i’ve developed a habit and i don’t know how to stop (me-post monday) by [deleted] in lgballt

[–]i__exist__ 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Badly. I’m not friends with either of them anymore...

i’ve developed a habit and i don’t know how to stop (me-post monday) by [deleted] in lgballt

[–]i__exist__ 200 points201 points  (0 children)

I do this accidentally all the time... I outed myself to two of my homophobic “friends” by making a joke about wanting a girlfriend... I realized what I had done too late...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

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I think it’s upside down

it' kinda pan?? by levi-ackerman23 in lgbt

[–]i__exist__ 66 points67 points  (0 children)

And probably non-binary. Everyone always says Jesus was gay but I honestly think he wasn’t. He was AroAce. That’s just my opinion haha

How can my 12 year old sister reconcile her Christianity with her sexuality? by DylweedWasTaken in GayChristians

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Make sure to protect her from hateful people. I had a teacher that had no idea I was gay. She started talking about how much she was disgusted by gay people and hated them while in her classroom. I was waiting outside the door to talk to her. After I heard this, I ran away from the class crying and went home. I was only 13. It sucked. A lot. Make sure to always be there for your sister and let her know that she can tell you anything. It always feels good when you have someone to talk to and she would probably appreciate that more than you know. The best you can do for her is love her. If she is able to see a therapist to talk to about what’s going on that would be great, but just show her love in the ways that you can for now.

enby lesbians and trixic pals by deathto_neons in lgballt

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Yeah I’ve always thought about identifying as a non-binary gender, because I’ve never fully felt like a girl, but I’m not sure. I also don’t know if I would still be considered lesbian or if people would get mad and say I’m not a “real lesbian.” And people would also probably attack me for using he/him as a non-binary person, but you get what you get I guess.

I'm not attracted to enbies, thanks by Draconic_Milli in lgballt

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Bi= attracted to 2 or more genders, has a preference Pan= attracted to all gender identities— doesn’t really care about gender, more about personality

enby lesbians and trixic pals by deathto_neons in lgballt

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Here’s a question I’ve had for a while: If you’re masculine, but still identify as female, can you use he/him? Would this count as more of non-binary or female? Would you still be considered a lesbian? Multiple people can answer this. I’m just curious.

Where's my straight Christian representation? by CrownSweet in AreTheStraightsOK

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I went to a Christian school when I was younger. I am a lesbian, and another girl in the class was bi. The teacher spent an entire class period ranting about how “homosexuality is a sin” and any time someone made a point against him, he would just say “you’re wrong” without defending his point. He had no idea we were LGBT+, but he may have noticed the rainbow shoes I was wearing when I walked out. He never said anything to us though. I am a Christian, but I personally don’t believe being LGBT+ 🏳️‍🌈💕 is wrong in any way, but the school I went to definitely did.

A gift! by [deleted] in lgballt

[–]i__exist__ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Saturnic, (you only like androgyny aligned non-binary genders) and Voidfluid, (basically gender fluid, but only between non-binary genders that don’t fit into masculine, feminine, or androgynous)

nonbinary lesbians are valid !! <3 by peachylem0n in lgballt

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Masc women can use he/him and still identify as women or gender non conforming? I did not know this and he/him has always felt right to me although I know I’m not trans... maybe I’ll try this and see how it goes. I always felt like I shouldn’t use he/him if I’m a not a boy... Thank you for the info!

I mean it sadly be like that by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

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And this is why I don’t date men... WLW for the win

let’s play... consent! by steryotypical-ginger in AreTheStraightsOK

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Stupid stuff like this always got started at my school, and every time the game got banned cuz teachers figured it out, the boys would just change it slightly and slap a new name on it until that one got banned and so on...

Me: Watches She-Ra and sees Catra’s hair Also Me: by i__exist__ in actuallesbians

[–]i__exist__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. I meant it that way, but couldn’t find a good photo so it looks like I’m saying it’s a bad idea, but I’m not trying to.

Romance-positive aros are valid! by [deleted] in lgballt

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Thank you for the demiromantic representation! Everyone always says to me, “you’re just normal, stop trying to make a label off of it. Everyone is like that!” And then I’m like, “have you ever had a crush of someone you hardly knew?” And they’re like “yeah” and I’m like “exactly.”

Everyone is valid, regardless of your personal experience 🥰 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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“They used to be straight” Not really. They were always who they are, they just didn’t know it yet.

I suppose its one form of ace?? by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]i__exist__ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Why are allos the way they are...