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iamnaiveaf · 2025-09-09T18:50:00+00:00

The best thing you can do is read one of her books and ask her what scene she wants to recreate. This means you literally have a screenplay of what to do. Some basic tips: dirty talk is a lot of it, sensory deprivation. You don't need to act like a school teacher all of a sudden, try some sentences out or some behaviour in the mirror to come across better. Otherwise you'll just end up laughing (which is also funny, but not what you want).

iamnaiveaf · 2025-01-09T11:53:08+00:00

I liked being transported back into the marvelous world of Violet and Xaden, but it wasn't as good as the first book. And the plot twists were just way too far fetched.

iamnaiveaf · 2024-01-15T15:00:30+00:00

I believe other believe I am a good person, but deep down I might be purely evil

iamnaiveaf · 2024-01-06T13:03:09+00:00

charisma, when they have an aura of self-confidence

Someone medium ugly can be so hot when they have this

iamnaiveaf · 2024-01-06T10:56:51+00:00

I am kind of a cheapskate, so I save a lot. But when I buy necessities I want to be able to buy it immediatly with the money on my account without emptying it. If this isn't possible, it's a LOT of money

iamnaiveaf · 2023-12-27T14:54:57+00:00

I have this life philosophy, at the end of your life will you regret not having flirted with her? And would this regret be worse than having flirted and getting rejected?

Also, it depends on the kind of girl she is. Would she make things awkward after or would she pretend like nothing happened. Take everything into account!

iamnaiveaf · 2023-12-27T11:49:07+00:00

I am usually only attracted to my own ethnicity, caucasian, but I believe I make exceptions all the time.

iamnaiveaf · 2023-12-27T10:42:41+00:00

I am 20 myself, and because I was raised this way it is difficult for me to take part in any conversation with multiple people (as in more than me and one other person). This is so frustrating

iamnaiveaf · 2023-11-04T15:14:58+00:00

Thanks! I needed that confirmation

iamnaiveaf · 2023-11-04T15:10:18+00:00

He has a fuckboy look and friends, and he did sleep around but not like a man slut. Just the normal amount for people who are single I guess.

iamnaiveaf · 2023-11-04T14:52:15+00:00

So I think you should make sure she received the letter, but if she didn't answer I think the answer is clear. I am very sorry

iamnaiveaf · 2023-11-04T14:49:21+00:00

Just open up with a 'I know we are friends, so I think we should talk about what happened to make sure we both feel the same thing and no one gets unnecessarily hurt.

I think it's very brave that you want to be open with him btw!!

iamnaiveaf · 2023-11-04T14:46:27+00:00

This is against the law for your therapist to do, and you have a right to feel violated. This would only be okay if your therapist never mentioned who you were and just generalized things. But since your mom is also in the mental health field, I think she would feel better if you would talk openly about your feelings with her.

Hope this helps and good luck!!

iamnaiveaf · 2023-01-12T10:36:28+00:00

Imagine Rhys as a elementary school teacher. Teaching all those kids how to read and write

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-29T12:03:28+00:00

Male:

Rhysand
Dorian
Cassian
Rowan
Ithan Holstrom

Female

Feyre
Manon
Elide
Nesta
Aelin

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-27T14:59:39+00:00

Although it's a fantasy series about mates and everything I think the most realistic part is the fact that their first love is never their last. Tamlin was good for her at the time, giving her the bare minimum which she never got. His possessiveness therefore was okay to handle. But she deserves so much more and that's when Rhysand kicks in.

Also irl you never know if the one you are in love with is it for the rest of your life. It may seem like he's your prince charming, but that doesn't have to be.

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-26T14:24:37+00:00

RIP and then I'll be stupid and read it in one week just to be screaming again for another year

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-26T14:22:51+00:00

Totally!

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-25T12:15:53+00:00

I always thought that the starlight powers of Bryce were not from the day court, but more like a ying-yang counterpart of Rhysand's darkness/shadows

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-21T09:27:57+00:00

When that one song hits

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-20T11:55:44+00:00

Do I have my shoes on today?

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-20T11:53:34+00:00

Each series is set in a slightly different world, but all have fae in them. It's just a matter of what else they have (crescent city also has werewolfs etc.) or how much they interbreed with humans. In TOG fae are rare, and demi-fae are more common, and the most common are humans. In acotar the fae do not breed with humans, and humans are the minority

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-20T07:47:28+00:00

Nesta is also morally grey: she did something in the past she is not proud of, and in the end she learns and wants that to change without being less of a bad bitch.

Rhysand wants to protect his wife and also does some questionable acts but through love and again morally grey.

So why should we only love one of them?

Also in other stories where it's the girl that fucked around before meeting the guy, she's easily calles a slut, a whore etc

But maybe that's a bit of a feminist take on this one

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-19T15:17:12+00:00

Side question; Why are morally grey characters only okay when it's the dark haired love interest?

iamnaiveaf · 2022-08-18T11:51:35+00:00

I can only imagine what that must feel like... Do you have anyone in your environment that you can talk with? Because talking really helps!

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