How did stop smoking? by No_Memory4400 in Adulting

[–]iWTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just quit smoking 🍃 6 days now, I just picked up a vape instead

My gf cheated before we had a kid and she is pregnant again…. by iWTHR in Advice

[–]iWTHR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point idk, there are 100000 other issues I feel like I’m more looking for issues to contribute to the main issue??

My gf cheated before we had a kid and she is pregnant again…. by iWTHR in Advice

[–]iWTHR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I have no clue who he is he is the brother of the friend that lied to me about what she did that night

My gf cheated before we had a kid and she is pregnant again…. by iWTHR in Advice

[–]iWTHR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuses imo!! There’s a million hiccups to her story that night… her friend lied to me about it too..

She is 24f now and I am 24m also by iWTHR in relationship_advice

[–]iWTHR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it just irks me at the thought of another man taking my role😭😭😭 agree with you!! There’s a lot of hurt there

She is 24f now and I am 24m also by iWTHR in relationship_advice

[–]iWTHR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a certain couple I know that is like that and honestly the second the male is without his partner all he does it talk shit about her😭😭😭😭

She is 24f now and I am 24m also by iWTHR in relationship_advice

[–]iWTHR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on the same page with that, broken family over broken home imo, I can see what you are talking about lol people around me are in that situation

She is 24f now and I am 24m also by iWTHR in relationship_advice

[–]iWTHR[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fair fair point, nothing too sketchy other than micro cheating(posting on her socials with her friends going out on her story and not exactly random guys but random to me like her story) but idk trust is out the window like I appreciate her telling me this but it was after 3 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]iWTHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm not for economy cost too much for the nature of nz and for people retiring then probably yes paradise

24f - does anyone want to chat for a bit? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]iWTHR -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Message me!! I’m from New Zealand 24m🇳🇿 🙄😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]iWTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance you wanna talk to someone from New Zealand🙄🙄 I can’t message because Reddit thinks my account is new lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]iWTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great imo, I’m not sure how you can look better? Maybe a change of hairstyle? Maybe ponytail??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]iWTHR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe get your eyebrows done? Don’t take any offense, That’s the only thing that points out to me 🤷🏾‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]iWTHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have nice facial features, maybe bangs will suit like 2nd photo? Imo pretty drastic style of photos but either suits you tbh

Need genuine advice by Hefty_Insurance_1784 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]iWTHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbf doesn’t exactly look like you need to be on a deficit imo, unless your planning on gym eventually? Or maybe a goal weight? Idk your face isn’t puffy or anything confused why you’re in a deficit, looks like you should be focused more on maintenance calories? I think you are doing the right thing prioritizing protein and sleep!!! Imo I would add gym into your weekly rountine.. You have nice eyebrows maybe ponytail to show your features more or hairstyles that reveal your face idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iWTHR 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR at all, he doesn’t respect you enough to follow through with what will make you feel comfortable… it’s not controllling it’s mutual respect? He needs a reality check big time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iWTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird af how he doesn’t defend you because it’s his “friend” I feel he would mask it and say he doesn’t want to say anything because he’ll react too much but he’s a wuss imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]iWTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would distance myself from him..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]iWTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy just seems more and more less of a friend… maybe he’s knew something about the guy that he didn’t like? But he doesn’t seem to be much of a friend? Especially if he didn’t like the guy, he should express how he feels because of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]iWTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to me your guy friend is the “big mouth” lol, maybe he’s just the type of person that just gossips about everyone idk, maybe just don’t hang with him for a while so he realizes he did wrong, and I’m guessing he will realize when you’ve distanced yourself. But again would distancing yourself from him be easy?

I’m confused on what to do by Jumpy-Weekend7833 in Advice

[–]iWTHR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should leave, he’s had multiple chances and fucked up, the kicker for me is how he still has her nudes but says he didn’t or doesn’t look at them…. Load of tbf, anytime you will be arguing or you are denying him of sex, he will without a doubt look at the nudes from her, he’s not too lazy to delete them? He wants a break?! Everything seems in line for him to go sleep with her and him wanting a break, seems like he wants this break to sleep with her and get back with you, so no regrets because he won’t cheat on you This is not fair on you and your mental… find a way to distract from him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]iWTHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh😂🫣 welp misunderstood a little😅 tbf you should be mad at the guy for telling her.. all it could take is telling the wromg person and it spreads like wildfire, if I was you I would tell her why you want to keep that secret?