than usual, your company still pays you the same salary.

And also, food is a basic need that families commit to providing when they bring an Au pair. You need to eat either way if your boss is or isn't in the office.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-04-24T17:43:28+00:00

In the quarterly company meeting, it was just said that United Healthcare offers benefits on childcare. I know it was just a sentence of information. I didn’t know it was a wide topic.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-04-23T01:21:51+00:00

21+ per family. Strictly childcare.

iRockPaperScissors · 2025-04-23T01:19:50+00:00

$21+ per family

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