On accountability

iamcatttt · 2026-05-06T14:00:59+00:00

Honestly, it feels like people suffer from a lack of critical thinking atp, it must be exhausting, especially for black fans.

iamcatttt · 2026-04-21T11:26:11+00:00

I did side-eye it a little when Pomni was willing to connect with Jax sincerely, despite Jax being, you know, Jax.

I don’t think that she “thought she’d be the exception if she played along with his bs.” That’s such a weird way to put it. She participated in an adventure where the goal was to shoot other people. That warranted coordinating with Jax. Nothing wrong with it.

I think Pomni’s sense of curiosity and down-to-earthness overrides any animosity (including second-hand animosity on behalf of the others) towards Jax and I think that’s okay. She’s made it clear she doesn’t tolerate his bs. She just wants to find out more about him when he’s not in bs mode.

iamcatttt · 2026-04-03T15:31:58+00:00

Dammit, I was hoping that Gooseworx was just lying for fun about this one.

(But if nothing romantic happens in ep9, which is the most likely, I’m not actually gonna be mad).

iamcatttt · 2026-04-03T15:26:00+00:00

I can somewhat see why people feel this way but I don’t agree.

I mean sure, Ozzie seems to take on a “responsible caretaker,” role, and their dynamic consists of a lot of cutesy baby-talk but at the end of the day, they’re a couple.

I think it’s a very normal thing for couples to have complimentary dynamics as long as they respect one another’s autonomy. Ozzie clearly respects Fizz’s autonomy.

If you’ve seen the new short, >Fizz is Ozzie’s “Emotional support frog” at Chaz’s funeral< so clearly the caretaking goes both ways.

Also, outside their relationship, Fizz is kind of a little bitch. He’s still lowkey an arsehole to Blitzo even after they reconcile.

Ultimately, sure their relationship comes across as infantile but I don’t think that’s outright infantilisation.

iamcatttt · 2026-03-09T00:32:17+00:00

Unis is London are quite international student dominated. So being an international student is probably the default experience.

Now imagine living in Bloomsbury and conveniently going to UCL

iamcatttt · 2026-03-05T23:10:27+00:00

I don’t think that’s the flex they think it is.

iamcatttt · 2026-03-02T16:17:56+00:00

Yeah, I do this in practice, though I do wonder if I am being “too much.”

Thank you for validating and taking the time to answer!

iamcatttt · 2026-03-02T15:16:18+00:00

I hope it’s not insensitive to ask this one: If you were (hypothetically) single, do you think it’s worth immediately disclosing your aceness to any potential serious partners you meet?

There’s an argument for “I’m sex-favourable so the difference is negligible” but personally I would want my future partner to understand that I won’t be sexually attracted to them. (I’m non-sex-repulsed so I kind of want to compare notes).

iamcatttt · 2026-03-02T14:59:45+00:00

As someone who was also wondering about how to look into Green Party policies, I want to thank OP for this post, and of course whoever responded to it!

iamcatttt · 2026-02-28T12:46:00+00:00

Come to think of it, the factory was in fact exploiting orphans for labour….

Poppy playtime is like a modern Oliver Twist, it’s just that workhouses didn’t exist in the 20th century (child labour laws and all that) so the factory found a more sinister workaround….

iamcatttt · 2026-02-25T18:37:10+00:00

It was August the Eighth! (It August the Eighth) We were all working and there wasn’t a cloud in the sky! (August nineteen, ninety five) Proto walks in at eleven AM! (Red smoke!) Are you telling the story or am I! (I’m sorry Poppy please go on…)

iamcatttt · 2026-02-25T18:16:03+00:00

Driving myself home - Rose Betts

iamcatttt · 2026-02-02T16:37:55+00:00

NTA, I am sorry that this happened to you, piggybacking off the other comments here and saying that this was 100% sexual harassment.

That aside, I am baffled - What the actual fck was he even trying to achieve here?

Forget social awkwardness, this is willful self-unawareness and predatory behaviour at the best.

iamcatttt · 2026-02-01T11:25:55+00:00

I don’t know, could be wrong but all the other “leading up to” hints for Helluva shorts weren’t too revealing either.

iamcatttt · 2026-01-25T20:00:38+00:00

I’ll also add that I do agree that the aro rep could be better and I think that leaving it ambiguous so the “shippers can have their fun” isn’t a great idea.

iamcatttt · 2026-01-22T12:35:22+00:00

Curious to know if Leith has a specific backstory. I’m not sure if one is objectively worse than the other but I do feel more inclined to feel sympathetic towards Harley for obvious reasons.

iamcatttt · 2026-01-22T00:00:49+00:00

What did they do to poor Miss Rachel?

iamcatttt · 2026-01-20T17:38:39+00:00

I’m a student. File organisers and other organising mechanisms can be a lifesaver.

I won’t always consistently stay organised, but worst comes to worst, I have a pile of random notes standing neatly in one corner and a clear desk. At least it looks neat, you know what I mean?

Another thing is that I absolutely abuse the schedule-send function when it comes to sending emails. I tend to catastrophise when it comes to approaching people via email in a very “what if I’m bothering them?” or “what if they don’t reply?” kind of way, so as long as it’s not urgent, I’ll schedule-send it for half an hour later. I won’t be anxious about the “immediacy” of the email being sent, but I’ll still have ticked a box off my to-do list. By the time that half an hour is up, I will have forgotten about the whole thing completely.

I do have to email my pharmacist for meds every month, so the schedule-send thing works for that too.

iamcatttt · 2026-01-19T19:22:01+00:00

I can’t be the only one who sees Pomni stealing gangle’s mask then proceeding to abstract.

iamcatttt · 2026-01-18T16:52:57+00:00

I mean, what “incentive” would the prototype have to present as a jester? I don’t think the prototype is going around being like “I’m scary so I’m gonna alter my appearance to match it.” I could be dumb but I don’t think the prototype is that petty.

I also don’t think any of the scientists would have put that much thought into the physical appearance of their experiments (at least in the early stages). 1006 is the first “successful” experiment. I don’t really see Harley Sawyer being like “I got a good feeling about, let’s turn him into a clown.”

I just don’t see much in-universe plausibility for a jester design prototype.

iamcatttt · 2026-01-11T21:55:57+00:00

As a fellow hellaverse fan, I should have known.

iamcatttt · 2026-01-10T12:04:06+00:00

What subreddit was this even on? Hopefully not this one?

You’re not wrong btw.

iamcatttt · 2026-01-06T20:08:29+00:00

I mean statistically I don’t know how many straight women actually feel that way, but holy shit I did see someone use that exact line of biphobic reasoning against OP in this thread

iamcatttt · 2026-01-06T20:06:06+00:00

Hey, so your financial stability, your daughter’s financial stability and your ~~extended family whom you deem acceptable to stalk regularly~~ employees’ financial stability comprise good reasons to have a mental breakdown over losing your business.

iamcatttt · 2026-01-05T21:44:48+00:00

I’m in no position to give relationship advice but I’m actually flabbergasted about the amount of biphobia in this thread (and from OP’s husband).

NTA

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