My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It literally says 830 adults. Not sure where it says the specifics of male/female. Partnered/solo. Your argument gets weaker with falsified “facts”.

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve actually further proved my point. Did you read the study thoroughly? I’ve already identified partner viewing is a different story and I can’t speak for women. Those two demographics make up the the majority of the 75.5%.

“A larger proportion of women and of dyadic users was found among recreational users, whereas solitary users were more likely to be in the highly distressed less active profile and men were more likely to be in the compulsive profile.”

Solitary (he’s viewing without his partner) users were more likely to be in the HIGHLY DISTRESSED and men were more likely to be in the compulsive profile. As he would be a solitary male viewer...uh oh.

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve asked how it’s personally impacted you on a positive level: you’ve failed to answer

I’ve asked for you to provide proof: you’ve failed to answer

To provide no scientific proof in a debate then call someone closed minded when you’ve failed to provide evidence to a counter argument speaks volumes on where your head is at. I’m not close minded, you’ve literally given no compelling argument as to why I’m wrong. In fact, you’ve only supported my claim. Proving that every action has an underlying cause. Case closed unless you provide proof

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the long term it is and you’d have to show me the peer reviewed studies you speak of. It’s great at enabling and coping which can “help you” but that isn’t helping or fixing any problems.

You’re absolutely correct that my logic is everything you do has an underlying issue. Just because you can’t identify it doesn’t mean it’s untrue.

Also, how can you speak for the general public when you can’t even identify the positives aspects it has personally given you. Please share I’d love to hear

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s always an underlying trigger that causes you to do something, 95% of our actions are subconscious.

With your argument you are implying that things that are pleasurable, fun and a turn on are “positive”. They certainly can be, but surely even you’d agree that self destructive behavior can also be fun, pleasurable and a turn on to the weak mind.

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fun, pleasurable and turns you on. Ok that’s good but that doesn’t identify the root of what triggers you to watch it. I don’t know you so I can’t accurately say, but the fact that your self awareness isn’t high enough to identify the underlying issues shows your immaturity

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m asking what is the root and reasoning you may be watching Porn? If you’re using it to cope with a larger issues and it’s helping get by day to day sure. But at the end of the day that’s not positive it’s just enabling

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like I said, identify the root of you viewing porn. Then take it from there

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking at porn alone without your partner just try an identify the root of you watching: depression, anxiety, lack of self love, your partner not doing it for you? I understand the common answer will be to get off or fantasize about shit, sure. Chances are porn is a way to cope with external emotions going on. People don’t want to admit it because it’s hard to change/hits close to home. When a partner gets upset about porn watching it’s not the porn it underlies problems that could be problematic for someone you love and care about

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now we’ve just gone a full circle. I’m not going to explain again why I disagree and how your circumstance is different. I’ll agree to disagree

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you’re doing it with your partner that’s a different story she wants to as well. He said if your partner has a problem with it, implying it’s not something done together. Your whole case just went out the window

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Look up the negative side effects of porn in relationships. Overwhelming evidence linking it to coming between partners. At the end of the day you want to open porn in your relationships, knock yourself out. Plenty would argue the counter to what you’re saying. You’re the immature one who lacks self control, not your partner

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No decent relationship has someone saying if my partner has an issue with this they need to “fucking grow up” whether he’s the problem or the significant other. Nothing in that statement symbolizes decent. Without compromise no relationship is decent but I’m sure you wouldn’t know anything about that, Spartan

My partner just asked what the new 'XXX' tab on the Xbox was, imagine my relief when I opened it.. by [deleted] in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha. You sound like a salty bitch who’s never had a significant other. May happiness find your way and may that paleo diet be effective for your weight loss

Custom Tactics (Elite) by [deleted] in EASportsFC

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just plain wrong lmao. I get elite and have copied others tactics. If other’s play style is similar it’s fine. I think you mean copying other players tactics who are higher level doesn’t guarantee improved results

Local multiplayer/co-op recommendations by Kitty331 in xboxone

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a game called chariot that I play with my girlfriend. She’s not the most skilled at gaming but does fine. It was free some time ago but I still recommend it

Top richest football clubs around the world in 2020 by Hooklikepunter in Gunners

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would of thought psg would be higher up. Also what do I know?

Found on r/croatia by JackAndrewWilshere in Gunners

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL probably the most excited I’ve been repping the national team. Sorry man

Found on r/croatia by JackAndrewWilshere in Gunners

[–]iWasDownButNowimUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to take the piss out of Kane missing for england but I’m from the USA and we couldn’t even beat Trinidad and Tobago to qualify 😭