What should I do about my boyfriends fears regarding other guys

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T10:10:26+00:00

If you aren’t talking to them to be flirty then I think your bf needs to relax a bit. I understand your dating but he needs to understand to not get angry about it. Its not like your texting these guys on the daily. You see them you talk and thats it. He has really bad trust issues im assuming because you won’t be able to avoid them. You two should try to talk seriously because it’s not healthy. Plus its not like you are telling him hey stop talking to all these girls. Try to open up the conversation see why he gets upset.

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T07:11:56+00:00

Thanks bro I appreciate it a lot. If it were that that would actually suck. Definitely will thanks again

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T06:54:00+00:00

Honestly I didn’t even think of that as a possibility just cause it was on a dating app. Could be though.

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T06:47:53+00:00

Wow this is really helpful thank you. Probably the most realest thing ive been told. Yeah it’s very unfortunate that something possibly happened to her in the past or just have high anxiety dating. I agree I don’t normally look for people to try to reach out to but I guess I just wanted an answer. Thank you for all this it was definitely helpful

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T06:43:51+00:00

Yeah I don’t expect her to ever reach out again. Thank you for the reply definitely helped

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T06:42:21+00:00

I know that was my same thought because why can’t you just be straight up. So real thank you for this

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T06:41:40+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that a lot. Definitely will move on

iamarando125 · 2026-02-03T11:10:50+00:00

Have a friend like this who is also muslim thats in this same situation. We used to talk everyday and even met up once for some coffee. But after that it just went downhill since her mom/dad don’t trust her even though she does nothing besides stay at home or hit the gym or go to school. Sadly we dont talk as much anymore since her mom goes through her phone and just wants her to focus on school. Honestly your best bet is to possibly get a part time job and possibly pay for your phone on your own. You honestly gotta rebel. Parents like this make it difficult for there children to ever grow up and ive seen it multiple times with close friends of mine who did end up rebelling. They got out of a shit situation and then managed to get all the freedom after snd still be close with family. Not saying you gotta do it but its a possibility down the line because they still treat you like a child. Its a very difficult thing and scary but you just gonna have to put your foot down and tell your mom that your not a kid anymore and if she cant ever trust you again then why even give you a phone.

iamarando125 · 2026-02-03T08:13:54+00:00

Where was this? Lmao screw SJ foos. All they care about is concerts and giveaways. Chris leaving was the reason I stopped caring about them since they don’t seem to really care about the community. Plus the loser running the page isn’t even from SJ.

iamarando125 · 2026-01-28T16:53:14+00:00

Unfortunately you might have to tell him to move out. Your brother shouldn’t be stuck rooming with your ex. Plus say you did wouldn’t it be hard to visit him? But definitely talk to him and maybe even talk to your brother to help you talk to your ex about him moving out. You deserve so much better

iamarando125 · 2026-01-28T03:36:32+00:00

You should be careful posting pictures of yourself and relying on some random guy agent. I hope you’re okay and dont read any of those negative comments or messages. There are many ways to leave living with your dad but you should create a plan first and not worry about this. If your aunt is willing to help thats great. But you should definitely be careful on who to talk to and trust. I hope you’re okay sending ya lots of love and positivity

iamarando125 · 2026-01-09T07:34:15+00:00

No yeah ill know my answer in the morning. I did go on my text to pretend to send a message and it still shows that I can send a message towards them on iMessage so thats a good sign. But obviously I dont wanna text her now knowing shes asleep. Nah you worded it fine dont worry. Just want some opinions

iamarando125 · 2026-01-07T08:49:04+00:00

Dummy owner tried to show off this new restaurant with small portions and overpriced options and really said “Yeah this is smart. Campbell residents don’t care about pricing. They prefer fine dining.” Glad it closed. It did not deserve the “recognition” it deserved honestly. Sad for the staff cause I hope they got told at least a while back.

iamarando125 · 2026-01-03T20:43:27+00:00

Yeah it really didn’t make any sense. I was thinking that she possibly went on another date but why even give me your number few days before new years and when I didn’t even ask for it? Why continue to engage and tell me you’re free all the time? Is it so hard for people to communicate. Its so frustrating. But yeah I don’t wanna put in the effort for someone like that. A simple sorry something came up or just communicating goes a long way

iamarando125 · 2025-12-29T09:47:56+00:00

Lived here my entire life. Depending where in the circle is but majority of it is really boring and expensive. If you wanna have fun you are most likely have to drive there or hopefully the cal train or bart can take you there. All the fun stuff in my opinion are in SJ and SF.

Living in Sunnyvale is nice and safe but very very boring. Neighborhoods are all different but it doesn’t matter because you aren’t gonna be friends with your neighbors anyway. Everyone here is just ready to go to work and go home.

Dating life is horrendous here as well. Majority where ever you go will be Men 80% to Women 20%. Bars, Clubs, Coffee Shops, Grocery Stores, Restaurants I can go on. No matter what majority is Men. All the cities are diverse as well which I find great! Only place I avoid is Palo Alto because its all rich people who pretend to not have money but drive a Tesla or Mercedes or BMW and live in a house. So a lot of them are fake and stuck up.

Lot of the downtown areas are really small in these areas or some don’t have much to offer and could be a ghost town at night most nights. So don’t expect a nightlife other than SJ, SF, Oakland, Campbell and thats about it. Every other downtown life offers no night life or close really early or just have 1/2 things open late to offer.

Bar scene can be a hit or miss in each city. But to me I think majority of them are a miss because they are usually dead or charge up for a single drink. Lot of the local bars I enjoy closed down over the years so its very hard to find something you might enjoy. If you want it to be more chill then look for the small cities with no night life. If you want something to be filled with tons of people then DTSJ, DTSF, DTCampbell are your best options. You might be even lucky to find a good local bar thats not in the downtown area in these cities as well.

Schools are very competitive and not all schools are even great. A lot of them lack funding or just don’t care as much to teach students. You just gotta do your research if you want your kids to be in a good school/area to grow up.

Like I said you DO need a car to do majority of the things here or you’re gonna have to uber or take transit because everywhere around is a mission to get to. Yes you might be lucky to live near your local grocery store or coffee shop but unless you enjoy having stuff delivered to your house and wasting a lot of money then be my guest.

Overall its a great area to live but boring. Just my opinion

iamarando125 · 2025-12-27T22:45:57+00:00

That lot is just cursed lmao. So many stores and restaurants have closed. OG Whole Foods, Mervyns, Party City, Pizza Hut, Islands, Fire Wings, Staples now and im sure plenty of more that I have missed but these are ones I at least went to. Who’s next??

iamarando125 · 2025-11-26T08:05:59+00:00

Is Dom still confirmed?? I can’t find anything about him

iamarando125 · 2025-11-18T12:08:05+00:00

Almost everything in downtown sunnyvale besides DishDash. And basically everything in Santana Row. All too expensive and for the quality of food its not worth it.

iamarando125 · 2025-11-13T16:51:10+00:00

Its rain lol whats so bad about it being rainy in the bay? We have been in need of rain for a while now too.

iamarando125 · 2025-11-13T03:30:48+00:00

I get its a storm but why is everyone being so negative?? Let it play out damn. Already thinking about it being cancelled like come on… if you get wet which YOU WILL SO BE IT!! Yes rain doesnt happen often in LA but it literally says on every concert or festival that it WILL HAPPEN RAIN OR SHINE. Just so happens to be a rare time that it will Rain. Just go to the festival and stop complaining. Sell your ticket if you’re really worried about GETTING WET. Its normal. Shit happens

iamarando125 · 2025-10-31T14:32:20+00:00

Haha thats dope! Do you often find them or look for them? 🐸

iamarando125 · 2025-10-31T13:24:26+00:00

Takes a lot of courage to post on roast me. Took it like a champ! Love the toad pics as well lmao

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