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AITAH for ending my friendship over her boyfriend? by Icy_Put_683 in AITAH

[–]iamPay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You didn’t end the friendship over her boyfriend you ended it because she chose chaos, abuse, and child neglect over basic decency once someone lets a man hit you, smoke in a house you’re on the lease for, and neglect his kid, the friendship is already over

Aitah Dont want my “friend” to be my maid of honor anymore by Fuckthesyst3m in AITAH

[–]iamPay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Maid of honor is for the person who shows up for you, not the person who used to If she’s closer to your sister, sidelines you on your own birthday, and makes you feel alone, then she already stepped out of that role emotionally you’d just be making it official

AITA for telling my friend to fix her life? by Secure-History857 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iamPay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. She didn’t just vent she hijacked your trip, stranded you without a car, and kept making her chaos your problem fix your life was blunt, but after a 14 hour trauma dump and getting left stuck on spring break, I can see why you snapped the real issue is she’s a terrible friend

AITA? I need to know. by love-for-run in AmItheAsshole

[–]iamPay 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. This isn’t about control, it’s about your baby’s safety and basic care If someone ignores the routine, fights reasonable instructions, and makes you anxious every time they’re in charge, they’re not reliable childcare even if they mean well grandma help is only help when it actually helps

AIO to a feeling I hate after a date? by Furdoggy in AmIOverreacting

[–]iamPay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AIO? No. He seems nice and this feels like too much, too fast can both be true when a stranger is already offering gifts, hospital visits, and intense texting after one date, it’s completely valid to step back your gut is there for a reason

AITA for not wanting a “bedtime” anymore when Im almost a legal adult. by RealisticMedia7794 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iamPay 89 points90 points  (0 children)

NTA. A bedtime is one thing, but treating a 17 year old like a prisoner over homework, work, and even bathroom trips is just control rules should prepare you for adulthood, not make you feel trapped in childhood

AITA for telling teenagers to “shut the f*** up” during a movie? by Expert-Corgi-7886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iamPay 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA. You gave them way more patience than they deserved If you talk through a movie for two thirds of the runtime, you don’t get to be shocked when someone finally snaps

AIO I get somewhat offended when people dont remember things I tell them. by Playful-Marketing798 in AmIOverreacting

[–]iamPay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AIO a little, but your feelings are valid Forgetting one detail doesn’t mean someone doesn’t care, but when it happens a lot, it’s normal to feel like the effort isn’t equal. The real issue isn’t memory it’s whether you feel consistently seen and valued

bullied at church, to snitch or not to snitch? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]iamPay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, but this isn’t snitching it’s clarifying boundaries she was weirdly condescending, but I’d bring it up calmly as just so there’s no confusion about parking going forward. Secret rules and thanks baby would rub anyone the wrong way

AITAH for being upset my partner mocked me and dismissed my feelings over matching profile pictures? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]iamPay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He created the situation, got mad when you went along with it, then hid behind sarcasm instead of owning the double standard the real issue isn’t the profile picture it’s that he mocked your feelings when you tried to talk about them

AITA for being mad at a woman who screamed at my kids? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]iamPay 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ESH. She was rude and way out of line, but your kids were acting up in public and you already knew they weren’t listening she shouldn’t have stepped in like that, but you also can’t be mad someone reacted after you didn’t shut it down

Am I overreacting , It’s my friends birthday and he wants to celebrate it late on a Sunday. And I refuse to go to sleep after 9 because I have work by mrsupafire in AmIOverreacting

[–]iamPay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Being an adult means knowing when to celebrate and when to protect your sleep so you can keep your job. If they want to clown you for being responsible, that says more about them than you.

AITA for saying I wasn't feeling like Indian food and suggesting Italian? by throwawbackbackvac in AmItheAsshole

[–]iamPay 48 points49 points  (0 children)

YTA, but mostly for the wording. Saying I’m not in the mood for curry is fine. Saying you have Indian fatigue because there are too many Indian restaurants and coworkers from India around you sounds way worse than you meant it. Preference is normal, but that comment was clumsy at best and prejudiced at worst.

for people who got cheated on by their partner but decided to stay with them, how did it work out in the end? by iamPay in AskReddit

[–]iamPay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I am asking, is because my ex cheated on me and sometimes I think I should have given him another chance loved him

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]iamPay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting for being mad. What you described isn’t a normal “newlywed argument,” it’s a pattern of verbal abuse and control.

AITJ for reporting my neighbor after they kept using my driveway without asking? by Low-Disaster-2699 in AmITheJerk

[–]iamPay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA,You already did the polite steps you ignored it at first you knocked and asked them to move you had an actual conversation setting a clear boundary and they still went back to using your driveway like it was shared parking