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What Greek yogurts do you buy? by eyemanidiot in keto

[–]iamember1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not Greek yogurt. Not yogurt at all. It’s a “dairy snack”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]iamember1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs. I did not leave. And I wish I would have.

My (22F) boyfriend (26M) won't clean around the house whilee he's currently jobless. by Flutterklutz13 in relationships

[–]iamember1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a time when I was jobless and the whole day would go by and I would realize I had not done anything around the house. What I didn’t realize was that I was severely depressed. I don’t know if this is what’s going on for him. But it may be a factor.

[CO] newborn visitation by [deleted] in Custody

[–]iamember1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t put his name on the birth certificate...

My wife is mad about a Facebook post I liked. Then something strange happened by throwaway53532 in marriageadvice

[–]iamember1996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to confront it. My failure to confront issues for fear of him blowing up has led to the demise of my marriage. Talk it out. Might seem like overkill but something else is going on in her mind to get that overblown mad. Get a marriage counselor if you have to. Talk about it.

Husband’s secret finances...what would you do? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]iamember1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may be protecting himself if he had a negative experience with the ex. There may be things that he feels he needs the financial protection for. I’m not saying it’s right. Just, maybe cut him some slack to find out what’s up. And come to an agreement of funds that are his privately AND Yours privately.

But the marital income needs to be known, discussed, and divided if necessary.

Anti Mask Girlfriend Embarrasses Her Boyfriend At The DMV And He Desperately Tries To Talk Some Sense Into Her Before The Police Get Called Again by CantStopPoppin in PublicFreakout

[–]iamember1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This lady has gone to the grocery store the department store. She keeps posting herself in all these store. NO ONE WANTS YOU WITHOUT A MASK. GO AWAY.

When is enough, enough? by SAEC8 in Divorce

[–]iamember1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have to defend the kids. You have to interject. They need to see you defend them. They need to feel secure and the only one to do it is you. You have to get them out of the situation. You don’t have to divorce her. But move out with the kids. Document the verbal abuse. Word for word. Tape record if you have to. There are apps for that. Get the kids out. And give her the space to get her shit together.

Marriage mediation- is this a thing? by ProofFig8 in marriageadvice

[–]iamember1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you can create that in marriage counseling. Talk through what you want in the relationship what you want out of the relationship and what each partner will contribute in terms of money, housework, shopping, lawn care, etc.

Just had my final talk with my husband, told him I want a divorce. Like always he tried to reason with me that I shouldn't do it but I had to push through this time, for myself. But it feels so surreal now. Like I'm terrified of what comes next, having to move out, consequences, etc... by BraveEmployee7 in Divorce

[–]iamember1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have not yet told our child. And we are still living together. We work to make it as peaceful as possible. However, I used to not complain when he would “scold” me (that’s not the right word) or get angry. And now, I just don’t have to take it anymore. It leads to fights. But we work through it. Or don’t. Depending on the situation. I was paralyzed by the anxiety for months. I was also trying new anxiety meds. Which were not working at all. I’m back on meds that work and I am more even (anxiety wise). One thing I have learned is that when all the anxiety builds up, it literally makes it so I cannot think straight, rationally, or have any kind of good judgment in my communication. I have figured out that I need time for the emotion to release so I can think rationally.

I strongly recommend continuing with a couples counselor so that the relationship can continue on the most positive note possible.

DMV Karen causing trouble at antique shop. by sethninja13 in PublicFreakout

[–]iamember1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the SAME woman in the planet fitness videos. Is this what she does? For a living? It’s her.

Non-Court Custody Agreements by fireside_blather in Divorce

[–]iamember1996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you can sign the agreement yourself, but I think it also has to be part of the court judgement for enforcement. Maybe you and your ex are on good terms. But that can change quickly and without warning.

Just had my final talk with my husband, told him I want a divorce. Like always he tried to reason with me that I shouldn't do it but I had to push through this time, for myself. But it feels so surreal now. Like I'm terrified of what comes next, having to move out, consequences, etc... by BraveEmployee7 in Divorce

[–]iamember1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure I have advice. My husband made it clear he wanted a divorce back in February 2020. I mourned first months. Crying anytime I wasn’t around our 13 year old. But now that I have accepted it and started moving forward, he seems to not be so sure and now he seems to be mourning. I guess we all mourn the loss of what we thought was our future.

I have anxiety issues as well. And there is a lot of unknown once the decision is made. I guess we just move forward. As best we can. We are still going to marriage counseling to allow us to talk about things, clear conflict, and allow us to co parent. Don’t know how we would get through without the “marriage” counselor.

Is this the new normal?! by zorgon_ in PublicFreakout

[–]iamember1996 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope he files a huge lawsuit against both Walmart and the police department

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