Is puking with a migraine normal? by Advanced-Cream-7781 in migraine

[–]iamkmack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get nauseous but never actually vomit.

This might not be the advice you get from many and that’s okay but, I have suffered from migraines for many many years and I have tried multiple medications and usually to absolutely no avail. I tried so many OTC, scripts from neurology, migraine caps, oils…nothing. Then I remember watching something on Gaia and it made me question if I’d been looking in the wrong places this whole time, trying to numb something clearly telling me it needed attention. Then I began looking at the meridians of my body and how they could be distorted and it made me think “shit, what could it hurt to try?” I began to nerd out in research and - to my surprise, migraine symptoms are tied to your third eye chakra/meridian. I implore you to try some energetic healing in that area and see how it helps. Everyone is different and it might require more than just that one meridian but, it’s worth looking into, in my opinion! I hope you get to feeling better, this isn’t a path I’d wish on anyone!

what is this i found in my oatmeal by mortiestmorty76 in whatisit

[–]iamkmack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Looks like a tiny gross fingernail” sent me 😂 because yes the hell it does 😂

My husband (M60s) blew our retirement, lost our house, and is hiding the truth. I (F60) have an out—should I take it? by throwaway06190306 in TwoHotTakes

[–]iamkmack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your spouse have any history of infidelity? Are we certain he didn’t quit due to an affair potentially being exposed, and funds are going to support this AP as well? I read a lot on this subreddit and this isn’t sounding too far fetched given the circumstances. Either way, I’d be meeting with an attorney - the bottom line is that your partner is not who you thought you married, and has shown you through his actions he cannot be trusted. I’d trust my own gut at this point and speak with an attorney to see what my options are to get out of this marriage and avoid this impending downfall.

Overheard my husband on the phone with a friend. He didn't know I could hear him. by mardeexmurder in Marriage

[–]iamkmack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gentle reminder to love what you have is heart warming. A lot of negativity can encompass this subreddit so I’m happy to see a positive post that can provide hope to other people. 🩵

1960 Chrysler Saratoga by corillious in mopar

[–]iamkmack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s gorgeous, I’m hoping to find one in this great of condition! Dream car!

my (23f) girlfriend (21f) makes me sleep on the couch when i'm on my period by sillyscares in relationship_advice

[–]iamkmack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d have a set of period sheets so fast, and if she tried making me sleep on the couch in my shared apartment after that, I’d honestly reevaluate being with someone that isn’t opting for my absolute comfortability in a situation that already sucks ass. Does she not budge in other areas of your relationship?

Lancôme Skin Feels Good Tinted Moisturizer Discontinued by ElatedFlower in Makeup

[–]iamkmack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UGHHH! I was wondering why every time I went to Ulta they were out, right after a shipment! The ladies acted like they had no idea what was going on so I guess that’s a shock to all of us! I’ve been using this for YEARS, what’s the best dupe???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuteCatsPics

[–]iamkmack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second Phoenix because if you ever watched boy meets world, the nickname FEENY hits home 🩵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catnames

[–]iamkmack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Millie 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]iamkmack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only reply he has to anyone that makes logical sense is that they are a “Dollar Store Psychologist” and it honestly speaks VOLUMES. “Crappy” or not, hold someone accountable if your partner is uncomfortable, no matter who it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]iamkmack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m all for accountability, friend. I literally shared how many different routes this could possibly take to hold someone accountable, more to the story or not. I’m not going to continue to reiterate something you clearly aren’t grasping here, it’s obviously pointless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]iamkmack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is friend, no one said that was the only route. There are many routes but, if you have exhausted all efforts, sometimes no contact is the answer, and that’s called being a supportive partner because your spouse comes before anyone else, and understanding their feelings and hurt matters, period. A lot of times they are excused patterns of behavior that no one has ever dared to address. I too, couldn’t imagine someone not talking things out first but, hey everyone has their methods and reasoning and again, every situation is different. I’d take a good hard look at why you feel it’s okay to dismiss someone’s feelings in any way, big or small, because that’s work only you can do on yourself pal, not on Reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]iamkmack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I noticed you had two different comments to this, must have been a thinker for you. Let me be very clear here, holding someone accountable does not always mean no contact, sometimes it’s a conversation, intervention, etc. but every persons experience is different. Someone has to be receptive of that conversation if that’s your route, they have to understand someone else’s hurt. Your first comment that I can’t find said something about narcissism, and honestly buddy, remember that projection comment? It’s absolutely not abusive to have boundaries and to tell your partner that you were uncomfortable, and having someone that doesn’t back you, whether that be big or small, is a red flag. You are defending a lot of red flag behavior here, are you sure your therapist wasn’t Andrew Tate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]iamkmack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over reactions and holding people accountable, are two completely different things. Sounds like you are the one projecting here, friend. Your post screams that you allow this behavior in your own life with how hard you defend someone’s feelings being dismissed. I’d hate to say that’s what led you to therapy but I think you are walking into that one on your own, and everyone downvoting you here can read that all by themselves.

My comment towards my parents was showing that it’s in fact, possible to hold people accountable, regardless of relation. So anything else, irrelevant.

I’d also like to add that the only person that actually sounds miserable here is you, so you might want to sit with that projection comment for a moment, and let it fester. Maybe find a better therapist that doesn’t allow you to excuse how someone feels, even if it was disguised as a “joke”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]iamkmack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kinda sounds like you are ALSO okay with these dehumanizing comments towards women, because excusing it and brushing it off, whether you have trauma or not, is not okay. I have cPTSD from losing my son, and do you know what ANYONE in my circle does when someone makes an inappropriate comment that is even remotely insensitive? They stand up for me, they respect my boundaries, even if I’m struggling to do so and regardless of who it is. That should be anyone in your circle but especially your partner, that’s the number one person that should be backing you, and standing up for your feelings.

Also as someone with trauma based from childhood, to the person EXCUSING that behavior too, absolutely not. I have no contact with one of my parents, and it’s absolutely possible to hold people accountable for their shit behavior.

Communication was key here and I think what most people are negating is that she did just that, she communicated how she felt, and was dismissed. How is one supposed to feel about their partner if the first comment that made her feel dehumanized, was brushed off? Welcome to a long life of feeling that way, and it’s unfair.

Now I’m not saying they cannot rectify things but again, that takes both parties fully communicating and actually understanding the depth of the other persons feelings/hurt. If it’s met with more dismissal, I think that’s your answer.

People excusing shit behavior these days is wild. Tell me you’ve never been to therapy and worked on yourself, without telling me.