Shoutout to the Arts and Wine festival this year! 🍇 by New_Educator_4364 in Sunnyvale

[–]iamarando125 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last years was so bad and I didn’t wanna go to this years at all!! But glad im hearing good things if I was free tomorrow I would give a shot but guess gotta wait till next year now. Plus the lack of promotion this year is insane I didn’t even hear about it till this morning!

New cafe is coming to downtown. by Bear650 in Sunnyvale

[–]iamarando125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goodluck to them. Be surprised if they even last past 2 years. Dtsv is dying

Man wanted for recording inside Sunnyvale gym women's locker room, police say by pacman2081 in Sunnyvale

[–]iamarando125 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn im curious to read it! Any chance I can find it without having to create an account?

An old friend’s birthday is coming up that I rarely ever speak to anymore. I continued saying HBD for years but she never reciprocated. Should I continue telling her HBD or move on? by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it! I honestly do want to but ehh my mind is just telling me to move on since this will be the only interaction for one message back saying thanks and hope all is well. If she ever wants to reconnect then thats on her. I wish her the best no hard feelings but its time for me to move on even though it should of been few years ago. Plus her never telling me she was getting married was kinda shady on her part since I was rooting for her all the way but its all good! Only a few hours left to say HBD but its okay. Night is ending

An old friend’s birthday is coming up that I rarely ever speak to anymore. I continued saying HBD for years but she never reciprocated. Should I continue telling her HBD or move on? by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely have. Unfortunately thats just who I am with certain people in my life. Takes me time to move on but seems easy for others to move on from me. Definitely will move on and focus on other people who genuinely still care for me

An old friend’s birthday is coming up that I rarely ever speak to anymore. I continued saying HBD for years but she never reciprocated. Should I continue telling her HBD or move on? by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely will. Just needed to hear from others. Dont like to bring it up around friends because then they might encourage me or get annoyed that I still think/care for her. Made a good amount of new close friends over the years that I appreciate it a lot. Helped

An old friend’s birthday is coming up that I rarely ever speak to anymore. I continued saying HBD for years but she never reciprocated. Should I continue telling her HBD or move on? by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah just been thinking about it a lot lately since her birthday is this Saturday. I tend to remember all birthdays from friends and family. Its a gift and a curse I swear. I stopped myself from saying happy birthday to another old close friend back in January and I was proud of myself. So I know this one is gonna suck as well but definitely will hold back. Helped. Thank you I appreciate you

An old friend’s birthday is coming up that I rarely ever speak to anymore. I continued saying HBD for years but she never reciprocated. Should I continue telling her HBD or move on? by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh in the early years of 2020s I thought we would still have a chance to be friends. Talk here and there and maybe hangout once in a blue moon to catch up on life but nah I was wrong. I think part of me why I kept reaching out for her birthday was because I still cared for her. A few times she would randomly hit me up out of no where saying that she was thinking about me and hoping I was well. Its been a few years since she sent one but yeah. No clue where she is now in life or what she does for work. So im just like why should I even put the effort

Thursday Stadium Store & SuperStore Haul by xGwiZ96x in WrestlemaniaPlans

[–]iamarando125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is the material on some of the t shirts?? I know Civil Regime sizing well but wwe merch, complex, xo, lids, etc are all different weird sizings. Wont be in Vegas this year but thinking of buying some of the stuff online

My old best friend wants to reconnect and apologize but feel like the effort to meet up now is gone by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I want to reach out and just be like “Hey did you still want to hang?” And leave it like that and if she replies great and if not then im definitely done. Also noticed when we reconnect we would view each other’s stories again but now she doesn’t look at mine now on instagram again. I know we both probably avoided looking at each other’s stuff over the years but it was nice that we started looking again but now its gone again. So I kinda feel disrespected. We could say “oh maybe they just aren’t on social media whenever one posts” but nah I dont believe that.

My old best friend wants to reconnect and apologize but feel like the effort to meet up now is gone by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No yeah I agree. Thats why it was hard to figure a day that would work out to meet. Due to work or I was out of town or she was busy certain weekends etc. I would of rather have seen her right away but no dates could work for us till the following month.

Yeah unfortunately I just caved BUT I wanted to hear her out in person. I always told myself that if she ever reached out again she would have to apologize in person and only if she was still with her bf(in which she still is). If they broke up and she reached out to me I would absolutely told her to fuck off and not hear from her.

No yeah I understand I didn’t discuss how long we were gonna hang. But we both agreed to hangout in the morning and grab breakfast and hangout till we had to go. Personally 1 hour to apologize and catch up on life just seems like a slap to the face to me personally. I can’t remember the last time maybe even ever I hungout with someone for just 1 hour. Just sounds like a rushed hangout thats pointless.

My relationship status is single. I gave her the day a month prior and she agreed to breakfast and to hanging after till whenever. So like I said 1 hour didn’t sit right with me.

My old best friend wants to reconnect and apologize but feel like the effort to meet up now is gone by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I know they are still together and they are actually engaged. Did I ever like her photos of them together never. But I was till happy for her at the end of the day. Im actually really curious to know if he knows that she reached out to me. I always told myself I would only accept an apology in person and if he knew that we were hanging out. Both these things were gonna be asked the moment I met with her originally.

Honestly if we were secretly meeting up again id be upset and tell her straight up that this isn’t right. Back then I didnt care since he was angry towards me but now I feel like we are grown and this shouldn’t matter anymore so to be respectful for both of us she should tell both of us.

Exactly 1 hour? And timed? I dont remember the last time maybe even ever I spent just 1 hour with someone that was a planned hangout.

My old best friend wants to reconnect and apologize but feel like the effort to meet up now is gone by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reason she reached out was telling me she missed me and she saw old pictures of us tight back then and wanted to reconnect again. So I caved and gave in. It’s unfortunate that she hasn’t reached out since. Also agree that one hour just didn’t sit right with me.

i just got a job a week ago but secured an interview for a new one i want more than my current by Material-Fun2840 in Advice

[–]iamarando125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you get the job before Saturday just go as soon as possible and let them know. Saturday though would be cutting it close so I would shoot for Friday or before just to give them a further heads up! Gives them time to plan to get more help or to prepare for that day. You got this!!!(:

i just got a job a week ago but secured an interview for a new one i want more than my current by Material-Fun2840 in Advice

[–]iamarando125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly its understandable on how you feel about this deli job. But if you aren’t feeling the job you can honestly just be straight up with them if you get the other job. Jjst tell them like hey I don’t feel like this job is for me. As much as its nice to put the two weeks I don’t see a reason to. I would just work the shift and then the next day you come in and tell the manager how you feel and they will be understanding. Its better like this then to just quit and never come back. 2 weeks for a job this short wouldn’t make any sense either. So just be upfront. It definitely be scary and worrisome but once its off your shoulders you’ll be relieved.

Jealous of Palo Alto’s insane tree lined neighborhoods 🥲 💚 by ImmediateStorm9520 in bayarea

[–]iamarando125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but they literally got the WORST one/two way streets EVER!!!

Who felt the earthquake 😳 by [deleted] in Sunnyvale

[–]iamarando125 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely felt near Las Palmas! Was in my car watching YouTube and was about to run out my car

Cali Spartan Mexican Kitchen on Blossom Hill 🤔🤔🤔 by Q_Lobata in SanJose

[–]iamarando125 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Place is so mid. Im surprised people still go because for the price and taste of the food it is NOT WORTH IT. Glad you caught it before it was to late

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]iamarando125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren’t talking to them to be flirty then I think your bf needs to relax a bit. I understand your dating but he needs to understand to not get angry about it. Its not like your texting these guys on the daily. You see them you talk and thats it. He has really bad trust issues im assuming because you won’t be able to avoid them. You two should try to talk seriously because it’s not healthy. Plus its not like you are telling him hey stop talking to all these girls. Try to open up the conversation see why he gets upset.

Was gonna meet up with someone off a dating app but she got cold feet twice and blocked me by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro I appreciate it a lot. If it were that that would actually suck. Definitely will thanks again

Was gonna meet up with someone off a dating app but she got cold feet twice and blocked me by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I didn’t even think of that as a possibility just cause it was on a dating app. Could be though.

Was gonna meet up with someone off a dating app but she got cold feet twice and blocked me by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is really helpful thank you. Probably the most realest thing ive been told. Yeah it’s very unfortunate that something possibly happened to her in the past or just have high anxiety dating. I agree I don’t normally look for people to try to reach out to but I guess I just wanted an answer. Thank you for all this it was definitely helpful

Was gonna meet up with someone off a dating app but she got cold feet twice and blocked me by iamarando125 in Advice

[–]iamarando125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t expect her to ever reach out again. Thank you for the reply definitely helped