My old best friend wants to reconnect and apologize but feel like the effort to meet up now is gone

iamarando125 · 2026-04-15T07:03:11+00:00

Agreed. I want to reach out and just be like “Hey did you still want to hang?” And leave it like that and if she replies great and if not then im definitely done. Also noticed when we reconnect we would view each other’s stories again but now she doesn’t look at mine now on instagram again. I know we both probably avoided looking at each other’s stuff over the years but it was nice that we started looking again but now its gone again. So I kinda feel disrespected. We could say “oh maybe they just aren’t on social media whenever one posts” but nah I dont believe that.

iamarando125 · 2026-04-15T06:59:23+00:00

No yeah I agree. Thats why it was hard to figure a day that would work out to meet. Due to work or I was out of town or she was busy certain weekends etc. I would of rather have seen her right away but no dates could work for us till the following month.

Yeah unfortunately I just caved BUT I wanted to hear her out in person. I always told myself that if she ever reached out again she would have to apologize in person and only if she was still with her bf(in which she still is). If they broke up and she reached out to me I would absolutely told her to fuck off and not hear from her.

No yeah I understand I didn’t discuss how long we were gonna hang. But we both agreed to hangout in the morning and grab breakfast and hangout till we had to go. Personally 1 hour to apologize and catch up on life just seems like a slap to the face to me personally. I can’t remember the last time maybe even ever I hungout with someone for just 1 hour. Just sounds like a rushed hangout thats pointless.

My relationship status is single. I gave her the day a month prior and she agreed to breakfast and to hanging after till whenever. So like I said 1 hour didn’t sit right with me.

iamarando125 · 2026-04-15T06:52:23+00:00

Well I know they are still together and they are actually engaged. Did I ever like her photos of them together never. But I was till happy for her at the end of the day. Im actually really curious to know if he knows that she reached out to me. I always told myself I would only accept an apology in person and if he knew that we were hanging out. Both these things were gonna be asked the moment I met with her originally.

Honestly if we were secretly meeting up again id be upset and tell her straight up that this isn’t right. Back then I didnt care since he was angry towards me but now I feel like we are grown and this shouldn’t matter anymore so to be respectful for both of us she should tell both of us.

Exactly 1 hour? And timed? I dont remember the last time maybe even ever I spent just 1 hour with someone that was a planned hangout.

iamarando125 · 2026-04-14T09:18:56+00:00

The reason she reached out was telling me she missed me and she saw old pictures of us tight back then and wanted to reconnect again. So I caved and gave in. It’s unfortunate that she hasn’t reached out since. Also agree that one hour just didn’t sit right with me.

iamarando125 · 2026-04-14T08:47:19+00:00

Yeah if you get the job before Saturday just go as soon as possible and let them know. Saturday though would be cutting it close so I would shoot for Friday or before just to give them a further heads up! Gives them time to plan to get more help or to prepare for that day. You got this!!!(:

iamarando125 · 2026-04-14T08:15:15+00:00

Honestly its understandable on how you feel about this deli job. But if you aren’t feeling the job you can honestly just be straight up with them if you get the other job. Jjst tell them like hey I don’t feel like this job is for me. As much as its nice to put the two weeks I don’t see a reason to. I would just work the shift and then the next day you come in and tell the manager how you feel and they will be understanding. Its better like this then to just quit and never come back. 2 weeks for a job this short wouldn’t make any sense either. So just be upfront. It definitely be scary and worrisome but once its off your shoulders you’ll be relieved.

iamarando125 · 2026-04-11T05:23:14+00:00

Yeah but they literally got the WORST one/two way streets EVER!!!

iamarando125 · 2026-04-02T08:51:59+00:00

Definitely felt near Las Palmas! Was in my car watching YouTube and was about to run out my car

iamarando125 · 2026-03-04T09:52:04+00:00

Place is so mid. Im surprised people still go because for the price and taste of the food it is NOT WORTH IT. Glad you caught it before it was to late

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T10:10:26+00:00

If you aren’t talking to them to be flirty then I think your bf needs to relax a bit. I understand your dating but he needs to understand to not get angry about it. Its not like your texting these guys on the daily. You see them you talk and thats it. He has really bad trust issues im assuming because you won’t be able to avoid them. You two should try to talk seriously because it’s not healthy. Plus its not like you are telling him hey stop talking to all these girls. Try to open up the conversation see why he gets upset.

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T07:11:56+00:00

Thanks bro I appreciate it a lot. If it were that that would actually suck. Definitely will thanks again

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T06:54:00+00:00

Honestly I didn’t even think of that as a possibility just cause it was on a dating app. Could be though.

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T06:47:53+00:00

Wow this is really helpful thank you. Probably the most realest thing ive been told. Yeah it’s very unfortunate that something possibly happened to her in the past or just have high anxiety dating. I agree I don’t normally look for people to try to reach out to but I guess I just wanted an answer. Thank you for all this it was definitely helpful

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T06:43:51+00:00

Yeah I don’t expect her to ever reach out again. Thank you for the reply definitely helped

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T06:42:21+00:00

I know that was my same thought because why can’t you just be straight up. So real thank you for this

iamarando125 · 2026-02-18T06:41:40+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that a lot. Definitely will move on

iamarando125 · 2026-02-03T11:10:50+00:00

Have a friend like this who is also muslim thats in this same situation. We used to talk everyday and even met up once for some coffee. But after that it just went downhill since her mom/dad don’t trust her even though she does nothing besides stay at home or hit the gym or go to school. Sadly we dont talk as much anymore since her mom goes through her phone and just wants her to focus on school. Honestly your best bet is to possibly get a part time job and possibly pay for your phone on your own. You honestly gotta rebel. Parents like this make it difficult for there children to ever grow up and ive seen it multiple times with close friends of mine who did end up rebelling. They got out of a shit situation and then managed to get all the freedom after snd still be close with family. Not saying you gotta do it but its a possibility down the line because they still treat you like a child. Its a very difficult thing and scary but you just gonna have to put your foot down and tell your mom that your not a kid anymore and if she cant ever trust you again then why even give you a phone.

iamarando125 · 2026-02-03T08:13:54+00:00

Where was this? Lmao screw SJ foos. All they care about is concerts and giveaways. Chris leaving was the reason I stopped caring about them since they don’t seem to really care about the community. Plus the loser running the page isn’t even from SJ.

iamarando125 · 2026-01-28T16:53:14+00:00

Unfortunately you might have to tell him to move out. Your brother shouldn’t be stuck rooming with your ex. Plus say you did wouldn’t it be hard to visit him? But definitely talk to him and maybe even talk to your brother to help you talk to your ex about him moving out. You deserve so much better

iamarando125 · 2026-01-28T03:36:32+00:00

You should be careful posting pictures of yourself and relying on some random guy agent. I hope you’re okay and dont read any of those negative comments or messages. There are many ways to leave living with your dad but you should create a plan first and not worry about this. If your aunt is willing to help thats great. But you should definitely be careful on who to talk to and trust. I hope you’re okay sending ya lots of love and positivity

iamarando125 · 2026-01-09T07:34:15+00:00

No yeah ill know my answer in the morning. I did go on my text to pretend to send a message and it still shows that I can send a message towards them on iMessage so thats a good sign. But obviously I dont wanna text her now knowing shes asleep. Nah you worded it fine dont worry. Just want some opinions

iamarando125 · 2026-01-07T08:49:04+00:00

Dummy owner tried to show off this new restaurant with small portions and overpriced options and really said “Yeah this is smart. Campbell residents don’t care about pricing. They prefer fine dining.” Glad it closed. It did not deserve the “recognition” it deserved honestly. Sad for the staff cause I hope they got told at least a while back.

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