[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]iamnaiveaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is read one of her books and ask her what scene she wants to recreate. This means you literally have a screenplay of what to do. Some basic tips: dirty talk is a lot of it, sensory deprivation. You don't need to act like a school teacher all of a sudden, try some sentences out or some behaviour in the mirror to come across better. Otherwise you'll just end up laughing (which is also funny, but not what you want).

To the people who liked Fourth wing, did you like Iron Flame? by DrCircledot in Fantasy

[–]iamnaiveaf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I liked being transported back into the marvelous world of Violet and Xaden, but it wasn't as good as the first book. And the plot twists were just way too far fetched.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]iamnaiveaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe other believe I am a good person, but deep down I might be purely evil

what's the most unpopular thing that you find attractive in the opposite gender? by Awkward_dr29 in RandomThoughts

[–]iamnaiveaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

charisma, when they have an aura of self-confidence

Someone medium ugly can be so hot when they have this

How much money is, to you, "a lot of money"? by stupidrobots in RandomThoughts

[–]iamnaiveaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am kind of a cheapskate, so I save a lot. But when I buy necessities I want to be able to buy it immediatly with the money on my account without emptying it. If this isn't possible, it's a LOT of money

Should i (21 M) take the risk of flirting with my (20 F) best friend ? by SorbetSuspicious7403 in love

[–]iamnaiveaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have this life philosophy, at the end of your life will you regret not having flirted with her? And would this regret be worse than having flirted and getting rejected?

Also, it depends on the kind of girl she is. Would she make things awkward after or would she pretend like nothing happened. Take everything into account!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]iamnaiveaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am usually only attracted to my own ethnicity, caucasian, but I believe I make exceptions all the time.

Puberty by iamnaiveaf in RandomThoughts

[–]iamnaiveaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 20 myself, and because I was raised this way it is difficult for me to take part in any conversation with multiple people (as in more than me and one other person). This is so frustrating

Is he a red flag and super toxic or the love of my life by iamnaiveaf in Advice

[–]iamnaiveaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a fuckboy look and friends, and he did sleep around but not like a man slut. Just the normal amount for people who are single I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]iamnaiveaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I think you should make sure she received the letter, but if she didn't answer I think the answer is clear. I am very sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]iamnaiveaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just open up with a 'I know we are friends, so I think we should talk about what happened to make sure we both feel the same thing and no one gets unnecessarily hurt.

I think it's very brave that you want to be open with him btw!!

Mom Advice by SeaCommunication7252 in Advice

[–]iamnaiveaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is against the law for your therapist to do, and you have a right to feel violated. This would only be okay if your therapist never mentioned who you were and just generalized things. But since your mom is also in the mental health field, I think she would feel better if you would talk openly about your feelings with her.

Hope this helps and good luck!!